So I have been dating this guy 5 months to the day today.
We have never said we were exclusively dating each other, and I haven't been dating anyone else, but I gather that he has been dating other people. That has been okay with me as it was non-committed and I have just lived with it until two weeks ago when he said ';I love you';... and that got me thinking. Well that threw me for a loop and I asked him where we stood, he said he wasn't ready to commit but ';wasn't looking for more!'; So I tried to be okay with that and really thought I was ok with it.
Yesterday we went out and had a great dinner, watched a movie, had sex and he took his dog for a walk. While he was walking the dog, his phone chimed and it was from a female saying ';I don't know if I said it last night or not, but thank you for a nice dinner. I should have kissed you...'; I was so hurt because he told me he had a migraine and went to bed early on Friday night - so not only is he seeing other people the even worse thing is that he is lying to me. Now - I didn't tell him I saw the text and I know that this is what you get when you snoop, but it was just something that told me I needed to look at that phone. No criticism...it was a womans intuition and it was right!!
So I told him I was not okay with the current arrangement of seeing other people, as I have too many emotions invested to think about him dating other women, and that if he didn't want to commit then we could drop back to friends but there would be no more romantic involvement. This was mostly via text message - but the long and the short of it is he said it will be at least another year until he wants a committment and he hopes for the long term sake of our future I will be ';ENORMOUSLY PATIENT'; with him. He is recently divorced and wants some time to be ';free'; I guess - but if thats what he wanted why didn't he say so? He wants me to continue as it is with romantic involvement and all and just sit back while he dates and looks around for other women. I said friends - thats all I can give under those conditions. I told him he can let me know if he can handle that and he hasn't responded. He was really upset and crying and all when he took me home today, but he demands that I would have to be ';patient'; if I want to be with him long term...
I am hopelessly in love with him and he can make me laugh and smile like no one else and is great in bed but I can't just sit back and be a doormat while he looks for ';More'; - Isn't that correct? He has absolutely ripped my heart out with this, but I feel like if I let it go on any further it is just going to involve more emotions (on my part) and that it is an unhealthy way to conduct a relationship when I know he is seeing other people and maybe lying to me as well. The past 5 months have been really nice - I have met his family and some of his friends, he has met my Mother...we talked on the phone every day - sometimes for hours at a time but I let myself fall for someone when I shouldn't have. What do I do?
Does anyone have any feedback on this? What would you do in my situation?Question about relationship? Advice and opinions from men and women...?
You're being played, and rather well at that with the tears and all. Unless you want to relegate yourself to always being patient and in effect being the other woman, or the port in a storm then by all means stick with him
Saturday, July 31, 2010
I need an advice from single moms or maybe women in general?
I had an affair with a married man..I got pregnant and now I have a Beautiful daughter.. I'm in my earliest 20s.. I filed for child support and I already went to the first heiring and his wife was right there with him being all loving with him.. They both made me feel like trash.. I know I made a mistake.. I was naive and stupid for doing what I did and apparently my self esteem then was low; any way I did approached her and apologized with her for what she is going thru and she came to me and told she would not change the world to be in my shoes..I didn't say anything because I didn't want to hurt her.. But the truth is that I didn't even know her name, so how can some one hurt someone that they don't even know..? Any way it was a really painful time for me all this is really draining.. What I try to understand is why she will be all loving with him that was the one who hurt her directly and was all mad at me, when I didn't even know her? Can some one help me to understand why two women would fight for a men who is not worth it? or why two women should confront each other and try to hurt each for some one that hurt both of them? I cant understand that? I need an advice from single moms or maybe women in general?
This same situation happened to me - except I was the betrayed wife. My first immediate reaction when all this news broke out was to protect my children and my family. I went into complete protective mode... and that included doing everything possible to keep my husband (I even foolishly told him that we should raise the baby - because he and his little girlfriend clearly weren't capable of doing so). As the months went by the shock slowly wore off and I realized the biggest fool in this big mess was me. My husband continued to keep in touch with this woman - and of course I realized he'd have to be in touch with her FOREVER since she was STUPID enough to get herself pregnant and she wanted his $$$ (you could see those symbols glowing in her eyes). So I went into a new protective mode - the one of surving independent single mom - and divorced him. The other woman contacted me once and actually wanted my children to spend time with her kid - I told her if she ever contacted me or my kids again I'd file harassment charges against her. I then took my ex husband back to court and waived his child support responsibilities to me so that I would have full parental control. Hon, trust me on this - money from other people keeps you in chains. You got yourself into this mess, now be strong enough to raise that baby on your own.I need an advice from single moms or maybe women in general?
You should really just go to the hearing and ignore him and the wife. You are doing this to take care of your child and that is the important thing. Don't worry about the wife because she is the dumb one because if he cheated on her once, he will do it again. Just let this whole thing be a learning experience for you and remember to ask yourself next time ';If I were married would I want someone to have an affair with my husband and wreck my marriage or home?'; Put your daughter first and forget your feelings or the wife's feelings.
This same situation happened to me - except I was the betrayed wife. My first immediate reaction when all this news broke out was to protect my children and my family. I went into complete protective mode... and that included doing everything possible to keep my husband (I even foolishly told him that we should raise the baby - because he and his little girlfriend clearly weren't capable of doing so). As the months went by the shock slowly wore off and I realized the biggest fool in this big mess was me. My husband continued to keep in touch with this woman - and of course I realized he'd have to be in touch with her FOREVER since she was STUPID enough to get herself pregnant and she wanted his $$$ (you could see those symbols glowing in her eyes). So I went into a new protective mode - the one of surving independent single mom - and divorced him. The other woman contacted me once and actually wanted my children to spend time with her kid - I told her if she ever contacted me or my kids again I'd file harassment charges against her. I then took my ex husband back to court and waived his child support responsibilities to me so that I would have full parental control. Hon, trust me on this - money from other people keeps you in chains. You got yourself into this mess, now be strong enough to raise that baby on your own.I need an advice from single moms or maybe women in general?
You should really just go to the hearing and ignore him and the wife. You are doing this to take care of your child and that is the important thing. Don't worry about the wife because she is the dumb one because if he cheated on her once, he will do it again. Just let this whole thing be a learning experience for you and remember to ask yourself next time ';If I were married would I want someone to have an affair with my husband and wreck my marriage or home?'; Put your daughter first and forget your feelings or the wife's feelings.
Seeking the advice of long-time happily married women...?
I seem to be getting annoyed with my boyfriend of almost a year. How is it that some days we get along fantastically and I feel an overwhelming sense of love for my boyfriend, and other days I am annoyed with him? We live somewhat far apart and only see each other on the weekends with maybe a day here and there during the week. When we spend a long weekend together is when I feel the most happy but after I haven't seen him for a long time is when I am aware of the little nuances.
Is it just part of a normal relationship where somedays you are ';on'; and others you aren't? Or is it because of the inconsistency in our schedules? I spend the majority of my time of thinking and acting like an independent woman and then every once in while I play the part of someone in a serious relationship.
I worry because I know we are headed towards a committed relationship and I don't want to become one of those wives who nags. I guess the big question is, is this more than likely due to the fact that we are in a long distant relationship and having to deal with the merging and disconnecting of our lives so often or are the little things that bother me an indication that we aren't that well suited? At what point do you know if you are compatible enough?Seeking the advice of long-time happily married women...?
';I spend the majority of my time of thinking and acting like an independent woman and then every once in while I play the part of someone in a serious relationship.'; Well, you have the right attitude as far as being a mature woman goes. You should always have your own independence. So that being said, I think you are on the right track.
To answer your question about being compatible enough, only you can know and/or feel that my dear. But basically, what you're describing is pretty normal.Seeking the advice of long-time happily married women...?
You sound unsure of this relationship. Is there a concrete reason why the two of you can't live closer to one another so you can spend more time together to see how it goes? Are you annoyed because you don't see him often enough? You didn't say what causes you to feel annoyed with him...can you give more details?
Hubby and I met online and dated 18 months long distance. We are very happy together and will be celebrating 8 yrs of marriage in a few months.
If you are having problems now, they won't magically disappear when you are together 24/7! Maybe you need to rethink this relationship - sounds to me like he's not the one you want to commit to for long term, good or bad, etc. for the next 50 yrs.
My saying is ';if you can picture yourself with this person long term for 40-50 yrs and still are happy with everythingj, then that is the person you should be with';. If you can't - end the relationship now.
Before we married, we know in our hearts that we could picture being happy 50 yrs from now with each other (if God allows us that much time together).
Is it just part of a normal relationship where somedays you are ';on'; and others you aren't? Or is it because of the inconsistency in our schedules? I spend the majority of my time of thinking and acting like an independent woman and then every once in while I play the part of someone in a serious relationship.
I worry because I know we are headed towards a committed relationship and I don't want to become one of those wives who nags. I guess the big question is, is this more than likely due to the fact that we are in a long distant relationship and having to deal with the merging and disconnecting of our lives so often or are the little things that bother me an indication that we aren't that well suited? At what point do you know if you are compatible enough?Seeking the advice of long-time happily married women...?
';I spend the majority of my time of thinking and acting like an independent woman and then every once in while I play the part of someone in a serious relationship.'; Well, you have the right attitude as far as being a mature woman goes. You should always have your own independence. So that being said, I think you are on the right track.
To answer your question about being compatible enough, only you can know and/or feel that my dear. But basically, what you're describing is pretty normal.Seeking the advice of long-time happily married women...?
You sound unsure of this relationship. Is there a concrete reason why the two of you can't live closer to one another so you can spend more time together to see how it goes? Are you annoyed because you don't see him often enough? You didn't say what causes you to feel annoyed with him...can you give more details?
Hubby and I met online and dated 18 months long distance. We are very happy together and will be celebrating 8 yrs of marriage in a few months.
If you are having problems now, they won't magically disappear when you are together 24/7! Maybe you need to rethink this relationship - sounds to me like he's not the one you want to commit to for long term, good or bad, etc. for the next 50 yrs.
My saying is ';if you can picture yourself with this person long term for 40-50 yrs and still are happy with everythingj, then that is the person you should be with';. If you can't - end the relationship now.
Before we married, we know in our hearts that we could picture being happy 50 yrs from now with each other (if God allows us that much time together).
What advice would you give to a 36 year old woman going to her first funeral ever?
Anything I need to know today?What advice would you give to a 36 year old woman going to her first funeral ever?
Under no circumstances try to tackle your hubby's big ole ex wifey.What advice would you give to a 36 year old woman going to her first funeral ever?
DON'T feel bad for never attending a funeral before now. Growing up my parents didn't take me to them, either.
Plan on the Catholic service being l-o-n-g. The one I went to lasted 1 hr %26amp; 45 minutes.
Dress conservatively, like going to church; nothing loud or sexy.
The casket may be opened or closed, depending on the wishes of the family. Don't feel that you have to go near where the body is laying. Seeing a dead body for the first time can give you the creeps. :) It can be hard to realize that this body you see laying before you was once alive. It can be rather confusing. I suggest you take someone with you for support.
Realize that you will see emotions spanning the gamut from wry humor to intense grief. If you stand back %26amp; watch, you can be rather amused by all this. But people handle death in their own way.
You may wish to offer condolences to the family or you may decide to just sign the guest book to let the family know you attended. It's up to you.
frst I would say your are very fortunate to have lived so long without losing someone important enough to attend their funeral. Parts of it may seem morbid and odd but they are designed to bring comfort to the loved ones. Mostly, pay attention so you'll know what you DON'T want for yourself or your family! People do some bizarre stuff.
EVER? Wow, you have lived such a blesses life. You stand by your husband and the kids and be supportive, have tissue in your pockets for the kids and your husband. Try not to smirk at the ex-wife. Just smile when spoken to and try to keep some of your off the wall questions in your head, you do not want to alienate the family members that do not know you as well as us. Good luck today.
bring ur i pod if ur not catholic. they go on and on forever!!!!!!!!!!!!!
and dont throw urself on the casket as it lowers, its old school and a case of been there done that! lol
sorry, im not taking this seriously, be quiet and respectful of the dead, or else the priest will send ur soul to hell! there. prepared now??? :)
I take it you'll be in the greeting line, then. Pay your respects. No joking. No laughs. Don't stare at the body for more than a few moments.
Wear black conservative clothes. Comfort those who seem to need it. Talk quietly if you need to talk. Walk slowly.
no jokes today. just keep your mouth zipped jay jay. . but i would love to know how you dealt with his ex wife today.
Stand when everyone else stands, and kneel when they kneel. Don't worry about the hymns because none of us Catholicvs can sing anyway.
just smile and look cute and DONT say a word!
just be quiet. lolmakeup school
Under no circumstances try to tackle your hubby's big ole ex wifey.What advice would you give to a 36 year old woman going to her first funeral ever?
DON'T feel bad for never attending a funeral before now. Growing up my parents didn't take me to them, either.
Plan on the Catholic service being l-o-n-g. The one I went to lasted 1 hr %26amp; 45 minutes.
Dress conservatively, like going to church; nothing loud or sexy.
The casket may be opened or closed, depending on the wishes of the family. Don't feel that you have to go near where the body is laying. Seeing a dead body for the first time can give you the creeps. :) It can be hard to realize that this body you see laying before you was once alive. It can be rather confusing. I suggest you take someone with you for support.
Realize that you will see emotions spanning the gamut from wry humor to intense grief. If you stand back %26amp; watch, you can be rather amused by all this. But people handle death in their own way.
You may wish to offer condolences to the family or you may decide to just sign the guest book to let the family know you attended. It's up to you.
frst I would say your are very fortunate to have lived so long without losing someone important enough to attend their funeral. Parts of it may seem morbid and odd but they are designed to bring comfort to the loved ones. Mostly, pay attention so you'll know what you DON'T want for yourself or your family! People do some bizarre stuff.
EVER? Wow, you have lived such a blesses life. You stand by your husband and the kids and be supportive, have tissue in your pockets for the kids and your husband. Try not to smirk at the ex-wife. Just smile when spoken to and try to keep some of your off the wall questions in your head, you do not want to alienate the family members that do not know you as well as us. Good luck today.
bring ur i pod if ur not catholic. they go on and on forever!!!!!!!!!!!!!
and dont throw urself on the casket as it lowers, its old school and a case of been there done that! lol
sorry, im not taking this seriously, be quiet and respectful of the dead, or else the priest will send ur soul to hell! there. prepared now??? :)
I take it you'll be in the greeting line, then. Pay your respects. No joking. No laughs. Don't stare at the body for more than a few moments.
Wear black conservative clothes. Comfort those who seem to need it. Talk quietly if you need to talk. Walk slowly.
no jokes today. just keep your mouth zipped jay jay. . but i would love to know how you dealt with his ex wife today.
Stand when everyone else stands, and kneel when they kneel. Don't worry about the hymns because none of us Catholicvs can sing anyway.
just smile and look cute and DONT say a word!
just be quiet. lol
I love a women ten years my senior.I think she likes me too.im only 17 though.any good advice?
She is a fantastic women who i adore with all my heart. Only weird thing is that she's a teacher in my school.She does not teach me though. We recent;y went on a lit trip as a school group and we connected like dots. im confused now because i dont know whether she likes me too or if its wrong to date someone so much older. But i do know one thing, i love her with all my heart. Any advice??I love a women ten years my senior.I think she likes me too.im only 17 though.any good advice?
1) This is the classic CRUSH.
Unfortunately, you have the deeper feelings than she will and she is likely to face all the responsibility if the two of you ';connect like dots';.
Listen, enjoy the fact this older woman is in your life and you can learn something from her. But for the sake of both of you, do not take it further. It's an infatuation. She may have a liking towards you, but it would be best not to explore it in the setting you are currently in (student / teacher).
