I'm having feeling for another women for the 1st time and need advice?

I'm 25 and have dated lots of men but I met a women on the weekend that I was turned on by a little.


I went to a gay bar with my good friend. She was flirting with another women so I went ouside to give them some space and to smoke a cigarette.


A women approached me and asked me for a lite and we started chatting. She is a regular there and bartends there during the week. Before I left she said I hope to see you again some time.


I've never dated another women before but I am intersted in her. Should I go to the bar on my own and see where it goes? I'm kind of nervous plus I have been seeing a guy for the past month who I am kind of not interested in anymore.





Any advice is welcome.I'm having feeling for another women for the 1st time and need advice?
yeaa qo for it.


exspecially if shes hot=]


lolI'm having feeling for another women for the 1st time and need advice?
Well since your not interested in the guy anymore, even if you didn't have someone else in mind, I wouldn't keep seeing him.


And sure, if your interested in the woman you met at the bar, then go again, never know what might happen. :)





If your nervous about going on your own, you could get a friend to go with you again.
just be calm. be yourself. if she asks you whether you've dated other girls, be honest. its great that youre so open and okay with it though! when most girls realize they like another girl they flip out and think they're weirdos or something.
think of friendship rather than relationship and the question answers itself. meet her
if you like the girl and want to see where things go, then go for it. dump the guy first though...you know what, dump the guy anyways. theres no reason why you should be we someone you arent interested in anymore.





have fun:)





add: in all honesty, dating a women is just like dating a guy. women may be more funner, hotter, and etc lol but really its the same.





oh and lol yeah';hitch'; lmao is right. i think its better if you are straight forward. say something like'; look ive never been with a women or anything but i really like you. id like to see where things could go.';
You just have to be honest with yourself. It doesn't matter what any body else in this world thinks. Just really dig deep inside yourself and find out if you really like this person, go to the bar and have a drink adn chat with the girl. This is what I would do, I would call or go over there to find out if she's working (whenever you're ready) and then if she IS working yuo can go and order a drink. Play it off like you weren't trying to see her but instead she just happened to be there again. Have 1 drink ONLY. Ask her for her number before you leave, and then TADA you're good to go. I promise it works. If she says why are you leaving so soon blah blah blah, make her want it just a little and say you have to go meet some other people and you were only stopping in for one drink. Make sure you make it seem very nonchalant and that you really have to get going somewhere. If she asks you to stay longer or whatever then reconsider your options and stay if you want, but make it seem like you had to cancel. You don't want her to think that you're stalking her.





There is another way to go about it.. you could just straight up tell her that you came back to see if she was here because you were interested in getting to know her better...





Good luck... email me if you have any other questions, they call me Hitch :P


hhaha jk