Wednesday, August 18, 2010

I just met this girl and... women over 30 please give me some advice..?

i met this girl in the park a weeks ago when i was walking my dog. I saw her a second or third time earlier this week. We stopped and talked , walked together with the dogs and ended up going to lunch.. we exchanged numbers and met at park and talked all this week so far and then we went to dinner a few nights ago. It went great we sat and talked.. and continue to meet at the park.. we are planning for dinner again this weekend..and she wants to bring her best friend with to meet me.. is that a good thing? also please advise.. i really like her and we get along good how long should i wait and when and how should i ask her out..? her b day is coming up next month and shes a few yrs older than me.. can some woman give me some advise on the situation plzzzzz thxI just met this girl and... women over 30 please give me some advice..?
Let her bring her friend.





She is more than likely not comfortable enough with you yet to wing it alone. Give her her comfort zone this time, but next time if she insist on a friend think twice.





And I would think that over 30 she would be more confident in her decisions rather than have to have the approval of a friend.





Birthday? Keep the first one simple. If you go overboard too fast she will expect too much of you.





Make sure your bases are covered before going head over heals for someone you really do not know yet.





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Until you have a good relationship going and you know that the feelings are mutual, meaning she returns the good deeds and she does not just expect them, keep it simple. Thoughtful but simple. For her birthday maybe a dinner out and a nice card. For Valentines Day a single rose and a box of chocolates with a nice card would be fine. If you can have it delivered to her work then it would be fine and make her day special. That evening make reservations somewhere to have a ice dinner out.





But by then you may have blossomed into a full fledge relationship and then you can be a bit more extravagant.





You have a lot going for you already in that she sees you as a compassionate person and a dog lover like her.





Good luck to you!





But you really need to see how this first evening goes with her friend. Her friend could be very influential with her and not se what she sees in you and she could turn the whole thing around.





Slow easy steps. Don't seem like you are pushy.I just met this girl and... women over 30 please give me some advice..?
I think you should go and meet her friend. Have a good time and relax. Don't try to over think things. If you get too stressed over what to do next you will not be yourself. You can kill any interest by over thinking it. Just be charming and thoughtful to her and you can't loose.
Hey, I think this great. She is bringing her friend along to check you out, girlfriends do that! It sounds as though you are starting a great relationship and I wish you all the best on your mission. . .If this is the one for you, you will know. .
seems she has serious intentions about u, so, all doubts aside and move on, make her a cute b-day present with gorgeous bunch of flowers, the most important thing-do not be greedy and be sincerely romantic with her, and make her feel special with u!
Okay this is all good. Yes her bringing a friend to meet you is good news. First it shows that she has been telling her friends about you; meaning you are on her mind after your dates. I'm sure that she wants to get her friends opinion of you. She had her friends before she met you so she is in effect seeing where you will fit in. For her birthday....flowers are always a safe starting point.
go for it she probably just wants her friend to check you out completely normal good luck
i think shes taking her best pal along for a 2nd opinion on you...she has prob talked lots about you to her girlfriend (which is a good thing) and want her pal to meet you to confirm her good opinion of you... im a woman and thats what i would do too!





i wouldnt fret, go out and enjoy the evening...dont treat it as an inspection...this girl you like would not bother with dinners and getting to know you better if she was not interested, you like her and she likes you so play it cool and calm and you will win her over, good luck!
She's bringing her friend to scope you out! She wants the ok from another party, whom she trusts. If you pass the friends test then you are in. After that little test you can ask her if she would like to be your girlfriend. I'm sure she really likes you if she's doing the friend test. Just be yourself. And, age means nothing sweetie really. I bet you probably have something in mind for her upcoming birthday. Which is really romantic %26amp; sweet! Thats what all us women want... thoughtful, romantic, %26amp; considerate! It seems you have all that down there! So, have fun %26amp; Good Luck!!!
in my opinion age do not matter if your inner is saying girl is good you should continue you should convess her to meet alone you are not kids or teenager you should go alone there is no need of her friend you both should takesome time if you find all things well then only you should gofurther because in starting couples do not show there real nature
congo man

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