I would like to have a woman's advice on dating

On a first date (with a guy you've been 'seeing' for about 1 week - but haven't actually been on a date just the 2 of you) what would you expect to happen ?





I dont want to pressure or rush things, but at the same time i dont want her to think i'm not interested. I would like to have a woman's advice on dating
just relax. make her laugh! be yourself and be very sweet. hold her hand and take a walk. if the moment's right. slowly go in for a kiss. only if you're ready tho. I would like to have a woman's advice on dating
I'd expect him to be really sweet and to ask my opinion on whatever plans he made for the date. I'd be ok with splitting costs or letting him pay for most of it (ex: he buys movie tickets and i buy the popcorn or he buys dinner and i give a bit towards the tip) and if he was nervous, awkward, whatever, I wouldn't care too much. It'd be fine if he put his arm around me, held hands, or kissed me a bit...as long as he wasn't acting desperate or like trying to makeout with me in public or something, it'd be fine.
That's difficult to answer because every woman has different expectations depending on her interest in that particular guy. Your best bet is to just feel the situation out. Flirt so she knows you're definitely interested and based on her responses, take it from there. You want to make her comfortable and have the both of you have a great time together. If you both have fun it'll lead to more dates and that's when you can really start putting more expectations in. For a first day with a guy, I myself don't really have any expectations other than to see how much in common we are or aren't and if I enjoy being around him, because you never know what you're going to get. Go with the flow! Good luck!
I would expect a nice dinner, somewhere you can go to really get to know each other one on one. It doesn't have to be too over the top, just a nice date. The most important thing is that you can both talk and really get to know each other when others aren't around.
i mean no sex of course but a kiss would be nice. to me its ok to kiss on the first kiss. maybe you should ask her but hint it. just dont come out with it. be like do you think its ok to kiss on the first date. wat ever her answer is then thats hat you respect.
chat easily, ask her about her family and friends and stuff like that, but don't get too deep or serious. just be calm, tell a few jokes, and try your best. she should like you for you.
don't go by what others expect.. feel out the moment and go with it. Let her know you are interested and see what happens.
Try holding hands - and do a lot of talking to each other. Though other people may be around, making each other matter from the beginning is important.
b yourself that always works : ) and if she dosent like you for you thin shes not worth it
look into her eyes deeply.....um...maybe hold hands..i don't think ur supposed to kiss on the 1st date. maybe if u both really want 2

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Woman, I need advice on a marriage proposal?

Answer whatever you can; Im going to make a nice dinner. What candles smell really good and will look nice at the dinner table. What really romantic music/song should I play while I ask her to marry me? Thanks a lot!Woman, I need advice on a marriage proposal?
My fiancee gave me a watch for christmas, which was really nice. I was wearing it for about 3 hours, before he obviously couldn't wait anymore, and told me to look at the back. He had engraved ';will you marry me'; on the back, and he pulled a ring out of his pocket.





It was really nice, and it gave me something to remember that moment forever.





Sorry, i just read that question properly. I would put on some nice vanilla or chocolate candles, and just have some nice soft music going in the background.Woman, I need advice on a marriage proposal?
Two other ideas: Take her to the place you guys went on your first date OR go on a picnic.





Play either your ';couple'; song or if you don't have one then play her favorite cd.





Surround the table with her favorite flowers, or give her a bouquet of her favorite flowers (or if you don't know, give her roses).





As for candles, most smell nice, but when you light them they don't really smell that strong. If you are really concerned with the smell then pick something that she likes : sweet, floral, spicy, or fresh. You could look at what lotions/perfumes she wears and pick a similar scent i.e: she wears mango scented lotion pick mango cause you know she likes it. Or you could go for odorless candles in white or her favorite color. (Check the link- bath and bodyworks has THE BEST smelling candles!!! and super nice lotions/bubblebaths/etc!!)





If you want a lot of candles, pick up a jumbo bag of tealights. They're tiny and produce a lot of light, you can get A LOT for not that expensive.





Also, make sure to clean your house really well the day before the proposal. She'll be really happy with you and a clean house=more romantic!!





GOOD LUCK!!!!! ;)
If you are cooking dinner then I would suggest unscented candles. You wouldn't want them to compete with the smell of wonderful food. Just don't forget dessert!! Make something special for dessert too, and that will make the whole house smell great.





As for music, I definitely reccomend some really romantic oldies. Something from the fifties or sixties. Many of the songs from that era are timeless and truly romantic. There is nothing worse than remembering the song that was playing when you were proposed to was written for some cheesy movie. Make a whole CD of great songs, let it play, and when it feels right go for it!
What is her favorite scent? You can get candles in just about any aroma you can think of these days. Same with music: do you have a song that is ';your song?'; If not, think of a song that reminds you of why you love her and have it playing during dinner. You sound like a really nice guy...good luck and I hope she says yes!
Flowers are a must (preferably rose petals) and it is really important that you get down on one knee. Tell her that you don't want to spend the rest of your life with anyone but her. The song that you play should be really personal to you both. If you still can't think of one, I'd choose something classic like L.O.V.E





Good Luck :) :) :)
Flowers, transparent beads or stones decorate on the table.


Sincerity expression on the marriage proposal night


God Bless...
Play YOUR song! The song you would want to dance your first dance too
make sure you play sweet music that she likes


cook her favorite food,


get really nice flowers and pretty much knock her off her feet make her really impressed then pop the question:)
Vanilla.


';Have You Ever Really Loved A Woman?';, by Bryan Adams
do it in a unique and unforgettable way.
dont take advice off of here on how to propose.. just do it..

Legal advice need to marry a foreign woman who is elder than me plss help (and advocates here plss help me )?

im an Indian man and im in love with an Indonesian Muslim woman in fact im Christian


she is elder than me, is that age will be a problem?


how i can make her as my wife?


i need help from advocates here


plss help me to know the rules and regulations and wat all laws i need to prepare to make her as my wife





plss helppLegal advice need to marry a foreign woman who is elder than me plss help (and advocates here plss help me )?
It would be more useful if you ask this in the Indonesian section on Yahoo! answrs

Help, i need some seroius advice, woman only please?

ok, well i just got kicked out of school, but thats not the problem, the real problem is that theres this girl shelby, she was in my lit class, i really really like her, but now i never get to see her anymore, the only time i ever talk to her now is on facebook, i really want to be with her, what should i doHelp, i need some seroius advice, woman only please?
Well first see if Shelby is comfortable with you being kicked out of school. Normally that can be a big turn off for girls. If she is comfortable, try to go to places she often goes to. Ask her to do something fun with you.Help, i need some seroius advice, woman only please?
Get her number. Call her and get to know each other personally. Once the casual calls are over with. Try and do something fun with her. Ask her out and try and find out all her ups and downs.

Can anyone offer advice for a shy woman looking to meet men to date?

I have tried meeting men online but really would like to meet a guy face to face in a social setting. However I feel anxious about social situations..sometimes I don't feel like I come across very well or that people are ignoring me. Can you tell me some social settings that might be good for a shy person to meet men to date? Also, has anyone shy ever dealt with this? How do you balance being a homebody with wanting to go out and meet someone?Can anyone offer advice for a shy woman looking to meet men to date?
Take it from a guy who was also in the same situation, but trying to find the right girl, the right guy will find you. Live your life concentrate on completing you. When the time is right and the right guy is worth your time, it will happen. Don't look to ';make'; it happen. Because you're shy, you're cautious. Today... caution is good. It may sound corny, but you're the prize... let them come to you.Can anyone offer advice for a shy woman looking to meet men to date?
Where are you? Give me your phone number I'll date you.
Ok, I know this will sound bad but if your having trouble in the man department is it do to sexual frustration if so try to how do you say this with out offending any one ....rub one out before you even go out. Next stay away from the bar seen that not the type of people you want to get to know, and the web well I could tell you I was 6'6'; and 250 pounds of muscle and hung like a horse there is just know way to tell over the Internet. So here is my next peace of advice go out to dinner with a few of you friends get use to being out and about, next find something you like to do and become a regular at it rather it's bowling or horse back riding it dose not matter, That's where your going to find some one who you can relate to on some level or another. See if your going some where your confertible at and you find some one doing some thing you like to do at the place at which you conferable at then the chance are you will be relaxed enough to have a conversation or even a date for that matter you never know unless you try, so for god sakes keep on trying there is some one for every one you, me, even the guy next store. Good luck and I hope everything works out for you.
just be yourself if you are yours you will find everyone will like you for who you are dont try to hard

I want a true advice from a woman?

i feel like bedding my friend who is 36 yr old and just got married a year ago. i am married and 28 yrs old. shez trying for a baby and unable to concieve. but i feel like bedding her and giving her a child. she likes me and talks about her relationship wth her husband also. pls advice me?I want a true advice from a woman?
Keep out of it and keep away from her...you guys are BOTH married and are playing with fire and will eventually get burned.I want a true advice from a woman?
don't do it if you respect your wife and your relationship. it doesn't seem like you respect her marriage, cause you're already thinking about doing your friend. but if you love and respect your wife, don't even think about it. think how you would feel if your wife finds out or if your wife was the one having the same feeling as you towards another man. honor your marriage
That is none of your business. It would be different if they BOTH approached and asked for your help with it. If they don't ask you shouldn't offer. I know she's your friend but somethings need to be handled within their own household before anyone should butt in their business. Plus you don't even know how her Hubby would handle that..
don't do it, leave her alone

For those of you that just had a baby what is one good advice that you would give a 5 month pregnant woman?