Perhaps one day your paths will cross again when you are older, then you can determine if it is still something you want to pursue. I would wait until you are at least 21.
2) In the meant time, be willing to meet other women closer to your age. Become experienced in what women want and need. Learn how to express yourself. Take up poetry, psychology, and your own physical appearance. You primarily want to learn how to become more rounded and in touch with what a woman needs/wants in addition to those things that make you masculine.
(Note on Psychology - never try to ';get in someone's brain';. Just learn about human nature and try to understand the larger picture. Stay away from trying to figure someone out just because you took a few classes in psychology. It doesn't work that way. It can help you if you don't make too many assumptions based on it)
The more you develop you 'skill' with people, your ability to express yourself, as well your knowledge and experience in different areas, I think you will find that woman of all ages will be far more attracted to you. Then you may find through your experiences, your views towards this woman may have changed. If it hasn't, at the very least she will most likely find you to be a far more attractive mate now.
3) Don't be in a rush to ';grow up';. You'll later wish you had more time.
Hope this helps.I love a women ten years my senior.I think she likes me too.im only 17 though.any good advice?
I see others gave you the same advice as me and it all means to grow up more and mature more, and learn more, and although I knew you would not pick me after you wrote to me, I see you still get the same advice...
That's ok though, I am happy with your decision...
DROP THIS IDEA IN YOUR HEAD!
it isn't going to end up well
you'll both go to jail
wait till you get out of school and ESPECIALLY until you turn eighteen. Then, if you still feel so strongly, a few years later, do what you feel is right.
hey dont listen to people on this site , just cause they cant get any they put other people down. ur 17 , i say ur older enough to make ur own mind on the subject. if i were u id go out with her and have fun. just dont be stupid and tell all ur friends , atleast until u turn 18 and have left the school .......
Sorry man, but as long as you are under the age of 18, you can't do a thing...
I think you have more of a crush than real love...
I would venture a guess of you not knowing what all true and real love even entails...
All the responsibility and money and commitment and debt and struggles...
It is never all about sex...
Sex is not the most important thing in keeping a relationship together ever...
It is the heart felt feelings from one person to another...
It cannot work one-sided...
You must wait till you are out of school and more grown up...
That is a fact...
You could get your teacher fired or sent to jail if you get involved with her now...
Step away and give it time...
She may not have feelings for you and you would be hurt...
So back off for now and see what happens after you get out of school...
Because of your age and her position of trust, it is inappropriate for her to have anything more than a teacher-student relationship with you. Don't do it or you will get her in trouble and if you love her you wouldn't want that now do you? If you both still feel strongly about each other after you graduate then give it a go afterwards.
Honey, she is using you. You are very young and she is taking advantage of you. You should only be dating people in the age range of say 16 to 18 years old. My advice is get out of this situation right now and end it. I would also suggest telling your parents. She needs to be reported because what she is doing might be against the law.
You might want to ask her how she feels about you. If she's a teacher in your school she could get in trouble for dating any student. Plus you're under age so be careful. I have to say that age doesn't matter really as long as you aren't breaking any laws with the whole having sex with a minor thing. But if you like her and you think something could happen then talk to her about it. You'll never know unless you say something right. If you felt a connection with her when you talked then there might be something there. Good luck.
flirt date ask her out
your a sick fool wait until you are older.she will probaly slap u if u ask her out.YOU LITTLE NASTY
Well, you know that it's illegal and you guys can get in serious trouble, especially her since you're seventeen and she's a teacher in your school. Besides, you don't know if she's married or single or in a relationship?? I think maybe you're fantasizing but please don't act on your thoughts. I feel you should date other girls close to your age range and move on with your life.
It is illegal for a teacher to date an underage student. Leave her alone unless you want her to get arrested
If you must pusue this, Please wait until you are of legal age, for both your sakes. Then who knows? most of the women I have been with have been older than me, But not quite that much, Though one was 6 years older, But I was like, 28 at the time. I learned a lot from those Ladies, though , and would not trade those experiences for anything. Just wait till you are out of school and no longer assosiated with her place of employment, And then see what happens.
my advice is leave her alone until u graduate from high school so that she doesnt get fired. i dont understand why children try to pursue their teachers....they have a lot that they can lose and they could go to jail
A teacher cannot date a student no matter what. It doesn't matter if she doesn't teach you, she still can't date you. She'll most likely get fired.
If you really want to date her, wait 'til you graduate.
Yeah, step away. Don't make any moves on this woman. You're still a minor, and if you had sexual relations with her, she could be arrested.
Ive been in your situation only the other way around, I m 31 years old and dated a 21 yr. old I fell madly in love with him and still am but due to the age factor we had our differences. but one very important thing you must remember if you truly love her fight for that love regardless of what any one says taking in consideration that you dont bring conflict to her work and if what you feel is true love them show her and never never play with her feelings be true to her and your self, because there is no bigger pain then that of llost ove.
1) This is the classic CRUSH.
Unfortunately, you have the deeper feelings than she will and she is likely to face all the responsibility if the two of you ';connect like dots';.
Listen, enjoy the fact this older woman is in your life and you can learn something from her. But for the sake of both of you, do not take it further. It's an infatuation. She may have a liking towards you, but it would be best not to explore it in the setting you are currently in (student / teacher).
Perhaps one day your paths will cross again when you are older, then you can determine if it is still something you want to pursue. I would wait until you are at least 21.
2) In the meant time, be willing to meet other women closer to your age. Become experienced in what women want and need. Learn how to express yourself. Take up poetry, psychology, and your own physical appearance. You primarily want to learn how to become more rounded and in touch with what a woman needs/wants in addition to those things that make you masculine.
(Note on Psychology - never try to ';get in someone's brain';. Just learn about human nature and try to understand the larger picture. Stay away from trying to figure someone out just because you took a few classes in psychology. It doesn't work that way. It can help you if you don't make too many assumptions based on it)
The more you develop you 'skill' with people, your ability to express yourself, as well your knowledge and experience in different areas, I think you will find that woman of all ages will be far more attracted to you. Then you may find through your experiences, your views towards this woman may have changed. If it hasn't, at the very least she will most likely find you to be a far more attractive mate now.
3) Don't be in a rush to ';grow up';. You'll later wish you had more time.
Hope this helps.I love a women ten years my senior.I think she likes me too.im only 17 though.any good advice?
I see others gave you the same advice as me and it all means to grow up more and mature more, and learn more, and although I knew you would not pick me after you wrote to me, I see you still get the same advice...
That's ok though, I am happy with your decision...
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DROP THIS IDEA IN YOUR HEAD!
it isn't going to end up well
you'll both go to jail
wait till you get out of school and ESPECIALLY until you turn eighteen. Then, if you still feel so strongly, a few years later, do what you feel is right.
hey dont listen to people on this site , just cause they cant get any they put other people down. ur 17 , i say ur older enough to make ur own mind on the subject. if i were u id go out with her and have fun. just dont be stupid and tell all ur friends , atleast until u turn 18 and have left the school .......
Sorry man, but as long as you are under the age of 18, you can't do a thing...
I think you have more of a crush than real love...
I would venture a guess of you not knowing what all true and real love even entails...
All the responsibility and money and commitment and debt and struggles...
It is never all about sex...
Sex is not the most important thing in keeping a relationship together ever...
It is the heart felt feelings from one person to another...
It cannot work one-sided...
You must wait till you are out of school and more grown up...
That is a fact...
You could get your teacher fired or sent to jail if you get involved with her now...
Step away and give it time...
She may not have feelings for you and you would be hurt...
So back off for now and see what happens after you get out of school...
Because of your age and her position of trust, it is inappropriate for her to have anything more than a teacher-student relationship with you. Don't do it or you will get her in trouble and if you love her you wouldn't want that now do you? If you both still feel strongly about each other after you graduate then give it a go afterwards.
Honey, she is using you. You are very young and she is taking advantage of you. You should only be dating people in the age range of say 16 to 18 years old. My advice is get out of this situation right now and end it. I would also suggest telling your parents. She needs to be reported because what she is doing might be against the law.
You might want to ask her how she feels about you. If she's a teacher in your school she could get in trouble for dating any student. Plus you're under age so be careful. I have to say that age doesn't matter really as long as you aren't breaking any laws with the whole having sex with a minor thing. But if you like her and you think something could happen then talk to her about it. You'll never know unless you say something right. If you felt a connection with her when you talked then there might be something there. Good luck.
flirt date ask her out
your a sick fool wait until you are older.she will probaly slap u if u ask her out.YOU LITTLE NASTY
Well, you know that it's illegal and you guys can get in serious trouble, especially her since you're seventeen and she's a teacher in your school. Besides, you don't know if she's married or single or in a relationship?? I think maybe you're fantasizing but please don't act on your thoughts. I feel you should date other girls close to your age range and move on with your life.
It is illegal for a teacher to date an underage student. Leave her alone unless you want her to get arrested
If you must pusue this, Please wait until you are of legal age, for both your sakes. Then who knows? most of the women I have been with have been older than me, But not quite that much, Though one was 6 years older, But I was like, 28 at the time. I learned a lot from those Ladies, though , and would not trade those experiences for anything. Just wait till you are out of school and no longer assosiated with her place of employment, And then see what happens.
my advice is leave her alone until u graduate from high school so that she doesnt get fired. i dont understand why children try to pursue their teachers....they have a lot that they can lose and they could go to jail
A teacher cannot date a student no matter what. It doesn't matter if she doesn't teach you, she still can't date you. She'll most likely get fired.
If you really want to date her, wait 'til you graduate.
Yeah, step away. Don't make any moves on this woman. You're still a minor, and if you had sexual relations with her, she could be arrested.
Ive been in your situation only the other way around, I m 31 years old and dated a 21 yr. old I fell madly in love with him and still am but due to the age factor we had our differences. but one very important thing you must remember if you truly love her fight for that love regardless of what any one says taking in consideration that you dont bring conflict to her work and if what you feel is true love them show her and never never play with her feelings be true to her and your self, because there is no bigger pain then that of llost ove.
Is there a such thing as women who get paid to seduce men,like on 50's vid. Just a lil bit, I need your advice
Certainly! they're called Prostitutes.Is there a such thing as women who get paid to seduce men,like on 50's vid. Just a lil bit, I need your advice
u mean like hookers? lol, i guess. Can't see why they do it though.
u mean like hookers? lol, i guess. Can't see why they do it though.
I need advice from virgins, anyone who is against sex before marriage, and young women in their 20s?
I'm a 21 year old female.
I'm a virgin.
This is mostly because of religious reasons, but also because I haven't dated a guy yet that I really have wanted to have sex with =/
But, as much as my religion says that I shouldn't have sex until I'm married, I really, really want to do it.
But I don't want to give it away to some random guy...and I don't want to get pregnant yet.
Also, I feel like it's hard to tell a new guy I'm dating that I'm still a virgin =/
I need advice. How do you tell a new guy you're a virgin (at 21)?
Do you think I should go ahead and have sex before marriage?
What was your first time like?
Did you lose your virginity and then regret it?I need advice from virgins, anyone who is against sex before marriage, and young women in their 20s?
Hi, i know how its hard to wait. I'm 29 years old virgin. Living with my fiance together. I'm not religious just feeling inside that sex before marriage is not for me. I'm very happy and proud of myself. I was in 2 long term relationship when i was 22 and 24. I'm so happy i didn't gave them my virginity. Now i'm sure, i'm getting married soon. We are very happy, my fiance is very proud of it too. I know from my friends experience(they are married already), how they regret of having sex with other mans before marriage, and how they are jealous for me. They say they also wanted to be the ones for their husbands. So there is no reason to have sex till you are not married. Good luck.I need advice from virgins, anyone who is against sex before marriage, and young women in their 20s?
Im a virgin and 20, Guys don't respect girls who are not virgins so It is best to wait until you are married besides you run the risk of being used up and then spit out. If he doesn't want to wait with you than he doesn't love you he just wants sex, thats how you weed out the bad guys from the good guys, the right guy is the guy that sticks around. Your virginity is a precious thing
I had pretty much the same issue. I was dating a guy and my religion is against sex before marriage. I told him straight up I was a virgin and that I didn't want to have sex until I was married, but then after we had been dating for a while, I fell in love with him and I told myself it was ok since we were probably gonna get married anyway. He wasn't a virgin so he was always pressuring me, and I finally just gave in.
Honestly? I wish I never had. I wanted sex to be about the emotional connection, I was very attracted to him physically, but that's part of the reason I wanted to wait until I was married. He just wanted to have sex because he was horny all the time. Right now we are broken up, we've been broken up for a while, and now I feel like if I ever do meet the guy I want to settle down with, it will be different. There's really nothing like virginity, and you can't get it back.
I know I sound a little over emotional, but I believe in saving for the person you get married to, I think it would've been great to get married to someone I loved and experienced that first time with him on our honeymoon. Even if I would have gotten married to the guy I mention, it seems like the honeymoon wouldn't have been near as special since we'd already experienced each other for so long. If you've made it to 21, I'd say save it just a while longer until you meet the right person.
I'm a virgin.
This is mostly because of religious reasons, but also because I haven't dated a guy yet that I really have wanted to have sex with =/
But, as much as my religion says that I shouldn't have sex until I'm married, I really, really want to do it.
But I don't want to give it away to some random guy...and I don't want to get pregnant yet.
Also, I feel like it's hard to tell a new guy I'm dating that I'm still a virgin =/
I need advice. How do you tell a new guy you're a virgin (at 21)?
Do you think I should go ahead and have sex before marriage?
What was your first time like?
Did you lose your virginity and then regret it?I need advice from virgins, anyone who is against sex before marriage, and young women in their 20s?
Hi, i know how its hard to wait. I'm 29 years old virgin. Living with my fiance together. I'm not religious just feeling inside that sex before marriage is not for me. I'm very happy and proud of myself. I was in 2 long term relationship when i was 22 and 24. I'm so happy i didn't gave them my virginity. Now i'm sure, i'm getting married soon. We are very happy, my fiance is very proud of it too. I know from my friends experience(they are married already), how they regret of having sex with other mans before marriage, and how they are jealous for me. They say they also wanted to be the ones for their husbands. So there is no reason to have sex till you are not married. Good luck.I need advice from virgins, anyone who is against sex before marriage, and young women in their 20s?
Im a virgin and 20, Guys don't respect girls who are not virgins so It is best to wait until you are married besides you run the risk of being used up and then spit out. If he doesn't want to wait with you than he doesn't love you he just wants sex, thats how you weed out the bad guys from the good guys, the right guy is the guy that sticks around. Your virginity is a precious thing
I had pretty much the same issue. I was dating a guy and my religion is against sex before marriage. I told him straight up I was a virgin and that I didn't want to have sex until I was married, but then after we had been dating for a while, I fell in love with him and I told myself it was ok since we were probably gonna get married anyway. He wasn't a virgin so he was always pressuring me, and I finally just gave in.
Honestly? I wish I never had. I wanted sex to be about the emotional connection, I was very attracted to him physically, but that's part of the reason I wanted to wait until I was married. He just wanted to have sex because he was horny all the time. Right now we are broken up, we've been broken up for a while, and now I feel like if I ever do meet the guy I want to settle down with, it will be different. There's really nothing like virginity, and you can't get it back.
I know I sound a little over emotional, but I believe in saving for the person you get married to, I think it would've been great to get married to someone I loved and experienced that first time with him on our honeymoon. Even if I would have gotten married to the guy I mention, it seems like the honeymoon wouldn't have been near as special since we'd already experienced each other for so long. If you've made it to 21, I'd say save it just a while longer until you meet the right person.
