Tuesday, November 22, 2011

Can Any Woman Give Me Some Advice?

Ok, I'm a single white 25 yr old heterosexual man. 4 weeks ago my friend introduced me 2 a friend of hers named Carrie. She just dumped her boyfriend %26amp; moved out of the apartment. But, we hit it off %26amp; a couple nights later we went 2 a concert w/ her friends. Then, 4 nights after that her %26amp; I hung out alone cus she asked me to %26amp; she said she wanted 2 get 2 no me more. Well we were vibing like crazy. We finallly kissed. So we went to my favorite pub 4 an entree %26amp; drinks %26amp; to 1 of her favorite bars 4 a few more 2 talk %26amp; get 2 no eachother better. Well none of us were lookin 4 a relationship, but that night, %26amp; 3 nights n a row after that, we had fantastic sex. 4 a week I didn't hear from her, but yesterday I got a txt message from her sayin that she still wants 2 hang out %26amp; the reason she didn't call was she needed a break. 2 weeks ago we were hangin out 6 days out of 14 days. Now I haven't seen her in 10 days. I sent her a txt mssge 2day saying hi but nothing. How should I proceed?Can Any Woman Give Me Some Advice?
It sounds to me as though this ldy is confused as to what she wants. You get on well and she probably would like a relationship with you, if she hadn't just finished with the other guy and still on the rebound.


Depending on how muchyou like her you can do one of two things


You can either text her to say you realise she is confused right now, but you are prepared to give her time to sort herself out and then wait 2-3 months. Or you can put it down to expereince and look for someone else. You may have to do this anyway if she does not come back to you.Can Any Woman Give Me Some Advice?
She needed a break from you when she realized she was rebounding, her feelings are sooo mixed up right now she just wanted to feel special after being dumped %26amp; you came along. The most you can expect for the next 6-12 months is friendship but you most likely blew that when you slept w/ her. It takes a long time to heal from a broken relationship especially if you are the dumped one, so you would be healthier mentally to stay away from recently broken up women. It's almost impossible to develop a healthy relationship w/ her now unless you disappear for about a year and bump into her again then so why wait for if's, maybe's, but's... You deserve more. o.k.
Proceed with caution. She hooked up with you on the rebound. I think, she is cheated on you with her ex. She isn't trustworthy. She cheated on him with you and now the roles are reversed. She hops in the sack to quickly to be a good girlfriend. She is loose. Forget her and move on, next time don't jump in the sack so quick. You don't get a quality girl that way!!!
Thats what most of us females go thru. You were the rebound guy, like the first answerer said. Sorry bout that. I know it hurts too... been thru it, more than once. Find someone else, someone who isn't fresh out of a relationship.
#1. Yes


#2. Back off--you were the rebound guy.
why is this is psychology?
The problem is that she was a slut, and the only thing she wanted was sex. Now that she got that from you she doesn't care about you. Thats what you get for messing with the wrong woman, and having sex out of wedlock!!!
I would say let her call you and set up a time to get together. Just because she needed some space doesn't mean she isn't still feeling you too. She did call you.
SHE'S OUT DOIN THE SAME THING WITH SOMEONE ELSE-WAKE UP!

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