Something that you did and shouldn't have done or vice versaFor those of you that just had a baby what is one good advice that you would give a 5 month pregnant woman?
STAY AWAY FROM SALTY FOODS AND SALT! It makes you retain alot of water and after birth you will be SWOLLEN from your face to your feet.and it is NOT pretty! LOL I ate alot of salty foods with my first pregnancy and was soo swollen after birth...With my second it stayed away from them and was just fine.For those of you that just had a baby what is one good advice that you would give a 5 month pregnant woman?
don't move dressers with 30 inch t.v.s on top of them by yourself! i was off work for a week its hard or it was for me to come to the realization that i could no longer do the things i could before i was pregnant like lifting heavy stuff and stairs i felt like i was a wussy about things but the dr said so so listen when they tell you to or not to do something
watch your weight gain..wish someone would of told me that.. everyone was telling me to eat what you want..sure.. now the baby is almost 7 months and i still have 30lbs extra... oh and rest as much as you can before the baby comes..you won't get much once the baby is here..good luck
Don't feel like you need to do everything- this is your time to relax, eat and let others do things for you. Milk it while you can.
Start doing pregnancy yoga, and consider a home birth, you get more attention then you would in a hospital.
Cherish every moment good and bad - and take tons of pics and video. They change so much in that first year!



Work as much as you can now, and as long as you can. Take care of yourself, but that way when the baby is born you can put off getting back to work as long as possible.
There right. After a while othere won't do as much as they use to di, so while they want to . Let them do it.

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Advice, I need to win back the woman of my dreams.?

Im in love with a woman who is strong, kind, smart, beautiful and sings like an angel straight from heaven. She feels she cant trust me because I continually travel between France and America. How do I prove to her that she can trust me?Advice, I need to win back the woman of my dreams.?
perform a magic trick =DAdvice, I need to win back the woman of my dreams.?
If she can't trust you then she doesn't love you.





Bring her with you if she means that much to you.





Would that be the trust you are referring to?
JUSt give it time and just do what you normally do u said she can trust you so y do u need to change

I'm 20 and want to attract an older woman any advice on seducing a more mature female?

23-36I'm 20 and want to attract an older woman any advice on seducing a more mature female?
if your a good lookin mature 20 i think your probably onto a winner just make sure to overdo the flattery us older birds like that ;)I'm 20 and want to attract an older woman any advice on seducing a more mature female?
you're 20- that is the answer!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
flattery gets you everywhere
be yourself
Get a zimmer frame and go to bingo!
Are you sure she won't be seducing you! Just at like yourself
Older women have a tendancy to know what they want so if you've got what it takes-they'll let you know
Try these tips.
speaking as someone who has experience with a lot of older women. you need to source out tourists around 35-45 year mark. you need charm intelligence and the gift of the gab. a lot of divorced women like to be spoilt, don't be stingy. tell them how beautiful they are. if you get a date don't be afraid to kiss them on meeting them. don't be too picky or expectant. if all goes well and its back to the hotel, have fun but be sure to leave before they wake up. don't give any personal info about yourself. home number address workplace, and if you have to lie don't worry about it. if your after some fun it's easy enough to do, but if you want a relationship forget about it! women that age come with a lot of excess baggage and even worse, kids!
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Be charming and make them feel young
Put it this way .... By the time you get to seduce the women she will already have decided wether she is even interested in you or not. So just be yourself
The best advice I can give you is putting yourself in their surroundings. Women who are 23 to 36 have grown out of the ';college scene'; and might be happier to just have a great dinner and decent drinks compared to going to a loud club and chugging beers. Look to put yourself in those sort of scenes.


If you aren't good at throwing game in these environments, go online and find a dating site that fits you; once you do that, customize your search for women between the ages of 23 and 36.
well im 28 and dont go for younger men,my boyfriends 39 so im not sure women in their twenties would be interested but women in their 30s will be flattered.shouldnt be too difficult to find one who needs a confidence boost
forget the age. show your personality. do not try to be more mature than you can, there are limits and she will know it. besides, maybe she likes that youth and ';immaturity'; in you...
Hmmn. I would say go to places, bars etc that have an older crowd, not the usual young chavy places where you would expect to find young blokes/girls dressed the same.

I'm a single woman whose moving from Miami to Atlanta advice on what area to live,areas/places to avoid?

Traffic is terrible in Atlanta. (I don't think the infrastructure can support all the people who have moved here!) So ... to avoid a long daily commute, I would start by looking in the proximity of where you plan to work or go to school. There are apartment complexes throughout Atlanta and the suburbs that really cater to newcomers and singles, with parties and other social events.





If you want to live in town, Buckhead and midtown are popular (and pricey) places. If you want to live near town, while saving money, check out Smyrna.





You'll like it here. There's a lot to do; Atlanta is a good place to forge a new chapter in your life!I'm a single woman whose moving from Miami to Atlanta advice on what area to live,areas/places to avoid?
Living close to work is a big plus in Atlanta. But only if work is in a desirable neighborhood. Also living close to the train is a good idea if the train will get you to work.





The best suburban areas are all north or downtown Atlanta. Avoid southwest Atlanta, anything on the west end and almost every county south of downtown.





If you want to live downtown look at Midtown first, then Buckhead, then Brookhaven, Ponce Highland and some of the neighborhoods north and east of downtown. If you prefer suburban life check out Marietta, Sandy Springs, Dunwoody.





Further out is Alpharetta, Roswell, Johns Creek and Cumming but being a single woman I'm not sure you would want to live 40 miles outside the city.





Cobb County, North Fulton, Gwinette and South Forsyth (way north) is where you want to concentrate your efforts on.I'm a single woman whose moving from Miami to Atlanta advice on what area to live,areas/places to avoid?
Be careful. You can find an AWESOME apartment right next door to the ghetto. I loved living in Virginia Highland area at Gables Rock Springs and I lived in the Perimeter area at Post Dunwoody. Those were both great when I lived there (it was about 5 years ago though). But if you call a police station and ask about an apartment complex they will tell you the crimes that have occurred there and about the area around it.

How do I do it? I need a woman's advice on this please?

my ';boyfriend'; wants me to wear women's lingerie with him and I don't mind but I feel a little uncomfortable. not sure how to go about all this. help please. oh yea and we're gayHow do I do it? I need a woman's advice on this please?
It is a lot of fun you should try it and see how you like it.





Done this for years and even once in awhile will go try on things in the women's dressing room just don't take off the bra and the falsies.





When you get up enough nerve go to a spa get a wax done and then put on a bathing suit and lounge by the pool. U will see how the other side lives and how many free drinks the guys will buy u both.How do I do it? I need a woman's advice on this please?
Why do you feel uncomfortable?





Accept that you are the ';woman'; in the relationship and enjoy it
Don't do it if it makes you uncomfortable. How will you enjoy anything? Wear it in your room by yourself and when you feel more better about it then you should go with him and do it.
Dont know why you need a woman to respond to this.





But as someone in the Transgender Community. If your boyfriend likes to crossdress, you dont have to, unless you want to.





If you would like to approach this with an open mind. an open heart and being respectful to his feelings and desires.. seek out a gender identity specialist and go to counseling with your boyfriend.





Even if you dont end up crossdressing with him, at least you will be seeking out ways of dealing with it and still respecting his feelings.
do you want to? ask yourself.





whats the reason....if it play ...do it...if you like...

Ladies only. what advice could you give to anovice x-dresser on passing as a woman?

i.e what to wear how to act etc.


any advice would be much appreciated .xLadies only. what advice could you give to anovice x-dresser on passing as a woman?
If you really want to pass, as opposed to just dressing up to amuse yourself or do a drag show or whatever...





Don`t overdo anything. If you draw attention to yourself with extremes, you will stick out like a sore thumb and people will be more likely to scrutinize you and notice you`re not technically female. The person above who noticed that crossdressers often overdo it... well, they noticed because those guys weren`t successfully passing as women. If they had been, that poster wouldn`t have noticed a thing.





Instead of looking at fashion magazines, look at regular women you see every day for inspiration. Look at how they do their hair and what they`re actually wearing.





Keep the makeup subtle, simple, and pretty close to your natural skin tones. If possible, take a female friend whose makeup usually looks fine to the store and get her to help you pick out colours.





Don`t wear high heels unless you are absolutely sure you know how to walk in them without even thinking about it. Walking funny in heels will look awkward and draw attention.





When you sit, sit with your knees close together.





It`s common to carry some sort of purse or bag for odds and ends. You may be used to going around with just a wallet, but put that wallet in a front pocket of your purse, and throw a bunch of other things into the big part. Carry gum, a hairbrush, makeup, an address book, a phone, pens, old receipts, change, a nail file, your keys... basically a large jumble of items. I suspect that purses, once the jumble reaches a critical mass, develop force fields that attract random small objects, suck them into the purse when nobody is looking, and toss them around like a salad.