Just want some honest opinions..from women thats been in this situation maybe? kinda long, but need advice! =)?
so me and my partner have been together for almost 7 yrs. I found out that I was pregnant in January. 3 more months to go with a baby girl! =)
anyways...sometimes I feel like im in the wrong for getting so upset with him..and other times I feel like I have EVERY right in the world to be mad.
I feel like he always has to be doing something...with his friends...and when he is with his friends, he is drinking. Im sitting at home...feeling lonely....while my boyfriend is out having a great time..staying up or out all night sometimes..its not a CONSTANT thing but seriously. We dont have the money for that. I just feel so ';let down'; sometimes. But he seems to think theres no reason I should be upset. He is just having a good time...which I understand..go out with your buddies, have a few beers, then call it a night.....but no...thats never enough. I dont know..im just getting tired of it...
and he made a comment...saying he feels like he needs to spend time with his friends now while he can..and have a little bit of fun before the baby arrives because he knows he will be spending all his time with me and the baby..and maybe I took that statement the wrong way but made me feel like j ust because were having a baby..his life is going to be over...ugh..dam hormones! Did you man act like this when you were pregnant..howd you deal with it? Am I over reactting?Just want some honest opinions..from women thats been in this situation maybe? kinda long, but need advice! =)?
hun i have 2 boys and i can honestly say that i carried and delivered them by myself and now i am raising them myself i had the same problem that you are having but turned into them never comin home again and i totally agree with you and this is a time that you need him most and he shouldn't feel or think that just because you guys are going to be parents in a few months that his life is going to be over because it's not the truth is it's just starting and he will realize that soon and if he doesn't then you need to make a choice hun nobody deserves to be alone when there is a strong relationship.my boys are now going to be 6 in nov. and 9 in jan. and i have done it all myself with no child support or anything from the fathers i have a very hard life but tell you what i wouldn't trade one single day because i know that i have my kids and i love them with all my heart they are now my life i no longer think of men i have had enough of them lol i have a no tollerence fiew when it comes to men and they way they act and your boyfriend is doing wrong and he will see that and all i can say to you hun is to be strong and maybe call up some girlfriends and have some fun yourself before the baby arrives and always remember try not to let him get to you cause stress and pregnancy don't mix hun i feel for you and i understand how you feel i have been there done that twice and it's not fun really but remember don't forget about yourself....good luck hun and congrats on your new baby to be...Just want some honest opinions..from women thats been in this situation maybe? kinda long, but need advice! =)?
He did during our first pregnancy and now he is a great father. While I do agree with you that your feelings might be hormonal, you are right and he should be around for you more, especially in the days to come.
I'm not a girl but I think that's wrong I think that you will always have time, No matter what! And this is the time you really need him.
most men are selfish thats all their is to it.
';While he still can';.....ah.
My husband has never said this to me, but I know guys who have had this mentality. A lot of them settle down and become great dads.
If your main concern is financial, why don't you ask about compromising? Maybe budget a set amount of money for ONE ';guys night'; per month? Or is it possible for him to have a guys night at home, like for poker or to watch a sports game?
My husband and I have an 8 yr old, an 18 month old and a 6 week old. His friends/work buddies have guys nights but they take turns hosting them at home. Beer is cheaper if you buy it and drink at home and you can still hang out and kick back.
The feeling lonely is partly hormones but you have a point. It all depends on how much he goes out. Anything more than once a month is too much for a couple on budget with a baby on the way.
Some times I feel like this. But then I jus tell myself that I'd rather him be out now then after our son is born. But when he goes out for ';man dates'; as I like to call them, I go out too. It helps so I'm not jus sitting at home and its good to go out with the girls before I have the baby and won't be able to much anymore.
You're pregnant. That in itself is really hard. I'm 35 weeks with my third child. This is my husband's first. I have the same argument with him. But I look back at it later and know her needs to go out and have time to himself either with his friends or whom ever. You don't feel like you need space now but in time you will. At least he wants to be there after the baby is born. My ex husband is my ex for that reason I had the same situations with him but instead of going out his friends were always over. So he'd be home but I'd still have to take care of OUR kids. Its ok to let him get it out of his system now. Plus when we're pregnant we're not the easiest people to get along with. Half the time now I don't even know what I want let alone expecting him to know. Sounds like you two are normal. So instead of sitting home alone while he's out having fun, try finding something for you to do at home or something u can go out to do for free. Its summer now there's a lot of things you can do without having to spend a fortune take advantage of it!
omg i've been going through the exact same thing!!! my boyfriend spends more time with his friends than with me!! he says he has to go out and have his fun while he can because he wont be able to when the baby comes, we've had sooo many fights throughout my pregnancy because of this and its finally starting to calm down, im near the end of my pregnancy (37 weeks 1 day) and now all he wants is for me to push the baby out already lol i think you should explain to him how much it bothers you, even if you have to do it over and over again, be mean about it if it gets the point across, that's what i had to do and eventually things should calm down, when you get to be further along and he realizes baby will come soon, i think it sparks the guys attention and they go into daddy mode. im not sure how it will work for you because obviously our men are different lol but that's how i handled it!! good luck dear!! and try not to stress about it too much!
anyways...sometimes I feel like im in the wrong for getting so upset with him..and other times I feel like I have EVERY right in the world to be mad.
I feel like he always has to be doing something...with his friends...and when he is with his friends, he is drinking. Im sitting at home...feeling lonely....while my boyfriend is out having a great time..staying up or out all night sometimes..its not a CONSTANT thing but seriously. We dont have the money for that. I just feel so ';let down'; sometimes. But he seems to think theres no reason I should be upset. He is just having a good time...which I understand..go out with your buddies, have a few beers, then call it a night.....but no...thats never enough. I dont know..im just getting tired of it...
and he made a comment...saying he feels like he needs to spend time with his friends now while he can..and have a little bit of fun before the baby arrives because he knows he will be spending all his time with me and the baby..and maybe I took that statement the wrong way but made me feel like j ust because were having a baby..his life is going to be over...ugh..dam hormones! Did you man act like this when you were pregnant..howd you deal with it? Am I over reactting?Just want some honest opinions..from women thats been in this situation maybe? kinda long, but need advice! =)?
hun i have 2 boys and i can honestly say that i carried and delivered them by myself and now i am raising them myself i had the same problem that you are having but turned into them never comin home again and i totally agree with you and this is a time that you need him most and he shouldn't feel or think that just because you guys are going to be parents in a few months that his life is going to be over because it's not the truth is it's just starting and he will realize that soon and if he doesn't then you need to make a choice hun nobody deserves to be alone when there is a strong relationship.my boys are now going to be 6 in nov. and 9 in jan. and i have done it all myself with no child support or anything from the fathers i have a very hard life but tell you what i wouldn't trade one single day because i know that i have my kids and i love them with all my heart they are now my life i no longer think of men i have had enough of them lol i have a no tollerence fiew when it comes to men and they way they act and your boyfriend is doing wrong and he will see that and all i can say to you hun is to be strong and maybe call up some girlfriends and have some fun yourself before the baby arrives and always remember try not to let him get to you cause stress and pregnancy don't mix hun i feel for you and i understand how you feel i have been there done that twice and it's not fun really but remember don't forget about yourself....good luck hun and congrats on your new baby to be...Just want some honest opinions..from women thats been in this situation maybe? kinda long, but need advice! =)?
He did during our first pregnancy and now he is a great father. While I do agree with you that your feelings might be hormonal, you are right and he should be around for you more, especially in the days to come.
I'm not a girl but I think that's wrong I think that you will always have time, No matter what! And this is the time you really need him.
most men are selfish thats all their is to it.
';While he still can';.....ah.
My husband has never said this to me, but I know guys who have had this mentality. A lot of them settle down and become great dads.
If your main concern is financial, why don't you ask about compromising? Maybe budget a set amount of money for ONE ';guys night'; per month? Or is it possible for him to have a guys night at home, like for poker or to watch a sports game?
My husband and I have an 8 yr old, an 18 month old and a 6 week old. His friends/work buddies have guys nights but they take turns hosting them at home. Beer is cheaper if you buy it and drink at home and you can still hang out and kick back.
The feeling lonely is partly hormones but you have a point. It all depends on how much he goes out. Anything more than once a month is too much for a couple on budget with a baby on the way.
Some times I feel like this. But then I jus tell myself that I'd rather him be out now then after our son is born. But when he goes out for ';man dates'; as I like to call them, I go out too. It helps so I'm not jus sitting at home and its good to go out with the girls before I have the baby and won't be able to much anymore.
You're pregnant. That in itself is really hard. I'm 35 weeks with my third child. This is my husband's first. I have the same argument with him. But I look back at it later and know her needs to go out and have time to himself either with his friends or whom ever. You don't feel like you need space now but in time you will. At least he wants to be there after the baby is born. My ex husband is my ex for that reason I had the same situations with him but instead of going out his friends were always over. So he'd be home but I'd still have to take care of OUR kids. Its ok to let him get it out of his system now. Plus when we're pregnant we're not the easiest people to get along with. Half the time now I don't even know what I want let alone expecting him to know. Sounds like you two are normal. So instead of sitting home alone while he's out having fun, try finding something for you to do at home or something u can go out to do for free. Its summer now there's a lot of things you can do without having to spend a fortune take advantage of it!
omg i've been going through the exact same thing!!! my boyfriend spends more time with his friends than with me!! he says he has to go out and have his fun while he can because he wont be able to when the baby comes, we've had sooo many fights throughout my pregnancy because of this and its finally starting to calm down, im near the end of my pregnancy (37 weeks 1 day) and now all he wants is for me to push the baby out already lol i think you should explain to him how much it bothers you, even if you have to do it over and over again, be mean about it if it gets the point across, that's what i had to do and eventually things should calm down, when you get to be further along and he realizes baby will come soon, i think it sparks the guys attention and they go into daddy mode. im not sure how it will work for you because obviously our men are different lol but that's how i handled it!! good luck dear!! and try not to stress about it too much!
ADVICE PLEASE...My friend is at his wits end after not making love to a women for quite a while now.........?
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I need some advice, i think i'm more than a average looking guy, i just wanna knw why women dont notice me
Like in stores like walmart, i can be dress sharp as hell but they wont ever approach me why is that, and Ladies plz only, i dont need a mans perspectiveI need some advice, i think i'm more than a average looking guy, i just wanna knw why women dont notice me
you should be the one making the first move....
you're the guy%26lt; DUH!I need some advice, i think i'm more than a average looking guy, i just wanna knw why women dont notice me
to my knoledge as a woman we don't ususally approach men in the store i guess women are afrain of rejection. try to go up to a woman they get flattered. please don't wait for a women to approach youmakeup school
you should be the one making the first move....
you're the guy%26lt; DUH!I need some advice, i think i'm more than a average looking guy, i just wanna knw why women dont notice me
to my knoledge as a woman we don't ususally approach men in the store i guess women are afrain of rejection. try to go up to a woman they get flattered. please don't wait for a women to approach you
I need woman advice?
umm i wanna know what would be the best looking clothes i could wear. im about 5'9'' im skinny but not toothpick. im sort of buff. plz give me advice lol i really have no idea what i should buy. theres clothes i like but im not sure if they look good to u ladies. so plz tell me what you like. im in high school so yea dont tell me like all these old man crap lol.I need woman advice?
We girls like a man who can dress himself. Ohhhh. Your a boy in high school. Go ask mommy.I need woman advice?
just look at what the other guys are wearing you see at your school and pick what you think looks cool!
Visit TLC(cable tv)- what not to wear. i think the link is tlc.com
Its a great show, im sure they have a website. It will give you step by step advice on what to wear for your body type and age. Has all the info for the matching shoes, bag, accessories and will even help you with hair and makeup. U cant go wrong.
good luck.
if nobody has ever told you wear, what you are comfortable in. if you look good you feel good!
lol...
well every girl is going to have their own opinion, i think guys look good in baggy but not too baggie(so that their boxers are always hanging out) jeans...and not skinny pants....ewww...and besides that any shirts really...
have a very good advice for you, but sorry can't give it to you, you said you want a women advice and I am a man... sorry
well, i think you should wear the nice, baggy, faded jeans, (mainly), and, if you are buff and a good kind of skinny, try to wear short sleeved shirts, collars look good, and so do the stripes, ummmm....if you're school allows it, i like it when guys wear flip flops, and, if you're into music, wear clothes with your favorite bands on it, or, just some shirt with cool designs on it,
Hope i helped!
God Bless You!
P.S. i think a guys hair is more important than what he wears
I personally like the straight legged, faded, ripped, torn, jeans and the button down shirts. Throw a little skater in it and complete the look with a choppy, unstyled hair cut.
get some slouch skinny levis and plaid button down shirt. roll up thuh sleeeves.
and some chucks.
You need women advice? Your in high school don't worry about what we think. Just be YOURSELF. That's better than being dressed in something you don't like.
Hi... well their is many different types of stiles it would depend more in what you are more into
punk
preppy
normal
sophisticated
formal
but its mostly your taste most woman prefer into preppy and sophisticated but not too much... i would recommend some faded jeans with prepay looking shirt.. make your hair a little spiky... give it a try it would look nice
send me a pic * jk
button ups= hot
and wut rele sets it all off is some ambercrombie cologne....sounds lame but turns me on
I'm not a guru on man's clothes but don't buy everything you see in magazines. if you buy modern, up to date %26amp; totally fashionable mens clothes girls will get suspicious. Buy stuff like rugby shirts. But NEVER, I repeat, NEVER wear stubbies. Eew.
We girls like a man who can dress himself. Ohhhh. Your a boy in high school. Go ask mommy.I need woman advice?
just look at what the other guys are wearing you see at your school and pick what you think looks cool!
Visit TLC(cable tv)- what not to wear. i think the link is tlc.com
Its a great show, im sure they have a website. It will give you step by step advice on what to wear for your body type and age. Has all the info for the matching shoes, bag, accessories and will even help you with hair and makeup. U cant go wrong.
good luck.
if nobody has ever told you wear, what you are comfortable in. if you look good you feel good!
lol...
well every girl is going to have their own opinion, i think guys look good in baggy but not too baggie(so that their boxers are always hanging out) jeans...and not skinny pants....ewww...and besides that any shirts really...
have a very good advice for you, but sorry can't give it to you, you said you want a women advice and I am a man... sorry
well, i think you should wear the nice, baggy, faded jeans, (mainly), and, if you are buff and a good kind of skinny, try to wear short sleeved shirts, collars look good, and so do the stripes, ummmm....if you're school allows it, i like it when guys wear flip flops, and, if you're into music, wear clothes with your favorite bands on it, or, just some shirt with cool designs on it,
Hope i helped!
God Bless You!
P.S. i think a guys hair is more important than what he wears
I personally like the straight legged, faded, ripped, torn, jeans and the button down shirts. Throw a little skater in it and complete the look with a choppy, unstyled hair cut.
get some slouch skinny levis and plaid button down shirt. roll up thuh sleeeves.
and some chucks.
You need women advice? Your in high school don't worry about what we think. Just be YOURSELF. That's better than being dressed in something you don't like.
Hi... well their is many different types of stiles it would depend more in what you are more into
punk
preppy
normal
sophisticated
formal
but its mostly your taste most woman prefer into preppy and sophisticated but not too much... i would recommend some faded jeans with prepay looking shirt.. make your hair a little spiky... give it a try it would look nice
send me a pic * jk
button ups= hot
and wut rele sets it all off is some ambercrombie cologne....sounds lame but turns me on
I'm not a guru on man's clothes but don't buy everything you see in magazines. if you buy modern, up to date %26amp; totally fashionable mens clothes girls will get suspicious. Buy stuff like rugby shirts. But NEVER, I repeat, NEVER wear stubbies. Eew.
