1.) Women don't base their choices of men on how ';nice'; a guy is. Being nice doesn't make a woman FEEL that powerful ATTRACTION. They CANNOT feel the emotion of ATTRACTION towards you.
All of the ';nice';things that you've done for women seem to always result in the woman pulling away.It's because they find your nice-guy ';Wuss';behaviors to be ANNOYING: Sharing ';feelings';, Seek approval, Accepting her demands, bossy-ness, and manipulative requests; Being her doormat and putting your own needs aside, pursuing her and making compliments like ';You're the greatest thing in the world and I'm going to chase you around and try to buy your attention';.
And even though he's doing a lot of ';nice'; things for the women he's interested in, he can't keep one around for more than a date or two. Also man begging a woman to stay... pleading with her to explain what he has to do to keep her annoys women.
2.)Not Knowing EXACTLY What To Do In Each Type Of Situation With Women is bad : if you don't know exactly what to do and
exactly HOW to kiss her, and you just sit there looking at her and getting nervous, she won't help! It is VITALLY important that you know EXACTLY how to go from one step to the next with a woman... from the first meeting, all the way to the bedroom.
3.) How many times have you taken a woman out to a
nice dinner, bought her gifts and flowers, and had
her REJECT you for someone who didn't treat her
even HALF as well as you did?When you do these things, you send a clear message: ';I don't think you'll like me for who I am, so
I'm going to try to buy your attention and
affection';.And one thing that turns an attractive women
off and sends her running away faster than just
about anything is a guy who starts saying ';You
know, I really, REALLY like you'; after one or two
dates. This signals to the woman that you're just like
all the other guys who fall for her too fast...
and can't control themselves. Don't do it. Lean back. Relax.
For women:do you think these ';advices'; are true or false about you ?
1) I think that only applies to whiny, immature women. Women who are older and looking for a serious relationship tend to look for those qualities more than teenagers looking for a casual boyfriend. It's because older women want a calm and steady relationship, usually because they have the rest of their lives to deal with, and need a strong, caring man to lean on. Teenage girls are all about drama, and enthusiastically go for guys who bring more of it into their lives.
2) It may not matter if you know EXACTLY how to do everything, but it really does help set the mood a lot better if a guy isn't sweating bullets because he's so nervous. He needs to have confidence in his body and sexuality in order for anything intimate to work. That doesn't mean you need to be a sex expert, but it's definitely good if the guy has confidence in seducing his woman. Otherwise it can be weird, awkward, or even funny...
3) I agree with the point about expressing feelings too fast. Early on in a relationship, you're both still testing the waters, and getting too strong of a message from either side is unsettling. You want to take it easy for a while and just have fun with eachother before getting serious, so naturally, having a guy telling he practically loves you after 2 or 3 dates is kind of a turn-off.For women:do you think these ';advices'; are true or false about you ?
it depends. it might be true for many women, but the mature ones know how to value a nice guy. and you want the mature women, don't you? if not, if you just want a one-night stand, then yeah, be a stuck up @#$ and they'll love you.
i don't think that is fair, not all women are like that, just some, its like only some guys are self centred and others are decent
Whine a little bit more, Holden Caufield.
Too much reading but I got the gist of it. Bottom line no two women are the same, no two humans are. Would a list compiled that way about ALL men describe you in every detail along with your dad and best bud? I think not.
So Be yourself and hopefully you will attract someone as genuine or not as you are.
One love.
all are true, and false.
1) a nice guy is nice to have. you feel special and loved. but if they are too nice, it doesn't seem like its a relation ship going both ways. be considerate and kind. but don't be too ';nice';
2) some women might be just as nerves as the guy, and they are looking at them for help, but they wont show it. or they know exactly what they want and in that case they will probably do all they can to tell the guy (or hint it) either way, if you have no idea what you are doing or how you should do it, its probably not as big of a deal as you think it is.
3) too much to fast is never good. taker her out to dinner. buy her flowers a different time, and buy her a gift at a different time. that way its not as fast and you have more options open for other days. but not all girls see it as too much. some love the sweet act and might appreciate more. if you know what girl you are dating, than you will know what advice is better. honestly, you might be better off just doing what you think she would like best.
lol. Seen these comments before. I am not a women but I am from the pick up artist community. These believes are based on David Deanglo unless I am mistaken. There are so many different ways to be successful with women and his ideas are one of them.
The best thing is to read about different styles and apply the one suit your personality best. Being good with women has been very advanced since David D.
Some of these techniques are for a player lifestyle so it might not really be attractive to girls who wants more stability.
All the qualities that every one would agree (even women) that you need to build attraction are follows
Good communicator
Confident
Charms
Humour
maintaining good eye contact
good body language
having principals
having self esteem
understanding the need of that particular women
I hope the answer didn't go too long. If you have all these attributes you shouldn't need to worry about the techniques. Techniques are not that important it's the inner belief.
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