Trim and file your nails to be tidy. Put on some light pink nail polish if you have good nails, or a more dramatic colour if you`re good at putting on nail polish and can do it neatly. But skip the fake nails with rhinestones.Ladies only. what advice could you give to anovice x-dresser on passing as a woman?
If you want to pass as a woman, then dress like a woman, if you're trying to be slutty, then you're going to look like a whore. Try to dress for the occasion %26amp; find yourself some help, either a girl from work or the a girl next door or even a shop down the street. If you really want help from the ladies on crossdressing, all you have to do is ask, there's more help out there than you'd ever imagine.
get to know them first, introduce urself to them, and tell them about christ ,pray for a change in their lives,basically the right thing we can do for them.. sry im not a lady , nor cross dresser , but find this topic interesting -alex
wear lbds act friendly flirty and cute flash your eyes
I have noticed that a lot of crossdressers over do. They either look a lot like their mothers or a lot like a tramp. I think the best thing to do is look at what women wear to work, to the mall, to go grocery shopping in... take note in the subtleties.

What song on Trace Adkins' newest album does his mother give him advice on what type of woman he should find..?

and when he does finds one that meets her criteria, he tells her she won鈥檛 be needing any of grandma鈥檚 recipes because she can鈥檛 boil water?What song on Trace Adkins' newest album does his mother give him advice on what type of woman he should find..?
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Advice on when a woman tells you that she is afriad to get hurt.?

Ive been seeing this girl for a while now, and she tells me that she is afriad to open up to me because of fear of her falling in love and getting hurt, what can i do to help her, i want her to open up to me and love me,Advice on when a woman tells you that she is afriad to get hurt.?
If it is true whisper to her ';I will never hurt you.';Advice on when a woman tells you that she is afriad to get hurt.?
There is nothing you can really do. Except for show her that she can trust you and that you will be there for her no matter what. And make sure that she knows you care about her a lot.
Sorry, she's not interested in you in *that* way.





She's just trying to let you down easy.
show her rather than tell her how much you care for her

What is the best dating advice you can give to a woman over 40 who wants marriage and children?

1. Never act desperate - Speaking from a guys point of view: Guys freak out when they sense urgency in a woman. Hide your ';Biological Clock is Ticking Syndrome';!





2. If you have a boyfriend, and he doesn't want to get married to you. Simple. You need to leave the boyfriend to seek greener pastures. Logic.





3. If you don't have a boyfriend. Get one. How? If you don't already know, there are a thousand guys out there who would absolutely die to be with you. That's the good news! The bad news...none of them may live in your city, state, or possibly even your country. It's all a big crap-shoot really.





4. Be confident and take chances. Don't sit at your house with your dog and just dream. Don't continually run around with the same circle of friends. Break the mold. Chances are, by doing something different in your life--you may tigger something positive like a relationship. Do some traveling. Join some social groups.





5. If marriage and/or having children is not possible--try and settle for a ball of yarn and some knitting needles (just joking). Have you thought about adoption?





Anyways, Good Luck!What is the best dating advice you can give to a woman over 40 who wants marriage and children?
If you think you've found the right guy for marriage,then go for it. As far as children,giving birth at 40+ may be difficult (especially if it's the first pregnancy). A Gynecologist can answer that for you. (Good Luck!)What is the best dating advice you can give to a woman over 40 who wants marriage and children?
Be very clear with the men you are wanting to date that you still want children. Most men would assume that a woman over 40 is probably done having kids.
be yourself and show them what are u made of, be more like open minded and yes not be so picky, have fun and maybe istiemt o hurry up if u want children but you can always adopt
Stop being so picky
obviously something is wrong if u are over 40 and single seriously u need to sit down with some of your close friends and ask them things that u do that would piss them off or turn off guys seriously cuz it aint all about looks us men love a nice women with good convo
find a man who wants the same,im 26 and want the same thing and cant find that person,even though im in a relationship now
take care of herself and be wiser.
take it slow if you are being that needy you will not find anyone and you will be asking this question at 50. Go have some fun and if it happens then it happens.
Find someone who wants the same thing you do. Believe it or not, there ARE men out there who do. Popular media and jerks might give you good reason to think otherwise, but they're out there.





To find them, go to places you would go to. I don't mean bars and clubs. Museums, restaurants, or other places that are more to your tastes are much better, because it is a better reflection of the people who go there.





Don't lose hope.
Be a good listener and witty. Talk about common interest in music, arts and sports. Don鈥檛 forget to kiss him goodnight. Make sure he asks for a second date.
what happened?


anyway,


stay hopefull, coz hope never dies.


believe in you.
It depends on how much over 40 it may be too late unless you have prospective men in mind.

For those of you that just had a baby what is one good advice that you would give a 5 month pregnant woman?

Something that you did and shouldn't have done or vice versaFor those of you that just had a baby what is one good advice that you would give a 5 month pregnant woman?
Try not to stress about your delivery.Everything will be fine.Just try to relax and don't let anyone make you feel bad for anything you decide to do.





Don't feel bad about denying visitors when you first come home.I wish I would've done that.Don't feel bad about denying visitors at the hospital either.I was exhauseted and had people coming at 8 am every day not leaving until 10 or later at night.Needless to say, I was tired of it and them.





Let the housework go for a while and just rest and spend time with baby.You can't get those days back and you will regret it if you don't..





Unless you think you will need the help,don't let anyone stay that first week or 2.It was helpful but also a total nightmare.I feel like I missed out on my sons first week home because someone was always taking him from me.





You will get advice from everyone,but that doesn't mean you have to listen.Take what you need and just ignore the rest.Don't ignore your mommy instinct.It is almost never wrong..





Enjoy it!!It goes by so fast.For those of you that just had a baby what is one good advice that you would give a 5 month pregnant woman?
take the first 8 weeks minimum to learn how to breastfeed without worrying about wearing a shirt, having visitors etc. This would have made a world of difference for me. Instead, i had so many visitors that i was constantly covering up, or bottlefeeding, which ruins breastfeeding. Finally we got it down, and now he's 14 weeks old. So I would say no guests for 2 months so you can figure things out.
Get as much sleep as you can and walk as much as you can. This is your time, take advantage while you can. After your baby is born, it's all about the baby.
i definantly with the first answer tell family to come 24 hrs later i had visitors the same day and they left until 11 pm!!!!! and dont be afraid to ask 4 help.
If you haven't already, start a pregnancy journal. I didn't do this but so wish I did. I have no clue why I didn't. It would be really nice to read later how you felt each day. Also get plenty of sleep (if possible). Good Luck!
I wish I would have relaxed more. I went on a pretty strict diet. I wouldn't eat anything unhealthy. I wouldn't drink soda or anything unhealthy. I ate lots of fruits and veggies and drank plenty of water and milk. I took my vitamins daily. Anyway, my son was still born with problems. Yet a girl I know who adopted a drug addicted baby, he's just fine and doing much better than my son.
Once baby is here, do NOT put pressure on yourself to get everything done that you did before. Who cares if the house is messy, or the laundry is behind, or dishes are in the sink! Make caring for your baby and healing yourself after delivery your main concerns. Also, accept help!! If someone offers to bring over a meal, let them! If they offer to come over and do a load of laundry for you, let them! You're not superwoman, and the time with your newborn is no time to stress yourself out trying to be everything and a new mom.





Good luck and congrats!!
You need your rest. it will catch up to you, yes you will feel fine, but getting your rest after the baby born is very very important!!





And one other thing- you won't be pregnant forever. Yes, it'll feel like the last 2-3 weeks is taking its' time, but be patient and enjoy your last few days to yourself!! You WILL miss them!
Rest, try to get a lot of sleep and a pedicure. Get the extra long one right before you go into labor.


When resting snuggle up to your partner!!
Take time to bond with your new family ... alone... even if its for a few hours. I wish I would of asked visitors to give us at least 24 hours before they came to visit.
Get plenty of sleep, bond with your child, start saving money, and buy baragins.
Go to the movies, to concerts, to any of the activities that you love while you have the freedom to just go without any planning. Spend time with your partner. Have long bubble baths. Have a massage if you can find the extra cash (some places even do prenatal massage. Take the time to reflect on who you are right now-- maybe even starting a diary that keeps track of your feelings as you prepare for this major shift in your life. Tell your partner that you love them every single day. Read about birth, and try and figure out a rough idea of a birth plan.





Try to talk to your partner about division of labor post-baby. Try to get him to help out once the baby is born as much as possible. You will need time to recover.





Sleep in on the weekends while you still can and try to wake up every day with a smile. A new baby is hard work but worth the things that you may lose in the short term. Good luck!
Take a recent mom with you when you register for your shower. You won't use half of the gadgets you think you need. I returned half mine.


Don't take advice from others to heart or as an insult on your parenting. I did that with my first. Mothers love to share their experiences and most really just want to help not insult you.


Accept help when its offered!!!!


Its always a good idea to listen to the pediatrician but sometimes listenting to your instinct is better. You are with your baby more than your doctor is. For example, if you feed your baby solids 2 days before that 4 month mark nothing is going to happen to your baby.


Don't read the baby book like its the bible.