Women, how often have you taken back your ex? I know, the best advice is to move on, but I love her and miss?
her. I emailed her and simply said that I would like to try and make our relationship work. She told me that she misses me as well, but she needs more time, which I am going to give her. Before she broke-up with me, she said I had been a ';heel'; at times, not quite a jerk, bust just a thoughtless, selfish, stupid ***. No verbal abuse, we always respected each other, certainly no physical abuse and no cheating by either of us. I know she will get to the point where she will be over me entirely, and I will lose my high school sweetheart (she found me after 26 years of looking!) Please, no smarmy answers, I'm hurting here. Have you taken somebody back that was a little insensitive at times (together 7 months), but who you knew was very sorry and who is, in fact, capable of change? I really would like to think that she just needs that time, but that we can run into each others arms again (OK, I know, a little too sappy). Thoughts? TY!Women, how often have you taken back your ex? I know, the best advice is to move on, but I love her and miss?
If she says that she misses you, there is definitely a place in her heart that says that she wants to take you back, and that you're still apart of her. Girls, often take back their ex. Just give her time, and some space, but make her realize that you're willing to change, and you're willing to work hard to gain back that trust, respect, and love that you once had. I have taken back someone who was a little insensitive at times, but I knew that he was sorry for all the wrong that he did to me. So don't worry about it! Time will heal all things =) Hope this helped!
If she says that she misses you, there is definitely a place in her heart that says that she wants to take you back, and that you're still apart of her. Girls, often take back their ex. Just give her time, and some space, but make her realize that you're willing to change, and you're willing to work hard to gain back that trust, respect, and love that you once had. I have taken back someone who was a little insensitive at times, but I knew that he was sorry for all the wrong that he did to me. So don't worry about it! Time will heal all things =) Hope this helped!
Women with children and a husband.. does this happen to you? need some advice.. guys can definitely answer too?
I have 2 children and a husband.. I have been married for almost 8 years.. I have my husband very very spoiled.. He comes from work.. I serve him his food and clean up after him.. He tells me that he adores me and that he would never change me for anything, but this is the thing when it comes to our kids.... he is ... I could say very lazy to even discipline them.. we go out somewhere .. and he ends up enjoying himself..while I am so busy trying to handle my boys... they make a mess, he does not even bother to get up... I dont mind doing it.. but, whenever I am busy I would appreciate him getting up and doing something about it.. helping me out atleast.. I have to get mad at him so that he can get up.. he is more like a laid back person..if they make a mess .. o leave it.. if they are doing spider webs with toilet paper .. o leave it.. but, really when they piss him off .. he will scream from the top of his lungs and scare them.. just this morning I got up just to see that my 2 year old had poured garlic powder in my shoes, on his.. all over my entertainment center... couches.. my rug in the living area.. and then juice in my room.. I clean and clean and clean.. and it seems as if no one here values my work.. he doesn't even get up to help me or anything.. am I over exaggerating or do I need time off ... my kids..?
PS. I have been a housewife for 5 years.. Women with children and a husband.. does this happen to you? need some advice.. guys can definitely answer too?
sit your hubby down and tell him what's what. you need help with the kids he helped bring into the world and would appreciate being able to enjoy an outing without having to constantly worry about what the kids are doing or what they're in to. tell him you love being a wife and mother but you would like to be appreciated and acknowledged for all the hard work that you do for them.Women with children and a husband.. does this happen to you? need some advice.. guys can definitely answer too?
I think time off is great, but I think it is your husband that needs to change.
Have you sat down and told him calmly how this makes you feel?
I would suggest not tidying up after him and leaving all the mess around the house to see how he likes it!
get an outside job, show him you dont need him, give him a run for his money, guys do take advantage when they think they know you would never leave him, show him other wise, put the kids in day care there old enough and will help you not feel overwelmed, trust me.
I think you have spoiled your husband. You are right, he doesn't value your work, because he knows you'll keep doing it again and again and he doesn't HAVE to do anything. I think he loves you but you've allowed him to become lax.
Yeah your husband has to realize that you need a break too. I take breaks for myself and I am not even a housewife all the time, I work also. Every woman needs breaks.
This will continue to happen unless you do something about it. Put your foot down. Let them know you mean business. They will get the pitcher. Real fast. Good luck.
Wow that is a real problem. Can you afford to hire help. It sure makes life easier.
i know the feeling you need to take a day for yourself go to the spa get your hair and nails done
I often times feel this way myself. He comes home from work and lays around on the couch waiting for his dinner. I come home from work and the house is a mess and I am the one who still has to cook and clean! If I didn't do it, it wouldn't get done. I've even tested it once, I left the dishes undone just to see how long it would be before he made the attempt to clean them..well a week passed and finally I couldn't take it any more and washed them all myself. I sometimes get mad and yell at him for his laziness and he just comes back at me with ';well who pays the bills around here!'; I work too though!! Only part time but I also work at home with our kids! Drives me crazy! He does treat me to alot, like dinners jewlery and 'free days' which is nice but sometimes I wish he would just help out a little more than anything!
Advice? Ask him for a day or two a week for yourself, explain why you need this. Tell him that you are going to start looking for an evening job, this will scare him into thinking he'll actually have to be the one for once to make dinner. Start having your boys help out more too..(not sure how old they are) this will make him notice how easy helping out can be. Tell him he needs to step it up or step it out!!
Credit on domestic choirs should be given for someone working more hours on an income producing job.
How that effects the ratio of domestic work performed, between the parties involved should be formulated in a family meeting.
Don't forget to include the children when they are of age to help out.
The ';o leave it'; response from your partner is unacceptable, unless you like living in filth.
well since his job is to go out and work to support his family,its yours to clean up.to a point though.he should at least help out once in a while.as for the little one making a mess,well that's kids for ya.sounds like your a little stressed.take the kid to a babysitter and take the day off,relax.
He is used to you doing everything and probably doesn't even know your getting upset. You need to talk to him and explain that you would like some help. Quit serving him like he is your master, he's got that idea in his head and it will be hard to get it out. You don't have to be mean to him but stop serving him so much and start asking for his help. Have a small talk and explain how your feeling. Tell him to quit yelling at his kids and watch out for what they're doing instead. You need a break. Sounds like you got your hands full.
u re either a very lousy mother or u have not normal kids. maybe u should check them. i have 3 boys - never ever in my life any of them did smth similar what yours did. where did your child even get this garlic powder and juice? and 2 year old shouldn't have been left alone. where were u while he was doing it? sleeping? and i bet it took him for some time to make such a mess. where the hell were u? i have 3 boys i have never ever had such a mess in my house
I am in the same boat as you!! Holy crap, it is exactly the same except we have 2 girls! I don't know what to do either, he is a spoiled brat, mine doesn't even know how to get them ready for bed, it is very frustrating, I wish I could go back to work but he works a lot so neither of us would see our kids! And, I probably would still have to do everything! Good luck, I wish I had advice for you but I just learn to deal with it! I would recommend a weekend away with some friends and let him learn how to appreciate you! I wish I could do that but my husband would probably forget our kids at the store or something.
My hubby doesn't discipline ours either, he always has to be the hero, like telling them yes when I say no, or buying them things even if they are bad! I hate having to be the b!tch all of the time! And he is superman to them!
A lot of the time men think that if they're at work all day %26amp; you're at home all day that it's your responsibility to clean house %26amp; take care of the kids. I think my husband purposely tries to leave more work for me. The only time he helps me is when I throw a huge fit otherwise he doesn't lift a finger. I've been through this over %26amp; over %26amp; I don't think there's anything that will change his attitude towards helping me out. Same thing with the kids... : (
Well, my first question is do YOU discipline your children? What would make your child get into something and put it ALL over your house? Your husband is spoiled, I am a firm believer that we teach people how to treat us, and you have taught him that you will do everything, and until you blow its acceptable. Maybe if you sit down and tell him how you feel and that you would love a break he may see your side. However, I don't think I would leave them with him if he he is either ignoring them or screaming at them. Ask a grandparent or relative to watch them so you can have a break!
PS. I have been a housewife for 5 years.. Women with children and a husband.. does this happen to you? need some advice.. guys can definitely answer too?
sit your hubby down and tell him what's what. you need help with the kids he helped bring into the world and would appreciate being able to enjoy an outing without having to constantly worry about what the kids are doing or what they're in to. tell him you love being a wife and mother but you would like to be appreciated and acknowledged for all the hard work that you do for them.Women with children and a husband.. does this happen to you? need some advice.. guys can definitely answer too?
I think time off is great, but I think it is your husband that needs to change.
Have you sat down and told him calmly how this makes you feel?
I would suggest not tidying up after him and leaving all the mess around the house to see how he likes it!
get an outside job, show him you dont need him, give him a run for his money, guys do take advantage when they think they know you would never leave him, show him other wise, put the kids in day care there old enough and will help you not feel overwelmed, trust me.
I think you have spoiled your husband. You are right, he doesn't value your work, because he knows you'll keep doing it again and again and he doesn't HAVE to do anything. I think he loves you but you've allowed him to become lax.
Yeah your husband has to realize that you need a break too. I take breaks for myself and I am not even a housewife all the time, I work also. Every woman needs breaks.
This will continue to happen unless you do something about it. Put your foot down. Let them know you mean business. They will get the pitcher. Real fast. Good luck.
Wow that is a real problem. Can you afford to hire help. It sure makes life easier.
i know the feeling you need to take a day for yourself go to the spa get your hair and nails done
I often times feel this way myself. He comes home from work and lays around on the couch waiting for his dinner. I come home from work and the house is a mess and I am the one who still has to cook and clean! If I didn't do it, it wouldn't get done. I've even tested it once, I left the dishes undone just to see how long it would be before he made the attempt to clean them..well a week passed and finally I couldn't take it any more and washed them all myself. I sometimes get mad and yell at him for his laziness and he just comes back at me with ';well who pays the bills around here!'; I work too though!! Only part time but I also work at home with our kids! Drives me crazy! He does treat me to alot, like dinners jewlery and 'free days' which is nice but sometimes I wish he would just help out a little more than anything!
Advice? Ask him for a day or two a week for yourself, explain why you need this. Tell him that you are going to start looking for an evening job, this will scare him into thinking he'll actually have to be the one for once to make dinner. Start having your boys help out more too..(not sure how old they are) this will make him notice how easy helping out can be. Tell him he needs to step it up or step it out!!
Credit on domestic choirs should be given for someone working more hours on an income producing job.
How that effects the ratio of domestic work performed, between the parties involved should be formulated in a family meeting.
Don't forget to include the children when they are of age to help out.
The ';o leave it'; response from your partner is unacceptable, unless you like living in filth.
well since his job is to go out and work to support his family,its yours to clean up.to a point though.he should at least help out once in a while.as for the little one making a mess,well that's kids for ya.sounds like your a little stressed.take the kid to a babysitter and take the day off,relax.
He is used to you doing everything and probably doesn't even know your getting upset. You need to talk to him and explain that you would like some help. Quit serving him like he is your master, he's got that idea in his head and it will be hard to get it out. You don't have to be mean to him but stop serving him so much and start asking for his help. Have a small talk and explain how your feeling. Tell him to quit yelling at his kids and watch out for what they're doing instead. You need a break. Sounds like you got your hands full.
u re either a very lousy mother or u have not normal kids. maybe u should check them. i have 3 boys - never ever in my life any of them did smth similar what yours did. where did your child even get this garlic powder and juice? and 2 year old shouldn't have been left alone. where were u while he was doing it? sleeping? and i bet it took him for some time to make such a mess. where the hell were u? i have 3 boys i have never ever had such a mess in my house
I am in the same boat as you!! Holy crap, it is exactly the same except we have 2 girls! I don't know what to do either, he is a spoiled brat, mine doesn't even know how to get them ready for bed, it is very frustrating, I wish I could go back to work but he works a lot so neither of us would see our kids! And, I probably would still have to do everything! Good luck, I wish I had advice for you but I just learn to deal with it! I would recommend a weekend away with some friends and let him learn how to appreciate you! I wish I could do that but my husband would probably forget our kids at the store or something.
My hubby doesn't discipline ours either, he always has to be the hero, like telling them yes when I say no, or buying them things even if they are bad! I hate having to be the b!tch all of the time! And he is superman to them!
A lot of the time men think that if they're at work all day %26amp; you're at home all day that it's your responsibility to clean house %26amp; take care of the kids. I think my husband purposely tries to leave more work for me. The only time he helps me is when I throw a huge fit otherwise he doesn't lift a finger. I've been through this over %26amp; over %26amp; I don't think there's anything that will change his attitude towards helping me out. Same thing with the kids... : (
Well, my first question is do YOU discipline your children? What would make your child get into something and put it ALL over your house? Your husband is spoiled, I am a firm believer that we teach people how to treat us, and you have taught him that you will do everything, and until you blow its acceptable. Maybe if you sit down and tell him how you feel and that you would love a break he may see your side. However, I don't think I would leave them with him if he he is either ignoring them or screaming at them. Ask a grandparent or relative to watch them so you can have a break!
I think I am bisexual -I am an 20 year old women, will someone give me some advice?
So i am engaged to be married and I am incredibly in love with my finacee, who i have been with for 3 years. He turns me on and the sex is great. i would never even think about cheating. the only thing is, when i look at porn i always look at the threesome porn because seeing two women together turns me on. I also notice women in general, such as their bodies and i find myself checking them out when i dont mean to. I have never hooked up with a girl, I have never even kissed one. we almost had a threesome but i got jelous and calld it off. what do i do? if your bisexual and you could help that would be awesomeI think I am bisexual -I am an 20 year old women, will someone give me some advice?
i really dont know im bi and im like you i check girls out whateva but i dont know i agree with the first chick ask your self those questions
and if its yes to all of them then you are
but its not wrong for being bi i think guys dig bi chicks I think I am bisexual -I am an 20 year old women, will someone give me some advice?
I don't know if you are nessicarily bi sexual, per say.
You sound like you may be bi-curious.
Ask yourself this, would you ever hook up with a female?
Would you kiss one, have sex with one, date one?
Also, do you get sexually turned on by a female?
i really dont know im bi and im like you i check girls out whateva but i dont know i agree with the first chick ask your self those questions
and if its yes to all of them then you are
but its not wrong for being bi i think guys dig bi chicks I think I am bisexual -I am an 20 year old women, will someone give me some advice?
I don't know if you are nessicarily bi sexual, per say.
You sound like you may be bi-curious.
Ask yourself this, would you ever hook up with a female?
Would you kiss one, have sex with one, date one?
Also, do you get sexually turned on by a female?
Need advice about what to do (Adult Women Preferred)?
Alright, I have been seeing this girl for a few months and was going to talk to her about where this relationship was going.
Last night I tried to text somebody what questions to ask and how should I go about asking her how she was feeling about the relationship. Little did I know that I was not sending the text message to the correct person. Instead I sent the message to the girl that I am dating.
Do you think that everything will be okay. I just tried calling her but received her voicemail should I back off and wait until she contacts me. This is not a child but an adult. Prefer adult responses only!Need advice about what to do (Adult Women Preferred)?
I did the same thing before but worse! You should not ignore the situation because it is not going to just go away. If she is not answering maybe text her and let her know that you want to talk to her about some things. If she does not respond or call you I would give it a day or two. You don't want to give the impression that you did something bad. Just be honest when you do talk to her. I think it will be fine.Need advice about what to do (Adult Women Preferred)?
Is it clear from the messages that you are talking about her? Did you use her name? Does she like this person you mean to be texting?
If she's an adult, then it should not bother her that you screwed up and send her the texts by accident. She should realize that you are wanting to take your relationship further, and that should make her happy. That's assuming that she thinks the person you meant to be asking is someone you should be asking. Ex-girlfriend or your mother wouldn't be good.
