Advice on the complexity of women. maybe i am over analyzing things?

I met this girl at the food place i regularly go to. She works there. I was in line and was in a confident mood. I smiled and she started a conversation with me. Two weeks later after seeing her there several times i worked up the nerve to ask her if she was seeing anyone and if i could get her number. She said ';kinda'; but she would love to hang out. 2 weeks later she asked me (!) out at her work and we went out for the first time a couple days later. she said she had a wonderful time and would love to do it on a regular basis ';at least once a week'; just after the first time. we arranged a second date for sushi which we mutually like and she sent me several texts saying how excited she was and how much she was looking forward to our date. we had an excellent time. she was noticeably closer to me in body language. as in holding on to my arm and rubbing her hand up my arms while we talked. I kissed her that night before parting. we hadn't discussed a third date before parting.. I told her in several messages after that over the course of the following week that I liked her personality n such. how beautiful inside and out she was. compliments n such. she didn't really give me any compliments back though...she did say she was ';flattered to have caught my attention';. I had approached her about when she had some time available next, a week later but she was busy that weekend cause she was going to see her family and she would call me and maybe she could see me before she left. she never did call or text. I felt I was being too pushy and open with my feelings after that and backed off for a week n didn't talk to her or go see her. a week later i text ed her and asked how she was and she said she was having a bad week cause of her ';ex'; ruining her peace, and i chipped in a joke and few genuine words of advice that she didn't respond to. I figured it was a sensitive area and her battle not mine and left it alone. I saw her the next day and she ';ran'; up and hugged me (she always comes out and hugs me whenever i stop in) and she said we would hang out soon. I didn't act over eager and played cool... i saw her again a two days later and she still hugged me but didn't respond to another text later that night.. she hasn't sent me any messages like she first did since the second date and really hasn't sent me any messages in the past 2 weeks.. I don't know what to read of the situation. I've been avoiding being pushy. I don't know the details of her recent relationship. I don't think she is using me, cause her personality (strong down to earth independent) doesn't reflect that type and the usual signs of being used are not showing.. though I've tested her for guilt by saying how good a person she is. she said ';why do you think that?';..curious.... I also noticed she was indecisive in small things like ordering food... she's bi also but prefers guys... She is a rare find for me and my friends have all said she is an 8.5 to 9.0 out of ten. don't understand why she doesn't respond to me or sends me messages since that second date. but acts different on those occasions when i see her. I've been confident and sensitive on our dates. I know nice guys always finish last and the suggestions have been to ignore her.... seems women never seem to appreciate genuine down to earth sensitive men. A dying breed...Maybe i should stop being a wussy and be more masculine... I don't know if i should blatantly confront her and ask her if she is just using me to get over a recent relationship..but .I just don't want to lose out on this opportunity. I'm not looking for any comitment, just going with the moment and i've made that clear that even if things don't work out i'd like to be friends... I don't know if anyone has insight through experience, if this is a familiar pattern/ character type for some women. I'm 24 by the way and she's 21. Thank you all for your advice in advanceAdvice on the complexity of women. maybe i am over analyzing things?
hmmmm... i would just talk to her nicely :)


dnt push her. it doesnt seem she s using ou. she is probably just stuck and cunfused

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