Bring granny underwear to the hospital. Trust me. In case you have a C section you will be wishing you did.
dont overeat a ton like i did, gaining 70 lbs while pregnant is fine while youre pregnant, but once your not anymore its not so cute. and ask people to wait a couple days before visiting. i had people in my hospital room all freaking day and all i wanted to do was be alone with my hubby and baby. my aunt came in one of the days and sat for 5 hours and even sat while they checked my stitches and breasts. akward! and she wouldnt leave! you need those first few days to get to know your baby without everyone hovering. also, newborn diapers. i only got size one and up at my shower and when we got home they were soooooooo huge on my little guy, it was so sad. we didnt have any NEWBORN sized onesies, only0-3 months which were big on him too. anyways, good luck!
If you are going to breastfeed.... it is hard! It takes a while to get it down. I wish I had bought an electric pump and had it ready. I was SO stressed out that my baby wasn't latching on correctly and that I wasn't making enough milk for him. I ended up pumping and giving him bottles until he got the hang of breastfeeding, and I even gave him some formula to supplement. I wish someone had told me that it isn't easy and it's ok to give some supplements (i actually cried when the hospital gave him a formula supplement because I felt like I had failed as a mom), and to please RELAX!
I would say rest- the first few weeks after baby you really don't get to much. And to try and relax and enjoy her pregnancy, it doesn't matter if the house or the nursery isn't perfect. Your baby will be and that is the only thing that matters. The best advise I got for baby, was to love them and hold them as much as possible. I believe they are only little for a very short time, and then that's it. You will miss them being so tiny and lovable.






Sleep a lot, eat as much good food as you can, and don't stress out about things because as everyone told me throughout my entire pregnancy- things have a way or working out. take lots of belly pictures because i'm really glad i did. once you get close to your due date, take more because it's neat to have a picture the day before your baby was born. also if you stand on your feet for long periods of time at work you may want to consider leaving early. because it gets really difficult. but do your keigals (woah spelling) and walk as much as you feel comfy doing. it brings labor on in a timely matter and makes it much easier to push. also- don't freak out about labor because its going to happen no matter what. take everything one step at a time, do what the doctors and nurses say, and you'll be done with it before you know it.
rest as much as possible now.



make sure u have lots of LOVE and lots of $$$$$$ and make sure u are still with ur hubby/bf because of baby need a mommie and and daddy

Woman with questions seeking advice?

i dont understand why the guy ive been dating for a few months, who ive known for a few years and has this big attraction and feelings towards me, likes to add a lot of women he dont even know to his myspace page. i dont know how to bring it up without him thinking im jealous and stuff.but it is bothering me big time.and i am jealous and offended of some the girls he add that look whore-ish.how do i confront him?Woman with questions seeking advice?
If you're jealous, then don't hide it. Just ask him. Don't hold back any feelings.Woman with questions seeking advice?
You confront him honestly and fairly. A good start may be ';When you do [this] it makes me feel like [this]. It's ok to tell him you are jealous, but explain why and allow him to speak his mind. He may choose to continue doing what he is doing. You need to be ready to hear any response. Not just the one you prefer to hear.



No, don't confront him. He'll only defend his actions. Leave him and find a guy who will treat you with dignity, honor and respect. He'll never change.
Hello,





I would mention it to him. I don't know but I feel if you nip something like this in the bud from the begininning, if your relationship gets serious then it won't become a bigger problem. If you wait and let it go on then he will say well you knew this is something I was into when I met you. Do not let him play that card on you espeacially when your feelings get deeper.

For women:do you think these ';advices'; are true or false about you ?

1.) Women don't base their choices of men on how ';nice'; a guy is. Being nice doesn't make a woman FEEL that powerful ATTRACTION. They CANNOT feel the emotion of ATTRACTION towards you.


All of the ';nice';things that you've done for women seem to always result in the woman pulling away.It's because they find your nice-guy ';Wuss';behaviors to be ANNOYING: Sharing ';feelings';, Seek approval, Accepting her demands, bossy-ness, and manipulative requests; Being her doormat and putting your own needs aside, pursuing her and making compliments like ';You're the greatest thing in the world and I'm going to chase you around and try to buy your attention';.


And even though he's doing a lot of ';nice'; things for the women he's interested in, he can't keep one around for more than a date or two. Also man begging a woman to stay... pleading with her to explain what he has to do to keep her annoys women.





2.)Not Knowing EXACTLY What To Do In Each Type Of Situation With Women is bad : if you don't know exactly what to do and


exactly HOW to kiss her, and you just sit there looking at her and getting nervous, she won't help! It is VITALLY important that you know EXACTLY how to go from one step to the next with a woman... from the first meeting, all the way to the bedroom.





3.) How many times have you taken a woman out to a


nice dinner, bought her gifts and flowers, and had


her REJECT you for someone who didn't treat her


even HALF as well as you did?When you do these things, you send a clear message: ';I don't think you'll like me for who I am, so


I'm going to try to buy your attention and


affection';.And one thing that turns an attractive women


off and sends her running away faster than just


about anything is a guy who starts saying ';You


know, I really, REALLY like you'; after one or two


dates. This signals to the woman that you're just like


all the other guys who fall for her too fast...


and can't control themselves. Don't do it. Lean back. Relax.


For women:do you think these ';advices'; are true or false about you ?
1) I think that only applies to whiny, immature women. Women who are older and looking for a serious relationship tend to look for those qualities more than teenagers looking for a casual boyfriend. It's because older women want a calm and steady relationship, usually because they have the rest of their lives to deal with, and need a strong, caring man to lean on. Teenage girls are all about drama, and enthusiastically go for guys who bring more of it into their lives.





2) It may not matter if you know EXACTLY how to do everything, but it really does help set the mood a lot better if a guy isn't sweating bullets because he's so nervous. He needs to have confidence in his body and sexuality in order for anything intimate to work. That doesn't mean you need to be a sex expert, but it's definitely good if the guy has confidence in seducing his woman. Otherwise it can be weird, awkward, or even funny...





3) I agree with the point about expressing feelings too fast. Early on in a relationship, you're both still testing the waters, and getting too strong of a message from either side is unsettling. You want to take it easy for a while and just have fun with eachother before getting serious, so naturally, having a guy telling he practically loves you after 2 or 3 dates is kind of a turn-off.For women:do you think these ';advices'; are true or false about you ?
it depends. it might be true for many women, but the mature ones know how to value a nice guy. and you want the mature women, don't you? if not, if you just want a one-night stand, then yeah, be a stuck up @#$ and they'll love you.
i don't think that is fair, not all women are like that, just some, its like only some guys are self centred and others are decent
Whine a little bit more, Holden Caufield.
Too much reading but I got the gist of it. Bottom line no two women are the same, no two humans are. Would a list compiled that way about ALL men describe you in every detail along with your dad and best bud? I think not.


So Be yourself and hopefully you will attract someone as genuine or not as you are.


One love.
all are true, and false.


1) a nice guy is nice to have. you feel special and loved. but if they are too nice, it doesn't seem like its a relation ship going both ways. be considerate and kind. but don't be too ';nice';


2) some women might be just as nerves as the guy, and they are looking at them for help, but they wont show it. or they know exactly what they want and in that case they will probably do all they can to tell the guy (or hint it) either way, if you have no idea what you are doing or how you should do it, its probably not as big of a deal as you think it is.


3) too much to fast is never good. taker her out to dinner. buy her flowers a different time, and buy her a gift at a different time. that way its not as fast and you have more options open for other days. but not all girls see it as too much. some love the sweet act and might appreciate more. if you know what girl you are dating, than you will know what advice is better. honestly, you might be better off just doing what you think she would like best.
lol. Seen these comments before. I am not a women but I am from the pick up artist community. These believes are based on David Deanglo unless I am mistaken. There are so many different ways to be successful with women and his ideas are one of them.


The best thing is to read about different styles and apply the one suit your personality best. Being good with women has been very advanced since David D.


Some of these techniques are for a player lifestyle so it might not really be attractive to girls who wants more stability.


All the qualities that every one would agree (even women) that you need to build attraction are follows


Good communicator


Confident


Charms


Humour


maintaining good eye contact


good body language


having principals


having self esteem


understanding the need of that particular women


I hope the answer didn't go too long. If you have all these attributes you shouldn't need to worry about the techniques. Techniques are not that important it's the inner belief.

I need serious advices from women!?

I want to ask a girl out, but I don't know what the best method is. I don't want to freak her out or make her feel awkward. What is the best approach in asking a girl out? Any suggestions? If you were being asked out...what would make you say, yes!?I need serious advices from women!?
im not a chick but i clicked to see what they would say...no answers yet...i think that more specifics are needed...does she know who you are? do you know her from work or school? have you talked to her before?I need serious advices from women!?
From your question it's clearly the girl who's freaked out and awkward, it's you. Get over that, then just go up and ask her. Act normal and self confident. Ask her to something casual and simple like a movie, a study date, etc.
Well I would tell you to be yourself but thats not the best advice, I would have to say get to know her better and start off in a good friendship. When the time is right tell her how you feel.
let her get to know u a little more .let her see your soft side the side that shows u care.
while you are talking to her (if you are not comfortable having a conversation with her, then you need to wait a while to ask her out) say ';we should hang out sometime. hey, what are you doing saturday? i just bought wedding crashers on dvd if you wanted to watch it'; the more cashual the better. its weird when guys say 'will you go out with me'; like will you be there girlfriend. thats stupid! ugh! i hate that!
Ask her if she would like to have coffee after work or on the weekend, and see where it goes from their.