But if it wasn't clear you were talking about her, then she might think you were talking about someone else that you're seeing. So you can't afford to wait for her to call you. You need to contact her ASAP and explain, so she won't think you were cheating on her.
Maybe this is the way that it was supposed to happen in a miracle like way!
Since she already knows what your questions are, go ahead and have the discussion. She probably has the same questions for you. I think that you both need to get it out about where you would like the relationship to advance.
If she is the woman that you need, everything will be fine! If she hasn't gotten back to you, then give her a day or two to come to a conclusion about you. If she hasn't responded in a week, then she is playing mind games and then you will know where you stand.
Good Luck to you both and I hope (*hint*) that it will work out for the best!
as long as you did not say anything creepy or rude she should be ok :)
just give her some space
maybe wait a couple days and say something like
'; i'm sorry, i thought you were another one of my close friends, i was just nervous because i like you so much'; something sweet but not to kiss-*** lol
good luck :D
ha ha. This is a perfect way to ask her out! it make you seem like a cute little puppy. I like puppies. ^_^
Just hold off, don't suffocate her. she's probably a bit confused/embarresed by all this. ^_^
good luck lover boy!
she'll probably find it endearing I would call her and fess up you didn't know and realized and you wanted to know what she thought.
you need to talk to this person face to face. not on the phone or text.
k im going to be adultish about this cause you nee help ok don't get to overwhelmed at least you weren't talking to your friend about how big your... KIDDING!!!!
send some roses unexpectedly.
my boyfriend did that when he thought i was mad at him.
it made my entire day.
we have been married for bout 8 years now.
Simple Solution: Murder. Maybe use a coke can, or a garden rake. Those work really well. Good luck!
Last night I tried to text somebody what questions to ask and how should I go about asking her how she was feeling about the relationship. Little did I know that I was not sending the text message to the correct person. Instead I sent the message to the girl that I am dating.
Do you think that everything will be okay. I just tried calling her but received her voicemail should I back off and wait until she contacts me. This is not a child but an adult. Prefer adult responses only!Need advice about what to do (Adult Women Preferred)?
I did the same thing before but worse! You should not ignore the situation because it is not going to just go away. If she is not answering maybe text her and let her know that you want to talk to her about some things. If she does not respond or call you I would give it a day or two. You don't want to give the impression that you did something bad. Just be honest when you do talk to her. I think it will be fine.Need advice about what to do (Adult Women Preferred)?
Is it clear from the messages that you are talking about her? Did you use her name? Does she like this person you mean to be texting?
If she's an adult, then it should not bother her that you screwed up and send her the texts by accident. She should realize that you are wanting to take your relationship further, and that should make her happy. That's assuming that she thinks the person you meant to be asking is someone you should be asking. Ex-girlfriend or your mother wouldn't be good.
But if it wasn't clear you were talking about her, then she might think you were talking about someone else that you're seeing. So you can't afford to wait for her to call you. You need to contact her ASAP and explain, so she won't think you were cheating on her.
Maybe this is the way that it was supposed to happen in a miracle like way!
Since she already knows what your questions are, go ahead and have the discussion. She probably has the same questions for you. I think that you both need to get it out about where you would like the relationship to advance.
If she is the woman that you need, everything will be fine! If she hasn't gotten back to you, then give her a day or two to come to a conclusion about you. If she hasn't responded in a week, then she is playing mind games and then you will know where you stand.
Good Luck to you both and I hope (*hint*) that it will work out for the best!
as long as you did not say anything creepy or rude she should be ok :)
just give her some space
maybe wait a couple days and say something like
'; i'm sorry, i thought you were another one of my close friends, i was just nervous because i like you so much'; something sweet but not to kiss-*** lol
good luck :D
ha ha. This is a perfect way to ask her out! it make you seem like a cute little puppy. I like puppies. ^_^
Just hold off, don't suffocate her. she's probably a bit confused/embarresed by all this. ^_^
good luck lover boy!
she'll probably find it endearing I would call her and fess up you didn't know and realized and you wanted to know what she thought.
you need to talk to this person face to face. not on the phone or text.
k im going to be adultish about this cause you nee help ok don't get to overwhelmed at least you weren't talking to your friend about how big your... KIDDING!!!!
send some roses unexpectedly.
my boyfriend did that when he thought i was mad at him.
it made my entire day.
we have been married for bout 8 years now.
Simple Solution: Murder. Maybe use a coke can, or a garden rake. Those work really well. Good luck!
What advice can you give about older women having affairs with younger men.?
i'm 36 and have met a 21 y.o. we're both single. Are we being naive enough to think we can just have a NSA affair? I think I'm mature enough to walk away, doing this only because I'm lonely and he's so beautiful and fun. He's doing it because he's ....a young man! he's in Iraq right now and we're planning a weekend. then we'll go our seperate ways. i assumed he'd be okay with this because I believe men his age don't want to settle down. They didnt when i was in my twenties. So it may be hard to part ways but atleast he won't get attached. My friends say otherwise. they say he's saying he won't get attached but he may because i'm more experienced and independent. has anyone done this before?
also no moral judgements...we're two consenting ADULTS....i just want to know if this is going to be messy.What advice can you give about older women having affairs with younger men.?
Firstly let me just say one thing. I WISH I would meet a woman like you. I'm a 19 year old man and I'm very attracted to older women (I don't really like teen girls) but I haven't been able to get lucky with one yet. Hopefully I will soon.
Now to answer your question, if your both single then that's perfectly ok as long as you do the following.
1. Make sure your both aware of what you're getting into
2. Use some sort of birth control
3. Keep each others contact info for the next few of months incase you get pregnant
As long as you do the 3 things above then everything should be ok.
If your the first older woman that he's going to be with, then I think your friends are right. He probably will get attached. But it's hardly going to be a big problem though, it won't harm anyone if he wants to do it again with you. If you don't want to, just say no and you can stay friends or something.
But you never know, it may be you who ends up being attached. So it's like I said before, make sure that your both aware of what you're getting into.
Hope this helps.What advice can you give about older women having affairs with younger men.?
COUGAR!!! You are HOTTTT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
i find dating a older women to be great as long as u state what u want up frontmakeup school
also no moral judgements...we're two consenting ADULTS....i just want to know if this is going to be messy.What advice can you give about older women having affairs with younger men.?
Firstly let me just say one thing. I WISH I would meet a woman like you. I'm a 19 year old man and I'm very attracted to older women (I don't really like teen girls) but I haven't been able to get lucky with one yet. Hopefully I will soon.
Now to answer your question, if your both single then that's perfectly ok as long as you do the following.
1. Make sure your both aware of what you're getting into
2. Use some sort of birth control
3. Keep each others contact info for the next few of months incase you get pregnant
As long as you do the 3 things above then everything should be ok.
If your the first older woman that he's going to be with, then I think your friends are right. He probably will get attached. But it's hardly going to be a big problem though, it won't harm anyone if he wants to do it again with you. If you don't want to, just say no and you can stay friends or something.
But you never know, it may be you who ends up being attached. So it's like I said before, make sure that your both aware of what you're getting into.
Hope this helps.What advice can you give about older women having affairs with younger men.?
COUGAR!!! You are HOTTTT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
i find dating a older women to be great as long as u state what u want up front
Advice needed.i am a single 56 yr old women opening a retail furniture store. looking for grants.?
Despite the guy in the question mark suit on the infomercials, there are no grants for your business. Banks won't want to lend money to a new business. Your business is going to be started with your OWN MONEY, and whatever money you can beg and borrow from friends and relatives. That's how most of them get started.
EDIT: In response to the next posted response. If there are SO MANY, how come you don't know where they are? There might be small assistance grants available (~$1000 or so), but there are no grants that are going to provide you the CAPITAL required to start a small business, let alone a furniture store.
Do the math. The crazy guy in the question mark suit sells a book that is over 1000 pages long with federal, state and local grant opportunities. So much of this information in unapplicable to anyone looking to start a new business. So, let's say each state is equally represented in the book - 1000/50 - that is 20 pages of info per state. Let's say your state has 30 counties - 20/30 - that's 0.67 pages per county. Let's say the grant opportunities are equally divided amongst business, public education and government (which is probably very generous) - 0.67/3 - that's 0.223 pages for business. Now, if you took out the research grants for nuclear particle accelerators, gene splicing, drug research, grants that are pork barrelled into existence for specific businesses, etc. that most small start up businesses would never have a shot at, what's left? Call the SBA and ask them how many federal grants are available for starting a small business. There is lots of good FREE technical assistance available.Advice needed.i am a single 56 yr old women opening a retail furniture store. looking for grants.?
okay kudos to the previous guy for doing it on his own but there are tons of grants out there for small businesses. try your local rescources and if you find a good website email it to me tuskino@yahoo.comAdvice needed.i am a single 56 yr old women opening a retail furniture store. looking for grants.?
Have you tried signing up with CAA (College Arts Association) (misleading name, has nothing to do with college) for their newsletter and web service? I know they have a database of grants for those getting started in the arts. Do you still plan to show paintings in your store as well? If so, that might definitely be a good place to look. Also, if you're still interested in purchasing paintings for your store, I am an artist as well. You can view my work at http://www.kianamgallery.org/artists.htm
click on Max Krance, and tada! My prices are very liquid. Good luck with your search, hope this helps!---Max (jmaxtiger@yahoo.com)
EDIT: In response to the next posted response. If there are SO MANY, how come you don't know where they are? There might be small assistance grants available (~$1000 or so), but there are no grants that are going to provide you the CAPITAL required to start a small business, let alone a furniture store.
Do the math. The crazy guy in the question mark suit sells a book that is over 1000 pages long with federal, state and local grant opportunities. So much of this information in unapplicable to anyone looking to start a new business. So, let's say each state is equally represented in the book - 1000/50 - that is 20 pages of info per state. Let's say your state has 30 counties - 20/30 - that's 0.67 pages per county. Let's say the grant opportunities are equally divided amongst business, public education and government (which is probably very generous) - 0.67/3 - that's 0.223 pages for business. Now, if you took out the research grants for nuclear particle accelerators, gene splicing, drug research, grants that are pork barrelled into existence for specific businesses, etc. that most small start up businesses would never have a shot at, what's left? Call the SBA and ask them how many federal grants are available for starting a small business. There is lots of good FREE technical assistance available.Advice needed.i am a single 56 yr old women opening a retail furniture store. looking for grants.?
okay kudos to the previous guy for doing it on his own but there are tons of grants out there for small businesses. try your local rescources and if you find a good website email it to me tuskino@yahoo.comAdvice needed.i am a single 56 yr old women opening a retail furniture store. looking for grants.?
Have you tried signing up with CAA (College Arts Association) (misleading name, has nothing to do with college) for their newsletter and web service? I know they have a database of grants for those getting started in the arts. Do you still plan to show paintings in your store as well? If so, that might definitely be a good place to look. Also, if you're still interested in purchasing paintings for your store, I am an artist as well. You can view my work at http://www.kianamgallery.org/artists.htm
click on Max Krance, and tada! My prices are very liquid. Good luck with your search, hope this helps!---Max (jmaxtiger@yahoo.com)
Tips/advice on taking candid photos of women at the beach?
Hi, I am going to Hawaii in a few months, and I plan on taking a LOT of candid photographs of attractive bikini-clad young women at the various popular beaches over there.
I have never done anything like this before.
Have any of you taken candid beach photos of women in bikinis before, and if so, do you have any useful tips or advice?
Some things in general I would like to know:
1. Is it legal for me to take candid photos of women on the beach, or do I need to get their permission. Keep in mind, these will not be naked or topless, since beaches in Hawaii do not allow nudity of any sort.
2. Will they usually be confrontational about it, meaning I would be better off taking the photos as descreetly as possible, using a zoom-lens, or is it usually not a big deal, and I can just snap photos from a little closer without using a zoom lens.
3. Have you ever been beat up by the boyfriend of a woman who caught you taking photos of her?
4. On a sunny day during the middle of day, what would you say the best camera settings would be for me to use to get the best possible photos, as far as the shutter speed, aperture setting, and iso setting, given that I will be taking the photos by hand, and not with a tripod.
5. Any other tips or advice would be much appreciated, thanks!Tips/advice on taking candid photos of women at the beach?
PERVERT!Tips/advice on taking candid photos of women at the beach?
Wait, you don't want people taking girlfriend photos, but you want to take photos of other guy's girlfriends?
C'mon on man, rent some videos and get off that way.
This forum is for real photographers and real questions.
Straight to # 5 - Take up macro photography, if you're close enough to do that, I'd ask for permission.
id beat the **** out of you if you started taking candid pictures of my girlfriend.
ok well.... if you honestly want these in a photography way.. you should DEFINATELY ask them before you do... because if not.. you might end up getting beat up
you're a ******* perv.
cats
If you don't want to deal with model releases, do the following.
Photograph only peoples backs (I'm not an expert, so don't take this as sound advice. I could be wrong; you may still need a model release.
Buy an expensive telephoto lens. Like a 500mm 2.8 or something like that.
Query ';bikinis in Hawaii'; on your search engine and save yourself the cost of a plane ticket.
1. You should get a model release form signed if you intend to try to gain financially or just publish.
2. You'll find photography much more rewarding if you ask permission and get cooperation. That way you can get in close, avoid the shadows and get smiles not frowns.
3. No, but you can look forward to it.
4. Sunny day, middle of day is possibly worst time.
5. Don't.
Are you a pervert? You need to be arrested. Weather it is illiegle or not you are voilating a womans personal rights to her privacy. You may not just get beaten by the boyfriend, but if You did it to me you would not know what hit you and you would no longer have a camera which was working.
Don't do it.
Why don't you find your self a serious relationship then you can photo her, by the way she will look just as pretty with her clothes on.
%26gt; photographs of attractive bikini-clad young women
%26gt; at the various popular beaches over there.
So funny. You are barking up the wrong tree. That's in Florida Miami beach. Not in Hawaii. Hawaii is so far from everywhere most of the people on the beach ar locals. Hawaii is where people live and so you got moms, dads, kids, etc. There are many visitors, but they are all mostly honey-mooners (new husband always nearby), and not necessarily ';attractive bikini-clad '; - just married.
I used to live there (Maui)
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%26gt; Have any of you taken candid beach photos of women in bikinis
%26gt; before, and if so, do you have any useful tips or advice?
Use LONG zoom lens. But again, there's not much to take. Many of the beaches are NOT crowded so people don't sit near each other. So GET A LONG LENS !!
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%26gt; 1. Is it legal for me to take candid photos of women on the beach,
In general, in public area, people have NO REASONALBE EXPECTATION OF PRIVACY. Shoot away. Just don't be a creep and they won't throw sand in your camera (or the boyfriends beat you up).
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%26gt; 2. Will they usually be confrontational about it, meaning I
%26gt; would be better off taking the photos as descreetly as possible,
Good idea.
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%26gt; and I can just snap photos from a little closer without using a zoom lens.
Bad idea. Like I said - don't be a creep and things will be ok. Just because it is Hawaii rule of common decency doesn't change from your home town.
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%26gt; 3. Have you ever been beat up by the boyfriend of a woman
%26gt; who caught you taking photos of her?
I'm not a creep.
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%26gt; 4. On a sunny day during the middle of day, what would you
%26gt; say the best camera settings would be for me to use to get
There's no gereral rules. That is where experience kicks in. Beside just set the camera on PROGRAM MODE if you don't know what to do.
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5. Any other tips or advice would be much appreciated, thanks!
Don't get sand in your camera. I'm serious. There's a lot of wind and sand at beach. And the way you are going, lots of people are going to be throwing some at you too.
Good luck...
P.S. Hawaii is a chain of beautiful islandSSSS. There's so much to take pictures. And you want to take picture of something you can get download from your internet FOR FREE. Just enjoy the island. Go sight seeing.
I have never done anything like this before.
Have any of you taken candid beach photos of women in bikinis before, and if so, do you have any useful tips or advice?
Some things in general I would like to know:
1. Is it legal for me to take candid photos of women on the beach, or do I need to get their permission. Keep in mind, these will not be naked or topless, since beaches in Hawaii do not allow nudity of any sort.
2. Will they usually be confrontational about it, meaning I would be better off taking the photos as descreetly as possible, using a zoom-lens, or is it usually not a big deal, and I can just snap photos from a little closer without using a zoom lens.
3. Have you ever been beat up by the boyfriend of a woman who caught you taking photos of her?
4. On a sunny day during the middle of day, what would you say the best camera settings would be for me to use to get the best possible photos, as far as the shutter speed, aperture setting, and iso setting, given that I will be taking the photos by hand, and not with a tripod.
5. Any other tips or advice would be much appreciated, thanks!Tips/advice on taking candid photos of women at the beach?
PERVERT!Tips/advice on taking candid photos of women at the beach?
Wait, you don't want people taking girlfriend photos, but you want to take photos of other guy's girlfriends?
C'mon on man, rent some videos and get off that way.
This forum is for real photographers and real questions.
Straight to # 5 - Take up macro photography, if you're close enough to do that, I'd ask for permission.
id beat the **** out of you if you started taking candid pictures of my girlfriend.
ok well.... if you honestly want these in a photography way.. you should DEFINATELY ask them before you do... because if not.. you might end up getting beat up
you're a ******* perv.
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If you don't want to deal with model releases, do the following.
Photograph only peoples backs (I'm not an expert, so don't take this as sound advice. I could be wrong; you may still need a model release.
Buy an expensive telephoto lens. Like a 500mm 2.8 or something like that.
Query ';bikinis in Hawaii'; on your search engine and save yourself the cost of a plane ticket.
1. You should get a model release form signed if you intend to try to gain financially or just publish.
2. You'll find photography much more rewarding if you ask permission and get cooperation. That way you can get in close, avoid the shadows and get smiles not frowns.
3. No, but you can look forward to it.
4. Sunny day, middle of day is possibly worst time.
5. Don't.
Are you a pervert? You need to be arrested. Weather it is illiegle or not you are voilating a womans personal rights to her privacy. You may not just get beaten by the boyfriend, but if You did it to me you would not know what hit you and you would no longer have a camera which was working.
Don't do it.
Why don't you find your self a serious relationship then you can photo her, by the way she will look just as pretty with her clothes on.
%26gt; photographs of attractive bikini-clad young women
%26gt; at the various popular beaches over there.
So funny. You are barking up the wrong tree. That's in Florida Miami beach. Not in Hawaii. Hawaii is so far from everywhere most of the people on the beach ar locals. Hawaii is where people live and so you got moms, dads, kids, etc. There are many visitors, but they are all mostly honey-mooners (new husband always nearby), and not necessarily ';attractive bikini-clad '; - just married.
I used to live there (Maui)
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%26gt; Have any of you taken candid beach photos of women in bikinis
%26gt; before, and if so, do you have any useful tips or advice?
Use LONG zoom lens. But again, there's not much to take. Many of the beaches are NOT crowded so people don't sit near each other. So GET A LONG LENS !!
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%26gt; 1. Is it legal for me to take candid photos of women on the beach,
In general, in public area, people have NO REASONALBE EXPECTATION OF PRIVACY. Shoot away. Just don't be a creep and they won't throw sand in your camera (or the boyfriends beat you up).
====
%26gt; 2. Will they usually be confrontational about it, meaning I
%26gt; would be better off taking the photos as descreetly as possible,
Good idea.
====
%26gt; and I can just snap photos from a little closer without using a zoom lens.
Bad idea. Like I said - don't be a creep and things will be ok. Just because it is Hawaii rule of common decency doesn't change from your home town.
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%26gt; 3. Have you ever been beat up by the boyfriend of a woman
%26gt; who caught you taking photos of her?
I'm not a creep.
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%26gt; 4. On a sunny day during the middle of day, what would you
%26gt; say the best camera settings would be for me to use to get
There's no gereral rules. That is where experience kicks in. Beside just set the camera on PROGRAM MODE if you don't know what to do.
====
5. Any other tips or advice would be much appreciated, thanks!
Don't get sand in your camera. I'm serious. There's a lot of wind and sand at beach. And the way you are going, lots of people are going to be throwing some at you too.
Good luck...
P.S. Hawaii is a chain of beautiful islandSSSS. There's so much to take pictures. And you want to take picture of something you can get download from your internet FOR FREE. Just enjoy the island. Go sight seeing.
I am a Greek guy, who finds black women very attractive, but have no luck, your advice, please read on?
I am 37 years old, and have been trying to date black ladies, but with no luck. I have had white dates. I have an accent, and maybe I am a bit difficult to understand, I dont know. Or, is it possible that black women prefer only blacks mostly and whites but not Greeks? I need your advice. Thank you. You may email me if you like.
For those who asked, I am not overweight, I have black hair and dark eyes. Yes, unfortunately, I am very hairy, if that is the problem.I am a Greek guy, who finds black women very attractive, but have no luck, your advice, please read on?
OMG!! this is a dream come true, i love greek guys, unfortunately im in a relationship, you have the total package, hair (on your chest and arms?), dark hair and eyes. why couldnt you post this a few months back?I am a Greek guy, who finds black women very attractive, but have no luck, your advice, please read on?
I thought most Greeks were considered white/eurropean?
i think you should go to where the Blacks are.
well that sounds like a problem
what you need to do is find a girl who has no problem with accent.and you said you had no luck with black girls .if you and a black girl are ment for each other than you will find you a black sweet girl but untill then just fallow wut your heart is telling you you should do.
For starters, go where they are.
Next, accents have always been a weakness to black women. Don't change that, trust me!
Many black women are secure with themselves and expect their men to be just as sure of himself as they are. Find one you like, go up to her, introduce yourself, and walk away. That is a good ice breaker.
Another option, make friends with a black women, tell her what you are looking for and she will find it for you. Women are a good resource when you are looking for another women. All women have those two or three single friends that are looking for a man.
Most balck women do not like to date outside of their race. It is like a standard. When balck men see black women who date outside the race they get offended big time, but most of us do it anyway.
For those who asked, I am not overweight, I have black hair and dark eyes. Yes, unfortunately, I am very hairy, if that is the problem.I am a Greek guy, who finds black women very attractive, but have no luck, your advice, please read on?
OMG!! this is a dream come true, i love greek guys, unfortunately im in a relationship, you have the total package, hair (on your chest and arms?), dark hair and eyes. why couldnt you post this a few months back?I am a Greek guy, who finds black women very attractive, but have no luck, your advice, please read on?
I thought most Greeks were considered white/eurropean?
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i think you should go to where the Blacks are.
well that sounds like a problem
what you need to do is find a girl who has no problem with accent.and you said you had no luck with black girls .if you and a black girl are ment for each other than you will find you a black sweet girl but untill then just fallow wut your heart is telling you you should do.
For starters, go where they are.
Next, accents have always been a weakness to black women. Don't change that, trust me!
Many black women are secure with themselves and expect their men to be just as sure of himself as they are. Find one you like, go up to her, introduce yourself, and walk away. That is a good ice breaker.
Another option, make friends with a black women, tell her what you are looking for and she will find it for you. Women are a good resource when you are looking for another women. All women have those two or three single friends that are looking for a man.
Most balck women do not like to date outside of their race. It is like a standard. When balck men see black women who date outside the race they get offended big time, but most of us do it anyway.
Pcos women with success could i be prego now??? i need your advice?
okay i have pcos since 5 yrs ago but didn't know until last year anyways i gotten my period with the help of provera on august 10th to the 18 i toke clomid @ 100mg on days 3 to 5 and had sex on the 18, every other day and i know it's been only a week but my breasts are sore and i feel these cramps it's like when ur on your period the way they feel and i am getting dizzie spells once in a while i know i should wait but i am just seeking some expericed women advice i have these pains where my ovaries are that was like on agust 21 plesae replyPcos women with success could i be prego now??? i need your advice?
You could be, unfortunately, it's impossible to tell right now. Even a blood pregnancy test probably wouldn't show results this early. It's hard as h--- I remember, but you kind of just have to wait it out and try to focus on other stuff. (I know Clomid totally messed with my body entirely, I *hated* that stuff with a passion.)
Good luck!Pcos women with success could i be prego now??? i need your advice?
it maybe ur usual pain when 1 of ovum break through...
pregnancy....dont result in pain u described.....
wait for ur next periods and have sex....if u r trying 4 a baby...
urine preg test will be positive only later ..u can do a blood test earlier if u are so curious....
take care and best of luck
You could be, unfortunately, it's impossible to tell right now. Even a blood pregnancy test probably wouldn't show results this early. It's hard as h--- I remember, but you kind of just have to wait it out and try to focus on other stuff. (I know Clomid totally messed with my body entirely, I *hated* that stuff with a passion.)
Good luck!Pcos women with success could i be prego now??? i need your advice?
it maybe ur usual pain when 1 of ovum break through...
pregnancy....dont result in pain u described.....
wait for ur next periods and have sex....if u r trying 4 a baby...
urine preg test will be positive only later ..u can do a blood test earlier if u are so curious....
take care and best of luck
Men - would you really be in love with this girl? Women - what would you do? (Relationship advice)?
I am a woman who was married to a man at a young age. We also have a daughter together. He cheated and we broke-up, when my daughter was 9 months old. We are seperated now, but still legally married. We now live in 2 different states. He is visiting to see our daughter and I found a video of him and his new girlfriend having extremely graphic, nasty porno-type, anal and oral s*x, and a picture of them (that was taken at a studio) in his wallet. I guess I was always hoping that we'd get back together eventually, but now I am extremely upset. I had so much in common with this man, loved him more than anybody and we had a family. My daughter is so incredibly excited to be spending time with him and I know she wants both parents to be her family and be together.
My question is: Do you think that a girl who would do that stuff after dating for a short while is just a sexual fling for this man, or could they actually have potential at a strong, loving relationship? I know men can be kinky, but at the same time I don't think they'd respect a woman like that long enough to really be serious about her due to the woman not being ';respectable'; or ';someone they could take home to mom';. ie: she must be sleezy to let him do that and while he likes it, the realtionship is just temporary.
Men: would you be long term with a girl like this?
Ladies: would you ever want to work something out with a guy that did that in the long run for your family? Would you hold on to that hope like I had been, or would you give up?
What do you think?
I am crushed. :-(Men - would you really be in love with this girl? Women - what would you do? (Relationship advice)?
I would feel crushed too but also every feeling I had for him would go out the door.
The man you married and the man he is now are two different people. It seems the man you loved is gone. This guy he's turned into is not worth being with,cheating, recording porn, being loose. I would say your worth more than that without even knowing you. Be friendly for your daughter's sake but if I were you I would attempt to open my heart to someone new; once you do you might be suprised how quickly you'll forget about him.
And just a guess his relationship with this new women is probably a passing thing they'll probably be more after her, most relationships only based on sex usually fall to an end.Men - would you really be in love with this girl? Women - what would you do? (Relationship advice)?
You dont want this to work out. Really, you dont.
I know its hard to be a single parent, but lots of people do it, and your child will turn out just fine.
If he is going off and screwing any piece of butt he can find, regardless of whether he wants a long term thing or not, you just dont want him. Give up the hope, move on, find someone thats worth your time. If I had to wager a guess, he probably put those things within your reach just to show you even more that he is done with you. A bit of salt in the wound, if you will...
I'm really sorry you had to see all that stuff. It must be painful for you:(
If it were me, I think I would file the divorce papers. You're not even divorced yet and he's making porno movies with other women. I think that's a pretty clear sign that he's not interested in coming back home. Try to maintain a respectful relationship for your daughter's sake but let your heart move on. I can't say for sure if he'll stay with this girl or move on to someone else but I think the one thing that's clear is that he's not interested in being married right now. He's sowing his wild oats and you have to let him go. I wish you the best of luck.
My question is: Do you think that a girl who would do that stuff after dating for a short while is just a sexual fling for this man, or could they actually have potential at a strong, loving relationship? I know men can be kinky, but at the same time I don't think they'd respect a woman like that long enough to really be serious about her due to the woman not being ';respectable'; or ';someone they could take home to mom';. ie: she must be sleezy to let him do that and while he likes it, the realtionship is just temporary.
Men: would you be long term with a girl like this?
Ladies: would you ever want to work something out with a guy that did that in the long run for your family? Would you hold on to that hope like I had been, or would you give up?
What do you think?
I am crushed. :-(Men - would you really be in love with this girl? Women - what would you do? (Relationship advice)?
I would feel crushed too but also every feeling I had for him would go out the door.
The man you married and the man he is now are two different people. It seems the man you loved is gone. This guy he's turned into is not worth being with,cheating, recording porn, being loose. I would say your worth more than that without even knowing you. Be friendly for your daughter's sake but if I were you I would attempt to open my heart to someone new; once you do you might be suprised how quickly you'll forget about him.
And just a guess his relationship with this new women is probably a passing thing they'll probably be more after her, most relationships only based on sex usually fall to an end.Men - would you really be in love with this girl? Women - what would you do? (Relationship advice)?
You dont want this to work out. Really, you dont.
I know its hard to be a single parent, but lots of people do it, and your child will turn out just fine.
If he is going off and screwing any piece of butt he can find, regardless of whether he wants a long term thing or not, you just dont want him. Give up the hope, move on, find someone thats worth your time. If I had to wager a guess, he probably put those things within your reach just to show you even more that he is done with you. A bit of salt in the wound, if you will...
I'm really sorry you had to see all that stuff. It must be painful for you:(
If it were me, I think I would file the divorce papers. You're not even divorced yet and he's making porno movies with other women. I think that's a pretty clear sign that he's not interested in coming back home. Try to maintain a respectful relationship for your daughter's sake but let your heart move on. I can't say for sure if he'll stay with this girl or move on to someone else but I think the one thing that's clear is that he's not interested in being married right now. He's sowing his wild oats and you have to let him go. I wish you the best of luck.
Advice on man troubles, men and women please?
well my boyfriend of three years broke up with me last week, things have been kinda rocky for awhile but I belive that we truely love each other, for the record i know there isnt another woman. It has been a terrible week, trying to not call and hoping that things will work themselves out. i still think about him constantly but have been trying to better myself and spend more time with the girls. i am 23 he is 31. he has been busy at work from what i know the times we have talked. tonight i called and wanted to see if he wanted to grab a beer and catch up. he said it wasnt a good idea which made me upset then he told me he found out today his dad has cancer. his dad and him and also I were very close we lived with him for awhile when we first got together. He wouldnt let me meet up with him even to talk as friends I know he is very upset. I want so badly for things to work. I keep telling myself not to call him everyday and let him miss me its so hard though i miss him
advice pleaseAdvice on man troubles, men and women please?
Things were rocky and then you broke up, now he doesn't want to meet you for drinks. Sounds like he is Done with you and your relationship.
Suck it up girl, keep doing what you are doing and move on with life. Time heals all wounds.makeup school
advice pleaseAdvice on man troubles, men and women please?
Things were rocky and then you broke up, now he doesn't want to meet you for drinks. Sounds like he is Done with you and your relationship.
Suck it up girl, keep doing what you are doing and move on with life. Time heals all wounds.
Advice from girls\teens\women?