Also be the true person that you are!!!!!!!!!!
one thing is to go up to her and tell her, maybe she feels the same about you. what would make me say yes is if i was told up front or is i was to hang out with that person for a while and get to start liking them...
Go up to her and complimant her on something that will make her feel good. Then walk away. That will make her feel appreciated, but it will not make her feel like you are putting pressure on her. Don't ever ask her out in a text massage or in a note, and do not ever make a friend ask her out for you. If you really like her you will ask her in person.
start by flirting with her and from the way she react to u then you'll know whether or not u should ask her out cause u don't want to make a fool at of yourself...
u should be honest and tell her how u feel. my boyfriend asked me out n was honest about how he felt we have been 2 gether 4 3 years n couldnt be happier.
If a guy asked me to go somewhere I knew he didn't really like, but wanted to take me because he knew I loved it. So that I knew he was only asking me and he didn't ask ten girls before me who turned him down. Make it genuine and make her feel special.
Be confident and have something planned. I hate when a guy asks me out and then expects me to plan the whole date. Tell her what you have in mind and be confident about it again!!
just ask her you are freak her out by not doing it. if she know you like her just ask would you like to go out with me.
Just walk up to her and ask her out. Say something like ';I was wondering if you would like to go out sometime?';
flirt a lil ,make her laugh and calmly ask her out

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I need some advice on glasses for a middle age woman. I hate the fact how they make me look older.?

I very young at heart, dress fun, look my age , until I put glasses on! It changes my whole look. I cannot wear contacts. Need advice about frames, light or dark colors. I am blonde hair, bue eyed. HELP!!!I need some advice on glasses for a middle age woman. I hate the fact how they make me look older.?
go for frameless glasses


my OH had this problem and this alleviated it, enormously





will go look for a link


not the best example but gives you an idea how unobtrusive they are





http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v372/g鈥?/a>


just a random guy when you google itI need some advice on glasses for a middle age woman. I hate the fact how they make me look older.?
Thanks! I've since gotten the frameless glasses and LOVE them! Thanks again!

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They do have framless glasses. They just have the bridge over the nose and the ear pieces.
My frineds mom is an artist and wears pink and blue glasses, the frame is quite rectangular and sorta thick, they look awsome. I'd say go for a thick rectangular frame wiv colour!
Get something trendy like Prada glasses

I Need some Advice About this Woman I've been Seeing For three Weeks Straight?

Read the blog here then post your advice/answer here on yahoo! answers. Thanks!





http://weblog.xanga.com/chriswagonerI Need some Advice About this Woman I've been Seeing For three Weeks Straight?
Ask her what she wants or what she expect from you.


DO not just guessing around that others want lots from you.


She may also stresses out because she thinks she make you unhappy.

Woman only please, advice for men lol?

what hair style do you like on a man the best, (im 22 by the way) what 's the coolest that makes you attracted to them, thank youWoman only please, advice for men lol?
long :)





just not like ';i-can-put-my-hair-in-a-ponytail'; kind of long :bWoman only please, advice for men lol?
It really depends on your style and face.





Strong/masculine faces look better with short cuts.





Softer/boyish faces look better with longer hair.
Definetely short spiky hair, I dont know what it is about it, but I love it!
you should already know. why are you asking this on Y!A???





it according to how he looks (face/body) to decide the hair cut
Well I love the messed up 'bed-hair' look.


Very sexy :)
22 too!


I like men with long hair not girly long but enough to grab on to very sexy.


xx
fowhawks are pretty nice.
longish.





strightened with side fringe or spiked up =)
Curly hair all the way :)


But thats just me!
dark, short, flicked at the front is so sexy

Need advice from woman?

My periods are regular each month, my last period was 10/20 normal and on then on 11/2 I started spotting (light brown, pinkish). I've never had this happen to me before ever!!!! Is it possible I could be pregnant or maybe there's something wrong with me. I do have a doctor's appointment next week. Just curious if this has happened to any other females, it's definitely a first for me. Thanks for reading this and giving me your thoughts and answers!! Need advice from woman?
what date did u have sex and was it rough or smooth. Because it will matter!Need advice from woman?
I spotted like that soon after I first got pregnant. It's good that you are doing to get it checked out.

I desperately need some advice on woman.?

Will someone please tell me what it means when your wife of three years trys to contact her ex boyfriend on myspace?I desperately need some advice on woman.?
sorry it doesn't look good you need to ask herI desperately need some advice on woman.?
she thinks about him when your messin up... or she just wants to be friends...lol
She may just want a friend to talk to, or she feels no flame with you anymore.
It could not mean anything, but I would wonder why she would feel the need too after all this time?
After a while, an ex boyfreind is just like an old friend. She wont go serious on him. She just wants to talk to an old friend. People do it all the time. If it still annoys you, start looking for your old girl friends. That might stop it:)
That she loves you, but the reason why she loved that ex is something that you are not fulfilling and because he was good at it she is looking for it again. It sounds bad, but it could be something as small as you not complimenting her, but he did all the time, you might shut down at the thought of being apart of a conversation with her where all he would do is listen and make her feel important. It does not have to be about sex, and again it does not mean she loves you less. You just need to find out what you are not fulfilling for her that she is seeking in him even if it is sex. Good luck.
If your relationship is doing great and you didnt see any problem! and she tried to message her ex then dont worry, It's just normal. Especially if they shared great moments together and she really care about him.





Like me i tried to message my ex and my husband knew about it, I message him because i just want to know if he is doing good. Because when we broke up I told to myself that hope we can be friends and someday that we will talk about how happy we are right now, we will talk our own family and etc.





You need to understand that before you got married she had a great and bad memories from her EX and maybe she is the type of person who cherished everything. You will know that if she still have her love letters and gifts from her EX since high school hehehhe





Talk to your wife too!!! Communication and openness is important.
First off grow some balls and ask her, you don't need comments from the peanut gallery on how to run your life. Maybe she just wants to check up on some sewn seeds, or she wants to show him how happy she is now without him. Either way, you married the woman, just ask her how he's doing and what not. Throw her a curve ball and play along with her game.
She is probably just curious but I still think it is wrong. What would it mean if you tried to contact your exgirlfriend? Try to think why you would be doing that and then wonder how your wife would feel? I bet she wouldn't like it very much.
It means you may want to look into renting a smaller apartment! You also may want to start a separate checking account in your name only. You may also want to subscribe to one of the on-line dating services.
She wants to rub it in that she is now married to this gorgeous man and is a billion times happier than she ever was with his sorry ***! Really, it could be a number of reasons. How do you know about this? Did she tell you she was doing it? Seems she would have little to hide if she actually told you she was doing it. Or did you snoop behind her back? And if you snooped and have not even bought this up with her yet - then this is obviously not the first thing that has happened to make you not trust her, huh? You need to resolve your trust issues.
maybe she just wanted to say hi or maybe she misses him but i do not think that is a good thing
I think she still must care for him why else would she try to contact him. You should confront her and get the real reason why shes doing it. Do it soon before your marriage is gone. Good Luck!
It could mean nothing or it could mean that she misses him and wants to know what hes been doing lately. Hopefully It means nothing
It means your marriage is in trouble!
Ask her,maybe it don't mean a thing,she just want to talk to him as a friend..
It means bad news is about to come your way.
It doesn't have to mean anything. Did she tell you that she did it?? I mean would she feel comfortable talking to you about him??? I knwo that you wouldn't feel comfortable about hearing it, but thats not the point. I'm so happily married, I get aggravated as hell sometimes, but I still talk to my ex's from time to time. They are ex's there is usually a good reason for that. Your wife decided to marry you instead of him. Thats got to mean something. Sometimes just contacting her ex means nothing. It could mean something but without more information its hard to tell. But honestly if she told you or didn't hide that she did it, then I wouldn't see a problem. If she's totally hiding or denying that she did it, then she has something to hide. May just be thinking about him or wondering how he's doing and feeling guilty, but odds are if she wanted to contact her ex, she would by seeing him or calling. Chances are good that she would know how to do that. I think that simply just by being on myspace might not mean anything at all. I wish you luck, and don't overthink it, b/c then you might get into a horrible fight over soemthing that could be nothing. Good luck, and tread carefully.
It doesnt neccessarily 'mean' anything except that your wife wants to chat with her ex.





What does it mean when a married man asks a group of total and complete strangers to explain his wife's activity?
Sounds like she needs some fantasy. You may want to step up the romance and enjoy her need for some good old fashioned lust. You lucky guy!
Unless she's had a platonic relationship with him both before and during your relationship with her, then she's probably up to something.
Well it looks like your marriage isn't so great at this point but you might need to sit down with her and discuss this with your wife if it bothers you so bad but if they had any children together than i would be searching for him too. but if i were you then i would sit down with her and ask her why she is looking for him on the worst website in the world..She might also have some type of feelings left for him
shes bored.
Listen to yourself,you're whining like a jealous woman. Just tell her to knock that $hit off, don't make a big deal of it
doesnt mean anything, she wondered how he was .


I kept up with my ex boyfriend for years on computer and thru mail. Just is nice to know what happens to friends even y ears later. But if it bothers u and ur insecure in your marriage . counseling wouldnt hurt
ask her! she'll know better than i do.
I have always found that unusual...why do people do that when they are married? Perhaps they are unhappy and they need to get with the ex to spill their sorrow? I think that is stupid, when you break up...you break up! What is the point in getting hold of an ex when you are married and spilling the beans of the problems in the marriage. I find it disrespectful and a breach of marriage privacy.
Wow that can't be good, why don't you just comfront her about this, i think is a good idea to go ahead and call it out
it doesn't sound good , maybe you should confront her and see what she says about it and make a decision from the answer she gives you
lol.... myspace.... i swear, so many lives are based around that site.

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Please Help Me. Need Some Woman Advice. Pics Involved.?

Alright so I'm tired of being lonely. It's been a while now since me and my ex split up and it's time to find someone new. I have a problem that I think most men my age have and that is I don't know how I appeal to the opposite sex. I know I'm not like that dude from mask but I want to know what y'all think. Now I don't know how photobucket and that stuff works so Imma just give a link to my myspace page and if y'all are willing you can take a gander.





www.myspace.com/jameciasis





Oh and I know there is alot of hardcore myspace junkies out there so please don't just send me a random friend request.





Also I wouldn't mind a few tips as to how I should go about trying to find a girl but would prefer so real advice not just the same ol ';Be confident'; and ';Open up. Don't be shy';. I'm certainly not shy and well as far as the confidence goes I'm certainly not at the top of the list but I'm not at the bottom either. Anywho don't hold back and thanks in advance.Please Help Me. Need Some Woman Advice. Pics Involved.?
god, you're gorgeous.





like, seriously.





just date me k? ;D


nontrly. (kidding.)





just chill out and let the ladies come to you, man. and if you see a sexy lady when you're out chillin, then go make a move. easy.Please Help Me. Need Some Woman Advice. Pics Involved.?
it can't be your looks, because you're certainly not ugly or anything.


i really don't have any tips, but good luck.

Bad at Sex (Need a Woman Advice)?

Im 18 and i jus had sex for the first time wit my girl about 2 months ago. Before my first time, i thought my main problem will be not lasting long. But I thats not it, I never bust. We can go for 2 hours, fast slow, hard, sex on the ceiling lol and nothing happens. I mean, it feels good, but i dont bust. And i jus recently talked to my girl about it and she said it doesn't feel as good as she thought it would (cuz she was a virgin too). She said sometimes it feels like nothin (and im about 7inch and pretty thick). So usually when we have sex, i will stop, give her oral till she orgasms and then continue. Cuz im really big on makin the woman feel good, before me. But I was jus wonderin if i can get some womanly tips on what to do. What you women like? Somebody told me that women like it if you put it in her at an angle (against her ';walls';). I need HELP!Bad at Sex (Need a Woman Advice)?
Well seems like the problem here is that you care too much about the woman pleasures (which is great don't get me wrong) but maybe the woman you are with doesn't care too much about you sexually. I mean she needs to spice up the relationship a bit so you can become overly excited. Thats the fun part about sex its a two way street. You both have to be willing and able to do your part. Maybe then you will bust and bust some more...its not you having the problem its her. I assure you if she doesn't change anything on her side in the bedroom your next woman will have a whole different experience with you. I wouldn't worry about it so much you kinda learn more and more as you go. But like I said you still need more excitement on yur part. Good luck~

Bad at Sex (Need a Woman Advice)?

Im 18 and i jus had sex for the first time wit my girl about 2 months ago. Before my first time, i thought my main problem will be not lasting long. But I thats not it, I never bust. We can go for 2 hours, fast slow, hard, sex on the ceiling lol and nothing happens. I mean, it feels good, but i dont bust. And i jus recently talked to my girl about it and she said it doesn't feel as good as she thought it would (cuz she was a virgin too). She said sometimes it feels like nothin (and im about 7inch and pretty thick). So usually when we have sex, i will stop, give her oral till she orgasms and then continue. Cuz im really big on makin the woman feel good, before me. But I was jus wonderin if i can get some womanly tips on what to do. What you women like? Somebody told me that women like it if you put it in her at an angle (against her ';walls';). I need HELP!Bad at Sex (Need a Woman Advice)?
You just need to experiment on your own with her. Try out different positions, angles and speed. If you can't orgasm by just sex, it sounds like she needs to give you some foreplay before you have intercourse.





You don't want to hit her walls... in the female vagina all of the nerve endings are right at her hole to about an inch back. You don't want to go too deep because bottoming out on a girl is pretty close to the equivalent of getting hit in the balls. It's not pleasant.





You may want to pick up a sex book or possibly the 'liberator'. Google it.





BrandonBad at Sex (Need a Woman Advice)?
Yeah angle... and also play with her cl*t while your doing it..
Go slow and whisper sweet nothings in her ear. You can even get alittle dirty. Tell her what you want to do to her, how good it feels. etc. Kiss. caress her body. You can even have some love making songs to add ambiance. Relax and focus on the intimacy instead of the end result... you know the usual.


Oh and as for you, just be a complete animal, if you're too rough, she'll let you know.

Whats should I do? Older woman advice?

Ok so I started chatting with this girl a bit ago, she is a bit older then me Im 21 and she is 28, will be 29 next week.





She is technically married, albeit seperated from her husband.





We meet up today, hung out and to be honest had some pretty good time in the bedroom, now im at work and I cant get her out of my head.





I dont know what to do, she likes me alot and think she would want to date me.





I know its a large age difference, but she likes me alot and I think I may like her as more then a friend/casual hookup.





What do you guys think, because my mind is about to die from thinking about it.





Please no rob the cradle, cougar, milf comments, just honest opinions thanks :)Whats should I do? Older woman advice?
invite that milf to the pants partyWhats should I do? Older woman advice?
I dated a woman that was 10 years older than me and we had loads of fun, both in the bed and out.

What's wrong with me? (woman advice)?

I'm a 17 year old girl, and have hair inbetween my breats, sort of dark, like darker than the fine hair. hair on my upper lip, sides of face, stray ones on chest, neck and alot on my back. i read some mediterranean people get it, i am half algerian, but my family on that side are not that hairy, my dad isn't like really hairy anyway.


so i went to the doctors and i showed her, she wrote on the piece of paper 'hirsutism' and i needed to get fbc (full blood count) so i went to the nhs centre got some blood tests. I booked an appointment with my doctor but she was away so i had to book it with another female doctor. I went to her and told her what i had and she showed me the results, everything was normal, like all my blood levels, and my testosterone levels were normal, so im guessing i have no male ones or something. anyway she said i was fine and that i'm naturally hairy, this upset me alot cause i was looking for answers how to treat it and she didnt seem to care, i dont think this is natural, some of the hair inbetween my breasts is thick and im hairy on upper arms too, i hate it soo much.


she asked if my periods were normal or heavy and i said they were heavy at first and then normal. she was on about polycystic something sydrome, my periods arent irregular, the sometimes come a day late though. theyre heavy at first, then they get ok, i get lots of stomach pains at first though.





I really want to get rid off all this hair but dont have alot of money, i might go to my doctor again (first one)





i really need advice, lots of people say i'm pretty and stuff, but i dont feel it when ive got hair all over me, it really knocks my confidence and hate living like this





help please!What's wrong with me? (woman advice)?
I am sympathetic. It matters so much to a young woman.


Hirsuitism is...


Common and often familial.


Is a diagnosis of exclusion and thought to be related to disorders in peripheral androgen activity.


Onset occurs shortly after puberty with slow progression.


There are no other signs of virilism, normal menstrual function and normal investigations.





You probably know about bleaching, waxing etc.


There are medicines that work by blocking the action of androgen hormones. It can take several months before any effect from the medicines can be seen and they can cause side-effects such as headaches, depression and bleeding in between periods. Although treatment with anti-androgen medicines can slow down hair growth and make it thinner, once you stop taking the medicines hirsutism will probably come back.


It might help if your doctor would give you a referral to a dermatologist.


I think you should book an appointment to see your regular GP, the locum doesn't sound over sympathetic and helpful.to a dermatologistWhat's wrong with me? (woman advice)?
Some people are just hairy.


It's a fact.





Nothing your medical doctor can do for you. (It sounds like you are not hairy enough for medical treatments!)





The only thing you can do is maybe get electrolysis or maybe laser treatments.
Go to a salon and they can advise you about waxing or bleaching the hair.

Bad at Sex (Need a Woman Advice)?

Im 18 and i jus had sex for the first time wit my girl about 2 months ago. Before my first time, i thought my main problem will be not lasting long. But I thats not it, I never bust. We can go for 2 hours, fast slow, hard, sex on the ceiling lol and nothing happens. I mean, it feels good, but i dont bust. And i jus recently talked to my girl about it and she said it doesn't feel as good as she thought it would (cuz she was a virgin too). She said sometimes it feels like nothin (and im about 7inch and pretty thick). So usually when we have sex, i will stop, give her oral till she orgasms and then continue. Cuz im really big on makin the woman feel good, before me. But I was jus wonderin if i can get some womanly tips on what to do. What you women like? Somebody told me that women like it if you put it in her at an angle (against her ';walls';). I need HELP!Bad at Sex (Need a Woman Advice)?
try and hit every angle.....until u fing her favourite spot....and going there will make her come.





u know her favourite spot by her response ( she shuld get more excited.)Bad at Sex (Need a Woman Advice)?
trust me the size dosnt matter for a start its what you do with it and the more you do it the better it will feel as you will get in touch with each others bodys and start to explore plan sex is always a bit boring its when you add oral sex foreplay massage ect and you imagination and all that sort of stuff it becomes intresting


give it time and practice
Relax more before you get to it, in time it will be ok, you are both learning just now, but don't try too hard,{ no pun intended }
sorry but just have 2 say lol
We had the same problems the first few times. just give it some time and it will get better

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Please Help Me. Need Some Woman Advice. Pics Involved.?