Hello I'm Clare, I am 13 as of August 19th. I haven't started my period but am expecting it soon. I have a question.....were any of you really ';small'; at my age? Breast wise? I am. I am currently wearing a 30A (girls size of course) that is too small; I need a 32A. How long did it take you to get up to a B? It seems that I have grown fast because I just started significant breast development when I was just about 12, but now it's taking a while to get up to another size. I don't think I am this tiny because of heredity; my mom and her female family were in D's by their 20s. It may be because I'm thin, (only 70 Ibs) and 4';8. So, in short, my question is: how long did it take you to become a B if you were like me or similair? And do you have any advice? Please don't be judgemental or rude, please. I am not obsessive over my size but I would just like a little adivce because I have to admit it is awkward to be in my position in my eyes. But thanks to all who answer nicely:)Advice from girls\teens\women?
You are really small, so I'm guessing it's probably you're size. I mean being only 70 pounds! I'm only 4'11 but I'm like 96 pounds. You'll get some soon, don't worry. I'm just about a 32-34 B right now. It probably will take some time if you just got into an A.Advice from girls\teens\women?
ok im sorry but why do you HAVE to be a 32A.
It's different for everyone.
At 13 I think I was like a
36A. Now I'm 15 and I'm a
36B. :/ There's tons of girls my age who
are smaller than a 36A and tons who
are larger than a 36B. EVERYONE is different.
The next time you go bra shopping,
just get like a 30B and try it out.
I am 13, and I am a 34a. I haven't got my period yet, either! But I am a little older (b-day april 25) it took me like 2 months to go from a 32 to a 34, i'm not a b yet.
I think that when I was your age, I must have been a 34A. Around that time, I got my period and my breasts began to grow. At that moment, I'm fifteen and I am a 34B. I think because you are petite, your breast size is a little on the smaller side (not that's a problem or anything, lol). Don't worry, you still have plenty of time to grow! I think once that you start getting your period, your breast developement happens rapidly or at least this was the case for me. Good things happen in time. Take care!
Well just because you get older doesnt mean your boobs will grow. There are lots of grown women who still have A cups. It all depends on your genes. Just because your mom and her family are big breasted, doesnt mean you will be either. You could have genes from your fathers side too.
Anyway, Im 15 and Im only a 36A. Im built exactly like my mother and she had an A cup too as an adult before she got breast implants. I dont think Im going to get much bigger, but Im still growing so I might. I was a 32AA until grade 9, where I grew to a 34A (still girls sizes) and now I wear a womens 36A. I do with my boobs were a little bigger, but I have an @ss, so that makes up for it haha ;D
Hun, youre only 13. I know it can be hard when it looks like everyone is developing faster then you, but you will grow eventually - and theres no telling what size you could be. When youre an adult and youre still unhappy with your bra size, there is always the option of getting implants. Dont worry so much :)
well I am 15, and only wear a 36A. I dont care hahah. so yeahh
Well, it all depends on your genetics as to how long it takes you to develop - everyone is different. For me, personally, I reached a B cup at the age of 11 or 12, and now, I'm just turning 15 and I'm a 32G. But you're perfectly normal, some people don't ever reach a B cup, it just takes time to develop varying from person to person. Don't worry, you're perfectly normal :)
im pretty sure its different for everyone, but i was a 34a when i got my period and i went from a 34a to a 34b in like...4 months. hahah. and now im a 36c a few years later.
i'm a 32a and have been since i was 11 and a half. im almost 14 now.
i starved myself between then and now because i thought i was fat, as all the other girls in my year was skinny, so that has something to do with it. now all the other girls have good-sized boobs and are getting curves.
no offence, but i think your too thin, so maybe putting some weight on would make yours bigger.
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im gonna be 13 in december and ive been a 32A for a year and a half now....your not alone.
I am 17 and I still only wear a 34A so don't feel bad. You still have the pontntioal to grow bigger. You just seem like a petite person all around, and there is nothing wrong with that. I am sure you will grow bigger when you get older.
oh i developed normally but i'm 14 and there's girls who aren't developed yet that are my age. you might just be a slow maturer.
i have 34 DD at age 14 and they kill my back
wanna trade?
No, at 13 I was a 34C I think.
You will grow, even though you've turned 13 it doesn't mean puberty kicks in just like that (:
i'm 15 and a 34DD/E in some bras *sad face*
You are really small, so I'm guessing it's probably you're size. I mean being only 70 pounds! I'm only 4'11 but I'm like 96 pounds. You'll get some soon, don't worry. I'm just about a 32-34 B right now. It probably will take some time if you just got into an A.Advice from girls\teens\women?
ok im sorry but why do you HAVE to be a 32A.
It's different for everyone.
At 13 I think I was like a
36A. Now I'm 15 and I'm a
36B. :/ There's tons of girls my age who
are smaller than a 36A and tons who
are larger than a 36B. EVERYONE is different.
The next time you go bra shopping,
just get like a 30B and try it out.
I am 13, and I am a 34a. I haven't got my period yet, either! But I am a little older (b-day april 25) it took me like 2 months to go from a 32 to a 34, i'm not a b yet.
I think that when I was your age, I must have been a 34A. Around that time, I got my period and my breasts began to grow. At that moment, I'm fifteen and I am a 34B. I think because you are petite, your breast size is a little on the smaller side (not that's a problem or anything, lol). Don't worry, you still have plenty of time to grow! I think once that you start getting your period, your breast developement happens rapidly or at least this was the case for me. Good things happen in time. Take care!
Well just because you get older doesnt mean your boobs will grow. There are lots of grown women who still have A cups. It all depends on your genes. Just because your mom and her family are big breasted, doesnt mean you will be either. You could have genes from your fathers side too.
Anyway, Im 15 and Im only a 36A. Im built exactly like my mother and she had an A cup too as an adult before she got breast implants. I dont think Im going to get much bigger, but Im still growing so I might. I was a 32AA until grade 9, where I grew to a 34A (still girls sizes) and now I wear a womens 36A. I do with my boobs were a little bigger, but I have an @ss, so that makes up for it haha ;D
Hun, youre only 13. I know it can be hard when it looks like everyone is developing faster then you, but you will grow eventually - and theres no telling what size you could be. When youre an adult and youre still unhappy with your bra size, there is always the option of getting implants. Dont worry so much :)
well I am 15, and only wear a 36A. I dont care hahah. so yeahh
Well, it all depends on your genetics as to how long it takes you to develop - everyone is different. For me, personally, I reached a B cup at the age of 11 or 12, and now, I'm just turning 15 and I'm a 32G. But you're perfectly normal, some people don't ever reach a B cup, it just takes time to develop varying from person to person. Don't worry, you're perfectly normal :)
im pretty sure its different for everyone, but i was a 34a when i got my period and i went from a 34a to a 34b in like...4 months. hahah. and now im a 36c a few years later.
i'm a 32a and have been since i was 11 and a half. im almost 14 now.
i starved myself between then and now because i thought i was fat, as all the other girls in my year was skinny, so that has something to do with it. now all the other girls have good-sized boobs and are getting curves.
no offence, but i think your too thin, so maybe putting some weight on would make yours bigger.
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im gonna be 13 in december and ive been a 32A for a year and a half now....your not alone.
I am 17 and I still only wear a 34A so don't feel bad. You still have the pontntioal to grow bigger. You just seem like a petite person all around, and there is nothing wrong with that. I am sure you will grow bigger when you get older.
oh i developed normally but i'm 14 and there's girls who aren't developed yet that are my age. you might just be a slow maturer.
i have 34 DD at age 14 and they kill my back
wanna trade?
No, at 13 I was a 34C I think.
You will grow, even though you've turned 13 it doesn't mean puberty kicks in just like that (:
i'm 15 and a 34DD/E in some bras *sad face*
Advice on how to attract more women?
I work out 3 x's week, work full time job, and have a walking metro paper route on saturdays so I can be busy busy. I just saw these few videos of women and guys dancing and I wanna be one of the guys dancing with the hot women...... Baha men song ';move it like this shake it like that'; and ';Make love in this club '; by usher ft chris brown. luda. I would like to go out to a club and dance with women but i got noone to go with and last time I got booted out of Sub Zero night club because I got violent and started hitting things when I WAS DRUNK . Those songs i mentioned just make me wanna grind on a hot woman and touch her body. women can be amazing ok how do I ATTRACT more women ? people have told me that I am too aggressive and women get scared ugh I am confused !!! help ?Advice on how to attract more women?
don't be aggressive women don't go for that honestly just be yourself be respectful and enjoy yourself when u do you give out the vibes people go for that's a turn on,forget those videos that's not reality,we don't like guys grinding on us treating us like a piece of meat unless were only looking for 1 thing xAdvice on how to attract more women?
find something you are either happy with or become great at --- find something and do it --- I am working out alot -- big workouts -- 3 - 400 pushups miles of walking sprinting running - a hundred situps -- going to bring in my core sides back on the weekends -- I have the genetics
Maybe try to start with girls who are more aggressive, so that you'll be on the same level. Maybe go to the club with a bunch of your buddies and meet women there (at the clubs). Go to a different club this time......
Try not to drink as much at the clubs I guess?
That's all I got.
Be yourself,Don't ever try to compete with your guy frends and do'nt ever lookk desperate infront of a lady you like.Be a gentleman and from there the right lady will apear.Just do't be in a rush,be patient.
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Try being a decent human being. Women actually dig that in a guy,
';game';
You know what ? Maybe after asnwering u this question I should copy the whole things so that when i meet questions like this I can paste it out.
Please go to this link http://heavenlife.stevesctt1.hop.clickba鈥?/a> .
It will answer to all your questions. I recommended this book to my brother and when i asked him to give me a copy he didnt. Simply he said '; guy's secret '; .
If I have a copy of the book I would send you a copy.
Anyway I wish you luck and I am sure you will after reading this book. My brother 's never had any problem with wowmen again .
No gimmick :-( !!!
don't be aggressive women don't go for that honestly just be yourself be respectful and enjoy yourself when u do you give out the vibes people go for that's a turn on,forget those videos that's not reality,we don't like guys grinding on us treating us like a piece of meat unless were only looking for 1 thing xAdvice on how to attract more women?
find something you are either happy with or become great at --- find something and do it --- I am working out alot -- big workouts -- 3 - 400 pushups miles of walking sprinting running - a hundred situps -- going to bring in my core sides back on the weekends -- I have the genetics
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Maybe try to start with girls who are more aggressive, so that you'll be on the same level. Maybe go to the club with a bunch of your buddies and meet women there (at the clubs). Go to a different club this time......
Try not to drink as much at the clubs I guess?
That's all I got.
Be yourself,Don't ever try to compete with your guy frends and do'nt ever lookk desperate infront of a lady you like.Be a gentleman and from there the right lady will apear.Just do't be in a rush,be patient.
BEST ANSWER RIGHT HERE, lol....TRUST ME!:
http://www.chickmagnet101.com/50tipsfora鈥?/a>
Try being a decent human being. Women actually dig that in a guy,
';game';
You know what ? Maybe after asnwering u this question I should copy the whole things so that when i meet questions like this I can paste it out.
Please go to this link http://heavenlife.stevesctt1.hop.clickba鈥?/a> .
It will answer to all your questions. I recommended this book to my brother and when i asked him to give me a copy he didnt. Simply he said '; guy's secret '; .
If I have a copy of the book I would send you a copy.
Anyway I wish you luck and I am sure you will after reading this book. My brother 's never had any problem with wowmen again .
No gimmick :-( !!!
Advice please from a female doctor.....women's problems.?
I am a 46 year old very healthy woman. At the moment I am having the heaviest period of my life and I mean..exhaustion. This is the third day of crazy bleeding. I am tired of changing tampons. I feel like my womb is being shed or something. Normally, I have normal ones, like 4 days and almost no pain. What could cause this? I noticed my last period was the exact opposite, 2 days and completely painless. I am sweating and very weak. Please give me some advice if you have ever heard of these symptoms. Important: I am not sexually active so there is no chance of me being pregnant or having a miscarriage.Advice please from a female doctor.....women's problems.?
get that checked out could be fibroids.you can have womb scrape D and C or may need hysterectomy.Advice please from a female doctor.....women's problems.?
I am not a female doc
But
am a female that went through what you did at your age..
welcome to hormonal changes..
one ovary is probably acting up causing this month to month change of heavy flow then no flow..
you have got to start EATING correctly in order to get a grip on this problem.
I stopped using tampons because of the vaginal irritation it caused.
Go to your GYN..
DO NOT TAKE HORMONES!!!!!
Like premrin,
whatever you do, do not take hormones...
hormones gave me breast cancer after 2 years of continual use...please do not ever take them if the doc trys to give them to you refuse...
you will be fine...
I am not a female doctor but what you're having sounds very much like a fibroid tumor, which I had a number of years ago. They are benign but can cause a lot of problems with pain, heavy bleeding, and so on. I would see a GYN as soon as you can, it's not dangerous but you can become anemic with all the bleeding. It's possible you may need surgery also. Take care - hope you feel better soon.
that is easy to figure out you are beginning the change. you could have these kind of cycles on and off a few more years or you could maybe be over it in a year. when i was 48 i just stopped having cycles, that was it I was done. Usually it is more common for the on and off again and heavy and light cycles until you are done. it takes 12 months of no periods before you are post menopausal. welcome to the club. you could ask your doc about the natural hormones or just see how bad it gets. i did not take hormones because i felt they did me more harm, but for some women they are a lifesaver. atleast in the first year or so you are going through it good luck
get that checked out could be fibroids.you can have womb scrape D and C or may need hysterectomy.Advice please from a female doctor.....women's problems.?
I am not a female doc
But
am a female that went through what you did at your age..
welcome to hormonal changes..
one ovary is probably acting up causing this month to month change of heavy flow then no flow..
you have got to start EATING correctly in order to get a grip on this problem.
I stopped using tampons because of the vaginal irritation it caused.
Go to your GYN..
DO NOT TAKE HORMONES!!!!!
Like premrin,
whatever you do, do not take hormones...
hormones gave me breast cancer after 2 years of continual use...please do not ever take them if the doc trys to give them to you refuse...
you will be fine...
I am not a female doctor but what you're having sounds very much like a fibroid tumor, which I had a number of years ago. They are benign but can cause a lot of problems with pain, heavy bleeding, and so on. I would see a GYN as soon as you can, it's not dangerous but you can become anemic with all the bleeding. It's possible you may need surgery also. Take care - hope you feel better soon.
that is easy to figure out you are beginning the change. you could have these kind of cycles on and off a few more years or you could maybe be over it in a year. when i was 48 i just stopped having cycles, that was it I was done. Usually it is more common for the on and off again and heavy and light cycles until you are done. it takes 12 months of no periods before you are post menopausal. welcome to the club. you could ask your doc about the natural hormones or just see how bad it gets. i did not take hormones because i felt they did me more harm, but for some women they are a lifesaver. atleast in the first year or so you are going through it good luck
(question for women) please read the dating situation and give some advice thanks!?
I'm an asian american guy and for most of my time I've been dating all asian women. After a while, I figured I want to try something different, be openmminded, maybe try dating caucasian women.
Problem is, where do I start? I hear most caucasian women don't find asian men attractive and mostly prefer to date their own ethnicity. I did try online but since I'm not so photogenic, it's not particularly working in my favor. I used to attract more caucasian women when I was younger but now maybe it's different. So where do I start? What can I do? Please answer with some realistic replies...thanks!(question for women) please read the dating situation and give some advice thanks!?
Women of any race are all different. I'm white and I prefer men of other races, my roommate is engaged to a white guy, she's black. Different strokes for different folks.
So the real question isn't about trying to find a Caucasian woman, it's really about finding a woman. Well, that's the question to end all questions.
First of all, be ready to meet somewhere wherever you are. Present yourself well (dress nice, smell good, walk with confidence, and smile) wherever you go, even if it's just to Wal-Mart. You never know who you might run into. It's probably best to meet someone who you would naturally cross paths with, just because it makes life easier. Of course, that doesn't often happen because we as people are usually not confident enough to roll up on someone in the frozen foods isle and introduce ourselves. So then we move onto going out of our way to meet someone.
I think the internet can work, and sometimes it does. But, obviously, it's not foolproof. I mean even if I'm looking online for a guy, I'm still looking for those things that I'd be looking for ';in real life';. My advice if you're joining eharmony or something is to make sure you communicate well. If your interests say something like: ';dogs, poker, movies';. I'd probably skip by you because I'd picture me asking you about your interest on our first date and you saying ';dogs, poker, movies.'; And wondering if you know how to use sentences. So, try online resources, but take time to present yourself well. Check and double check your grammar, and come up with something interesting to say.(question for women) please read the dating situation and give some advice thanks!?
not true, i see white chicks with black guys, if a white woman goes out with a black, i think they will go out with anybody. cause most black people aren't very phyically attractive as your kind (m and f alike) what i'm trying to say is, if they can date them, they can date the most fugly person around.
ethnicity has nothing to do with who you are attracted to. not ALL caucasian women are the same. and i know you said most. but i doubt it. just be yourself. be nice and funny and confident. and im sure you will find a girl soon...plus. you shouldnt date a girl just because of her race. how about instead of saying 'maybe try dating caucasian women' say 'maybe i should try dating nice, funny women who like me for me.'
I think your best bet is to just not be shy and go for it. Maybe there's a place where you regularly hang out or visit? Try striking up a conversation with a woman that you're attracted to and see where it goes from there.
P.S. It's not true that most caucasian women don't find asian men attractive.
:)
i cant answer your question, but I'm having the same problem haha
I'm a Caucasian girl who want to start something different and go for the asian guys.
and so far its been really hard because most of them don't want to date caucasian women..
while ill stay to help umm i guess just be yourself, and one day you'll find her.
sorry i couldnt help more. %26lt;3
You could pretend to be super rich. Not very romantic but it will probably work! :-) Maybe start in a pub... I am not too sure about the online thing. Maybe it will work. Sorry actually I don't know. Join a band?? hehehe. Join something a network or club where you know that caucasian women hang out. Salsa dancing?? My friend did that. He is an Asian Aussie and he always has like 50 chicks all over him.
Race should not matter like that when love comes to you you will know it for sure and it could be with anybody of any race you just never know. I'm a cauasian and I I do find some asians for attractive so fall for sterotyping because most the time it aint true.
looks arnet everything. just be patient someday youll find the right woman. to get started, start talking to some single cacasian women, be funny make her laugh, be charming and eventually she'll fall for you.
what happened to letting love find you??????? LOL
Problem is, where do I start? I hear most caucasian women don't find asian men attractive and mostly prefer to date their own ethnicity. I did try online but since I'm not so photogenic, it's not particularly working in my favor. I used to attract more caucasian women when I was younger but now maybe it's different. So where do I start? What can I do? Please answer with some realistic replies...thanks!(question for women) please read the dating situation and give some advice thanks!?
Women of any race are all different. I'm white and I prefer men of other races, my roommate is engaged to a white guy, she's black. Different strokes for different folks.
So the real question isn't about trying to find a Caucasian woman, it's really about finding a woman. Well, that's the question to end all questions.
First of all, be ready to meet somewhere wherever you are. Present yourself well (dress nice, smell good, walk with confidence, and smile) wherever you go, even if it's just to Wal-Mart. You never know who you might run into. It's probably best to meet someone who you would naturally cross paths with, just because it makes life easier. Of course, that doesn't often happen because we as people are usually not confident enough to roll up on someone in the frozen foods isle and introduce ourselves. So then we move onto going out of our way to meet someone.
I think the internet can work, and sometimes it does. But, obviously, it's not foolproof. I mean even if I'm looking online for a guy, I'm still looking for those things that I'd be looking for ';in real life';. My advice if you're joining eharmony or something is to make sure you communicate well. If your interests say something like: ';dogs, poker, movies';. I'd probably skip by you because I'd picture me asking you about your interest on our first date and you saying ';dogs, poker, movies.'; And wondering if you know how to use sentences. So, try online resources, but take time to present yourself well. Check and double check your grammar, and come up with something interesting to say.(question for women) please read the dating situation and give some advice thanks!?
not true, i see white chicks with black guys, if a white woman goes out with a black, i think they will go out with anybody. cause most black people aren't very phyically attractive as your kind (m and f alike) what i'm trying to say is, if they can date them, they can date the most fugly person around.
ethnicity has nothing to do with who you are attracted to. not ALL caucasian women are the same. and i know you said most. but i doubt it. just be yourself. be nice and funny and confident. and im sure you will find a girl soon...plus. you shouldnt date a girl just because of her race. how about instead of saying 'maybe try dating caucasian women' say 'maybe i should try dating nice, funny women who like me for me.'
I think your best bet is to just not be shy and go for it. Maybe there's a place where you regularly hang out or visit? Try striking up a conversation with a woman that you're attracted to and see where it goes from there.
P.S. It's not true that most caucasian women don't find asian men attractive.
:)
i cant answer your question, but I'm having the same problem haha
I'm a Caucasian girl who want to start something different and go for the asian guys.
and so far its been really hard because most of them don't want to date caucasian women..
while ill stay to help umm i guess just be yourself, and one day you'll find her.
sorry i couldnt help more. %26lt;3
You could pretend to be super rich. Not very romantic but it will probably work! :-) Maybe start in a pub... I am not too sure about the online thing. Maybe it will work. Sorry actually I don't know. Join a band?? hehehe. Join something a network or club where you know that caucasian women hang out. Salsa dancing?? My friend did that. He is an Asian Aussie and he always has like 50 chicks all over him.
Race should not matter like that when love comes to you you will know it for sure and it could be with anybody of any race you just never know. I'm a cauasian and I I do find some asians for attractive so fall for sterotyping because most the time it aint true.
looks arnet everything. just be patient someday youll find the right woman. to get started, start talking to some single cacasian women, be funny make her laugh, be charming and eventually she'll fall for you.
what happened to letting love find you??????? LOL
What do women expect from men when they ask them for advice?
here is what happened. my friend she was complaining abt her ex and the fact that he is an a** and acts arrogant when she talks to him (they r friends now) and i was listening and saying yea thats really rude, disrespectful, and immature of him (i said other things abt him aside that lol). so then he comes online and is apologizing for his behavior and i said dont let him off the hook that easily cuz otherwise he is gonna treat u like a doormat. she wanted to just forgive him right on the spot and i said let him apologize 3-4 times and then u no make it clear that ur not gonna tolerate this. so afterwards when she was talking to my other friend she says that my advice is too old school and weird and it just made me curious as in y do u say that. so then when i asked the other friend she said well when girls talk they add things like i noooooo and stuff like that but that didnt make sense to me. So if any1 can explain this or tell me what women expect ill appreciate it. im just curiousWhat do women expect from men when they ask them for advice?
well, we change our minds according to what mood were in. if were all steamed at someone and were mad at them we WANNA hear that they were immature and rude
but if they appologize and we like that person again, we WANNA hear that we should forgive them
basicly when girls ask for advice on a subject like that, they just wanna hear, what THEY WANNA HEAR.
well, we change our minds according to what mood were in. if were all steamed at someone and were mad at them we WANNA hear that they were immature and rude
but if they appologize and we like that person again, we WANNA hear that we should forgive them
basicly when girls ask for advice on a subject like that, they just wanna hear, what THEY WANNA HEAR.
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What's The Best Advice You Can Give, To A Young Woman That Might Be Stranded On The Road Late At Night?
There are a lot of deserted and creepy roads where i'm from, and one of my biggest fears is getting stranded at night. I don't know next to anything about cars...so if stranded, could I call the police to come and help me? I think I will invest in Road Side Assistance eventually...but what about when waiting on them to come? I've dealt with them before, and places like Triple A take FOREVER.What's The Best Advice You Can Give, To A Young Woman That Might Be Stranded On The Road Late At Night?
IF YOU EVER BREAK DOWN EVEN DURING THE DAY........DO NOT LEAVE YOUR CAR!!!
Lock your doors, roll up the windows, call 911. They will dispatch someone out to your general location. Give them any info that can help them identify where you are. Name of road, mile markers, exit signs, landmarks, etc.
Ask the dispatcher to give you the name of a tow truck company from that area as well. Call them next.
WHEN PEOPLE STOP TO ASK IF YOU NEED HELP, CRACK YOUR WINDOW SLIGHTLY, AND TELL THEM NO, THANK YOU THE POLICE ARE ON THEIR WAY!!
Even if the person looks nice, DO NOT allow them access to you or your vehicle!!
Oh, and if someone approaches you and they wont take no for an answer, call 911 back and stay on the phone with them until the person leaves, or the police show up!What's The Best Advice You Can Give, To A Young Woman That Might Be Stranded On The Road Late At Night?
Yes you can call the police. That's what we are there for is to help. I don't know about other states, but in Texas, on the back of your drivers license is a 800 number to Texas Department of Public Safety (DPS) for emergency road side assistance. Always remember to keep your doors locked, windows up, and turn on your hazard lights. Hope this gives you some peace of mind.
let someone know when you are leaving and about when you should arrive at your destination so they will be expecting you to call or at least know where you are if something were to happen...
and carry a cell phone!
be careful!!!
Best advise would be to call the police and explain the situation. They will come if they are not too busy. I would reccommend keeping some pepper spray in your car and your doors locked. If the police come up behind you they will approach with warning lights. Do not leave your car for any reason and try to keep yyour calm.
Hopefully, you have your cell phone with you, and your AAA card.
Just roll up your windows, don't open the door to anyone, and even if they offer help, stay locked in the car.
I think in your case the most important thing to remember is to communicate with others. By that I mean when you leave to go home, let them know that you will call them when you get home. Assuming you have no cell phone, let them know the route you will be traveling. If you do have a phone, the best thing to do is to lock doors, call for help, wait, and let NO ONE in. Should someone stop, just wave them off and tell them that help is already on the way--and then wait. Waiting 'forever' is better than being dead - 'forever'. You choose. All we can do is to try to be smart about where we go, what we say and who we say it to.
The first thing you do, if you are stranded, lock your car doors and roll up your windows, call Police, if someone in the mean time stops, do not open your window or door, tell them that you called Police already. Hope it never happens to you, but you are correct to be concerned. Another solution would be to avoid driving at nights. Make sure you carry something to protect yourself with.
Stay inside the car, and wait for help from police, or other help which you are reasonably sure is legitimate. If you have to talk to anyone, roll the window down about a half inch so that they can hear you, and you them.Never get out of the car, until you feel reasonably safe with the situation.
my sure you have a pair of tennis shoes in your car just in case you have to run and make sure you carry a weapon like a baseball bat or knife hope you never get stranded
lock your car doors and call the police. While your waiting call a friend or family member. If someone comes who wants to kidnap you or something, theyre not going to do it if they see you are talking to someone on the phone (thats what i do when im walking alone at night) If someone comes who says they want to help dont unlock your doors, roll down your window just an inch and tell them thank you but the police are on their way. Bad people might try to gain your trust by offering to help so DONT unlock your doors untill the police arrive.
Use caution, be aware of surroundiings but not in a paranoid way, and keep yrself company by turning on the radio or somthing.
Never drive alone late at night on a deserted road stay in the city or a place that is familiar with you and call your family/friends and tell them where you are and where your headed and what's your eta. Carry a cellphone %26amp; get a thing like on-star that is found in new vehicles. That service is now carrying a phone service.
First of all all women should KNOW not to take deserted roads that are not heavily traveled home or anywhere. If your afraid of something happening, stay off the road late at night. Invest in buying a newer car that is under warranty
carry a weapon
IF YOU EVER BREAK DOWN EVEN DURING THE DAY........DO NOT LEAVE YOUR CAR!!!
Lock your doors, roll up the windows, call 911. They will dispatch someone out to your general location. Give them any info that can help them identify where you are. Name of road, mile markers, exit signs, landmarks, etc.
Ask the dispatcher to give you the name of a tow truck company from that area as well. Call them next.
WHEN PEOPLE STOP TO ASK IF YOU NEED HELP, CRACK YOUR WINDOW SLIGHTLY, AND TELL THEM NO, THANK YOU THE POLICE ARE ON THEIR WAY!!
Even if the person looks nice, DO NOT allow them access to you or your vehicle!!
Oh, and if someone approaches you and they wont take no for an answer, call 911 back and stay on the phone with them until the person leaves, or the police show up!What's The Best Advice You Can Give, To A Young Woman That Might Be Stranded On The Road Late At Night?
Yes you can call the police. That's what we are there for is to help. I don't know about other states, but in Texas, on the back of your drivers license is a 800 number to Texas Department of Public Safety (DPS) for emergency road side assistance. Always remember to keep your doors locked, windows up, and turn on your hazard lights. Hope this gives you some peace of mind.
let someone know when you are leaving and about when you should arrive at your destination so they will be expecting you to call or at least know where you are if something were to happen...
and carry a cell phone!
be careful!!!
Best advise would be to call the police and explain the situation. They will come if they are not too busy. I would reccommend keeping some pepper spray in your car and your doors locked. If the police come up behind you they will approach with warning lights. Do not leave your car for any reason and try to keep yyour calm.
Hopefully, you have your cell phone with you, and your AAA card.
Just roll up your windows, don't open the door to anyone, and even if they offer help, stay locked in the car.
I think in your case the most important thing to remember is to communicate with others. By that I mean when you leave to go home, let them know that you will call them when you get home. Assuming you have no cell phone, let them know the route you will be traveling. If you do have a phone, the best thing to do is to lock doors, call for help, wait, and let NO ONE in. Should someone stop, just wave them off and tell them that help is already on the way--and then wait. Waiting 'forever' is better than being dead - 'forever'. You choose. All we can do is to try to be smart about where we go, what we say and who we say it to.
The first thing you do, if you are stranded, lock your car doors and roll up your windows, call Police, if someone in the mean time stops, do not open your window or door, tell them that you called Police already. Hope it never happens to you, but you are correct to be concerned. Another solution would be to avoid driving at nights. Make sure you carry something to protect yourself with.
Stay inside the car, and wait for help from police, or other help which you are reasonably sure is legitimate. If you have to talk to anyone, roll the window down about a half inch so that they can hear you, and you them.Never get out of the car, until you feel reasonably safe with the situation.
my sure you have a pair of tennis shoes in your car just in case you have to run and make sure you carry a weapon like a baseball bat or knife hope you never get stranded
lock your car doors and call the police. While your waiting call a friend or family member. If someone comes who wants to kidnap you or something, theyre not going to do it if they see you are talking to someone on the phone (thats what i do when im walking alone at night) If someone comes who says they want to help dont unlock your doors, roll down your window just an inch and tell them thank you but the police are on their way. Bad people might try to gain your trust by offering to help so DONT unlock your doors untill the police arrive.
Use caution, be aware of surroundiings but not in a paranoid way, and keep yrself company by turning on the radio or somthing.
Never drive alone late at night on a deserted road stay in the city or a place that is familiar with you and call your family/friends and tell them where you are and where your headed and what's your eta. Carry a cellphone %26amp; get a thing like on-star that is found in new vehicles. That service is now carrying a phone service.
First of all all women should KNOW not to take deserted roads that are not heavily traveled home or anywhere. If your afraid of something happening, stay off the road late at night. Invest in buying a newer car that is under warranty
carry a weapon
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