Alright so I'm tired of being lonely. It's been a while now since me and my ex split up and it's time to find someone new. I have a problem that I think most men my age have and that is I don't know how I appeal to the opposite sex. I know I'm not like that dude from mask but I want to know what y'all think. Now I don't know how photobucket and that stuff works so Imma just give a link to my myspace page and if y'all are willing you can take a gander.





www.myspace.com/jameciasis





Oh and I know there is alot of hardcore myspace junkies out there so please don't just send me a random friend request.





Also I wouldn't mind a few tips as to how I should go about trying to find a girl but would prefer so real advice not just the same ol ';Be confident'; and ';Open up. Don't be shy';. I'm certainly not shy and well as far as the confidence goes I'm certainly not at the top of the list but I'm not at the bottom either. Anywho don't hold back and thanks in advance.Please Help Me. Need Some Woman Advice. Pics Involved.?
I think you have nothing to worry about. Don't rush into anything you aren't sure of- there are plenty of girls to choose from, ya know.





I think you would get a lot of positive reactions from growing out your hair. Beatles hair is always attractive. My brother, his whole life, refused to listen to my mom and sister and I about growing his hair out. Recently, he has let it grow out, and he admits that girls have been reacting very well to it ever since.





You have a nice complexion and none of your facial features are offensive. You look just fine. So just be who you are *not trying to be cliche* so that you can attract people that are attracted to who you are.





Have fun =D

Ladies please help me out, woman to woman. advice or motivation or inspiration, anything will help me?

im almost 16 years old. im 5'2, i weigh 107lbs, and my bra size is 34D or 36D(i think, i really dont know anymore) they are way too big for my frame..they are killing my back and neck. im always in pain, and i have really bad posture. im sick of the unwanted attention from guys. My breasts are already sagging, i have divets in my shoulders from my bras, and i have some pretty noticeable stretch marks. i went to a plastic surgeon back in october, he said i was a good candidate for the reduction. but insurance turned it down because i was too young. but i just cant wait. the pain is too much, i hate being self consious, i hate that i cant be athletic, i hate that i cant find fitting shirts and bras. another thing is, i was molested 4 times in my past, and i feel my breasts may have played a huge part in that. i dont think i can make peace with my breasts. i just need advice or something to help me out a little bit. thank you to all who reply.Ladies please help me out, woman to woman. advice or motivation or inspiration, anything will help me?
I worked in a doctor's office for a year. I know that insurance companies will sometimes decline to cover elective procedures if not medically necessary. Having said that, the insurance company (regardless of your age) should cover this procedure if it is causing physical pain or difficulties. Please don't give up. Have your family doctor or pediatrician write a letter to the insurance company explaining that this reduction would not be for cosmetic reasons, but because it is medically necessary.Ladies please help me out, woman to woman. advice or motivation or inspiration, anything will help me?
APPEAL... don't let them say ';no'; without a fight!





Get letters from your family doctors, from that PS that saw you, from another PS if you have to, to get covered.





By the way, your breasts had NO part in you being molested.
Get a good bra with broad, soft shoulder straps. I find that Playtex 18 hour makes athletic activity a lot more fun.





And wear cotton blend shirts with patterns or anything else that minimizes, rather than emphasizes, the bust fullness.
People who molest kids are going to molest kids; it wasn't because of your breasts.





Save your money, or wait until you are old enough that insurance will pay for it.





I agree with your doc, you need it.
Your insurance says you are to young because you are only 16. There is still a good chance your breasts will still grow. I would tough it out until you are around 20 or until insurance will cover it. you don't want to get the procedure done now, and then have your breast continue growing and have to get it done again.





The best advice I can give, being a 38DD, get fitted for a bra and make sure it fits properly. That will cut down a little on the back pain. Make regular visits with a chiropractor so every thing will stay in place. I feel your pain. Just stick it our a few more years.
aww sweetie that is aweful that u have to go through that and my aunt had that problem when she was ur age and she got a reduction thats what i would do but u seem to be set off to that idea intil u get a little older so i do have some friends who have to waer three or more bras witch seem to help a little so give it a try and btw i dont mean like cup bras i mean like 3 sports bras over 1 cup bra! sry u have to face this :-(

Dating a recently divorced woman advice? Please help?

I was with a woman for 2 years, friends first then dating, then I love you, then she gets divorced and starts dumping on me. She says she loves me, but timing is everything and its not our time. She says I am trying to settle down and she wants to live life to the fullest. She is on the internet sites saying all she wants is to play when she doesnt have her son. She also wrote she definately not ready for anything serious. I didnt try to settle down, I tried to go out and have fun. She said she doesnt want to emotionally and financially support me, but it would be nice if she could have a boyfriend who could help her if she needed it. Times are tough, I cant afford to pay my bills and hers. What is going on in her head? Is she crazy?Dating a recently divorced woman advice? Please help?
What's going on???





You were her 'hang on' while she went though her divorce. I don't know what your confusion is. She's just coming right out and telling you. She doesn't want a relationship, she just wants to 'play' when her kid isn't around, she'll take your money if you'll give it to her, and... if you give her enough money, and lay off the relationship crap, she might even give you a little.





Obviously, you like her a whole lot more than she likes you.


.Dating a recently divorced woman advice? Please help?
Your friend is new to the dating scene and wants to experience it to the fullest. (date as many as possible) She's now ready to party. You may be better off to say goodbye and move on to someone who is wanting to settle down.
Divorce, even after a long separation, is a big change in one's life. She doesn't sound like she's over the emotions of her marriage breaking up so I say give her time, let her ';play'; but move on yourself.
Shes having a mid life crisis. You need to move on shes not into you now that she a free woman. BTW you were seeing a married woman?
yep she is nuts dump her

I needs a woman advice?

IM 21 YEARS OLD I HAVE LOST ALL MEANING TO LIFE . I FEEL EVERY DAY THE SAME . I WAKE UP GO TO WORK COME HOME WATCH TV HANG OUT WITH MY FIANCE. THEN WE GO TO BED . I NEVER ALLOW MY SELF TO HAVE FUN I ALWAYS FEEL GUILTY FOR HAVING FUN . IT ALLMOST LIKE I LIKE TO BE DEPRESSED . HAS ANY ONE GONE THREW THIS HOW CAN I LEARN TO ENJOY MY LIFEI needs a woman advice?
I went through it before. I felt weird of out of place if I did anythign different than my day to day activity.





If you don't have any spontaneous activity in your life then you and your fiance possibly wont make it in the long run. Go out and do new things. Go try new restaurants, go on vacation, go to salsa clubs and meet different kinds of people





believe me it helpsI needs a woman advice?
First of all, you should be having the time of your life at 21 and I'm assuming no kids for now. Then you have all the opportunity.


Go out with friends and your gf. There are so many things you can do.


Go to dinner, play cards, board games, go on little adventures with loved ones.


I have fun and I am married with children. I have wonderful friends that keep me sane when family life can get hectic. Live life the way God intended us to.
You need some variety in your life. Find it, do it. Do a self check and realize what you have and are living is something some people would die for! Look in the mirror and tell your self to ';snap out of it!'; Do some soul searching here , my friend. You are one of the lucky ones. Some of us don't have jobs, homes or mates.
i dunno, it sounds to me like ur going throuh depression. maybe u should see a doctor and get pills. or maybe just talk to a counselor or something. don't worry about things, just go out and have fun!!! everyone does it, don't feel guilty, its part of life. You're suppose to have fun, remember that.
EVERYONE GOES THROUGH THAT AT SOME POINT. You need to find something motivating to do, like go back to school, or find a hobby, Hang out with some co-workers afterwork. You are not depressed you are bored
Ask your girl friend what she thinks would be lots of fun next weekend. Things to do from Friday after work till Sunday night. Next weekend you have to come up with something better then she did

What legal and license advice can I have if I want to marry a Mexican woman who lives here in Georgia?

It would be better to call a lawyer. This way you will know what you need to do. Good LuckWhat legal and license advice can I have if I want to marry a Mexican woman who lives here in Georgia?
go ask an attorney


the first visit to most are FREE





and good luck because most of them are really hot females..you will now have to take your vitamins every day..What legal and license advice can I have if I want to marry a Mexican woman who lives here in Georgia?
in Georgia make sure that she is your cousin

I need woman help and advice?

I Have 3 Problems please help


1) Acne i need it gone in 3 days all of it (its alot)


2)Oily Hair how do you controal it


3) how do you sceduale your dayI need woman help and advice?
Acne鈥?dandruff shampoo (like selson blue) can work wonders on some acne鈥?it contains sulfur I believe which can help kill the bacteria. There is a also a product called zeno, its expensive around 150 bucks at Walgreen鈥檚 but I can zap new pimples (not all) and get rid of most in a day or two.





Oily hair鈥?can鈥檛 help you with that sorry鈥?maybe use the dandruff shampoo you used for your face? Also a planner is an excellent way to plan your day鈥?right stuff down and check it off鈥?it works and you get a sense of satisfaction!





Good- luck!I need woman help and advice?
Acne is caused by the staph bacteria so I doubt you can get rid of all of it in 3 days. If it is bad see your doc about antibiotic therapy to control it. For oily hair you need to use a shampoo designed for oily hair and don't use conditioner or only use it on the ends of your hair.
For the acne you can try using some triple antibiotic ointment. There are generic versions of it in all drugstores.





As for oily hair, you may need to talk to your dr about this to see if there could be a hormone imbalance causing this but in the mean time you may need to wash your hair a couple of times a week.





As for scheduling my day if I have appts going on I try to schedule a number of them for the same day in the week to help with the consumption of gas since it costs so much.
Acne can be treated with the Clearskin products. It'll get rid of most of it. If you have oily hair, do not use a creamy shampoo. Instead, try one that is specifically designed for super oily hair. I usually schedule my day around class and homework, but in my spare time, I list everything that needs to be done and separate the list into hours and always keep and eye on the clock.

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Seeking advice for married woman who is bi?

i am happily married and until recently my husband didn't know i was interested in women, although he is very understanding about it, i am not sure how the ';other woman'; in a 3 some might feel about being with a happy married couple. i am not sure how i will react either to seeing my husband with the other woman. i really would to do this but i am not sure how i would feel ... anyone been there and done this????Seeking advice for married woman who is bi?
I was there, but as much as I tried to show that it didn't bother me, it did. Thankfully it didn't ruin my friendship with her, and then she moved and got married, so it just naturally came to a finish but it just wasn't a good experience. Many years later I met a lesbian and I struggled with my feelings and why they were so strong, but I never even considered a 3-way at that point. In the end my marriage ended and my sexuality was the main factor in that, fortunately I had a very understanding ex.Seeking advice for married woman who is bi?
i did it. ive been w my hus 4 11 years and im telling you its a great fantasy but you need to think of the act your doing not the people i mean if you think of your huband with another woman it wont work but if your thinking about the sexual act itself its great its sorta amind over matter thing.i had a great expieriance one time and a real ugly experiance the other time.i would say go for it if you have a good tight ,trusting relationship otherwise forget it ,
just because you are bi, doesnt mean you have to sleep around! grrr dont live up to that sterotype.... god!
You must be the one to finish things period!! Stick to that rule!!
i've never done it but i feel as though i'm in a similar situation to you. i'd really like to but what's holding me back is the thought of him with the other girl. me with the other girl is fine, but i dunno about him. i wish i could help but maybe it's good to know someone else feels that way too?





btw, ignore the people who say things about ';stereotype'; or ';seeing a doctor'; they are just closed-minded. you are completely entitled to your feelings and desires and it is good you are talking about them and exploring your options. it is hard to hold in those urges just because of vows and a ring.
you should see a doctor

Ladies- please help!! Advice with ';woman'; issues?

I've had my period for about a year, but I've never had lower back cramps this bad!! I'm taking midol, but it still hurts!! If you've had experience with painful back pains- please let me know what works for you! It kills me just to walk!Ladies- please help!! Advice with ';woman'; issues?
I've experienced extreme back pain during period, and even on regular days. I went to the doctor and they recommended I take vitamin D. The body has the ability to make naturally when exposed to sunlight. Vitamin D builds strong bones and helps the body create calcium. When your body has a shortage of vitamin D, you may suffer from joint and back pain. Therefore, if pain killers continue to not work as you said, try taking some vitamin D and wait for the results.Ladies- please help!! Advice with ';woman'; issues?
I've never had back pains with my period, but I do have cramps. If it gets to the point where you can't function in your daily life, you shoudl go to the doctor to check it out. Ride it out for a few days and see if it gets a little better...if not, definitely go to the doctor b/c there are things you can do to relive and even prevent your period from occurring often enough.
I havent had any back pains but I have had so horrid craps, that hurt so bad it feels like im being stabbed. What helps with me is taking some advil and lying down for a bit, or just take a nap(:


when you wake up you'll feel so much better. But if your having really seriouse pains, I'd go see a docter.
thats happened to me before


idk but every time i get my period its diffrent


sometimes i feel fine. no pain at all


but then other times..i cant even get up


iv gotten ur back pains before. just lie down on ur stomach for awhile with an icey-hott patch every so often and it should go away in a day or two
that was the way it was for me!


for the first year that i had my period, i didn't get cramps or anything.


but then i started getting them.


be happy!


it probably means that you'll have light periods with minor pain.


just take some medicine for it, and you'll feel a lot better!
Yes I have this pain. I have endrometreosis which causes a lot of lower back pain. Also, ovarian cysts can cause you hurt in the lower back. Especially if they rupture. Not much you can do. A hot water bottle and lying down will help some.
I like to use the icy hot creams and or patches. That helps sometimes. The best thing for period pain is exercise and stretching. Try a heating pad. That may work for you. Just experiment, different things work for different people. Good Luck!
sometimes the hormone imbalance causes kidneys to shut down. If you get to a hospital within two days you'll be fine...if not you get the jaundice. Hurry! happened to my wife
You really need to make an appointment with your doctor don't you think? I have heard of this happening to one other woman and it was very, very serious. Tomorrow AM, please call your doctor,,,,
its pretty normal, usually when I get painful cramps it means my flow will probably be a little heavier than usual. Try putting a heating pad on your back or taking a hot shower to loosen the muscles in your back :)
its nothing bad i think i have hudge cramps and i cant even walk sometimes its horrible but dont worry if it gets realy outrages bad ask ur doctor
I never get very bad menstrual cramps, EVER, so I'm not sure why that would happen.
an icy hot patch (its a patch u put on your back that turns from clod to warm) always helps me.... or a bubble bath... but ive yet to find something that fully works :(





good luck
Hot water bottles,


Lot's of chocolate,


Deep heat (I find the cream works best)
Heating pads or a warm shower with the water hitting your back usually works for me...hope this is helpful.
Lots of water. Hot compress. Lay down.
Just rest and drink a lot of water.

Do I look too serious for an early 20s young woman? 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?

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I want to be professional. Do I look like one?Do I look too serious for an early 20s young woman? 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
Girl, you look like a ball-bustin beotch!! And that's a good thing!! Bitches get things done!! You'll be destined to be a CEO some day!! =)Do I look too serious for an early 20s young woman? 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
First of all I do not Know how you really look but if your really worried try wearing lighter colors or if you wear make-up wear like gold eye shadow. If its your expression try giggleng even if its fake: look up funny jokes on google trust me the smile will stay with you. Oh and be your self! I think serious women have a


lovely poetic look. :)
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Can Any Woman Give Me Some Advice?

Ok, I'm a single white 25 yr old heterosexual man. 4 weeks ago my friend introduced me 2 a friend of hers named Carrie. She just dumped her boyfriend %26amp; moved out of the apartment. But, we hit it off %26amp; a couple nights later we went 2 a concert w/ her friends. Then, 4 nights after that her %26amp; I hung out alone cus she asked me to %26amp; she said she wanted 2 get 2 no me more. Well we were vibing like crazy. We finallly kissed. So we went to my favorite pub 4 an entree %26amp; drinks %26amp; to 1 of her favorite bars 4 a few more 2 talk %26amp; get 2 no eachother better. Well none of us were lookin 4 a relationship, but that night, %26amp; 3 nights n a row after that, we had fantastic sex. 4 a week I didn't hear from her, but yesterday I got a txt message from her sayin that she still wants 2 hang out %26amp; the reason she didn't call was she needed a break. 2 weeks ago we were hangin out 6 days out of 14 days. Now I haven't seen her in 10 days. I sent her a txt mssge 2day saying hi but nothing. How should I proceed?Can Any Woman Give Me Some Advice?
It sounds to me as though this ldy is confused as to what she wants. You get on well and she probably would like a relationship with you, if she hadn't just finished with the other guy and still on the rebound.


Depending on how muchyou like her you can do one of two things


You can either text her to say you realise she is confused right now, but you are prepared to give her time to sort herself out and then wait 2-3 months. Or you can put it down to expereince and look for someone else. You may have to do this anyway if she does not come back to you.Can Any Woman Give Me Some Advice?
She needed a break from you when she realized she was rebounding, her feelings are sooo mixed up right now she just wanted to feel special after being dumped %26amp; you came along. The most you can expect for the next 6-12 months is friendship but you most likely blew that when you slept w/ her. It takes a long time to heal from a broken relationship especially if you are the dumped one, so you would be healthier mentally to stay away from recently broken up women. It's almost impossible to develop a healthy relationship w/ her now unless you disappear for about a year and bump into her again then so why wait for if's, maybe's, but's... You deserve more. o.k.
Proceed with caution. She hooked up with you on the rebound. I think, she is cheated on you with her ex. She isn't trustworthy. She cheated on him with you and now the roles are reversed. She hops in the sack to quickly to be a good girlfriend. She is loose. Forget her and move on, next time don't jump in the sack so quick. You don't get a quality girl that way!!!
Thats what most of us females go thru. You were the rebound guy, like the first answerer said. Sorry bout that. I know it hurts too... been thru it, more than once. Find someone else, someone who isn't fresh out of a relationship.
#1. Yes


#2. Back off--you were the rebound guy.
why is this is psychology?
The problem is that she was a slut, and the only thing she wanted was sex. Now that she got that from you she doesn't care about you. Thats what you get for messing with the wrong woman, and having sex out of wedlock!!!
I would say let her call you and set up a time to get together. Just because she needed some space doesn't mean she isn't still feeling you too. She did call you.
SHE'S OUT DOIN THE SAME THING WITH SOMEONE ELSE-WAKE UP!