What should I do next? (I want EVERY woman's advice)?

A few months ago, towards the end of the summer, I met a woman who I thought was great from the moment that I noticed her. The second time that I saw her, we had a discussion about random things with a few other people and afterwards, I asked and received her phone number. For the first few weeks, we hit it off really well. We talked when we had the chance but texted for what turned out to be hours. After a few weeks, we had a great time just walking and enjoy the sites together, which turned out to be really romantic. We ended up kissing for the 1st and probably 6th time in that one night. For approx. the next 2 weeks, that momentum carried on but by the end of that, things changed. When I tried to kiss her, she wouldn't want to, we didn't see each other much and talked on the phone minimally. When I asked her if something was wrong, she said ';No, I've just been busy'; which is reasonable, but nothing's changed. It's been months. What do you think that I should do? More details coming.What should I do next? (I want EVERY woman's advice)?
Gosh, it could be any number of things. She was just infatuated, she was leading you on (Why ?) or she has found someone else that she is now infatuated with. For some people (women and men) it's all about the chase and the excitement of a new relationship. When the novelty is gone they are ready to move on. These are only guesses ... If it were me in this situation, and she couldn't give me a better answer than ';I've just been busy';, I would back off for awhile and see how she responds to the distance between you. If she is really interested in you or wants a closer relationship with you ... she'll let you know.What should I do next? (I want EVERY woman's advice)?
I think you should leave her behind......shes probably cheating on u........find a girl who wants to kiss .... i mean she (says) shes to busy but with what guys or work????thats my question
Obviously ';been busy'; is her way of telling you that ';you're not numero uno anymore';. She's been busy with someone else or something more important than you.





She tried you, liked you for a while, now she's ready to move on.





So should you.
she might be seeing someone else or maybe she really is busy, but just wait out and see what happens
Okay this sounds harsh, But it seems like shes gone off you, And doesnt want to tell you and hurt you. She obviously cares about you though, Just back off for a bit, only text if she texts you, If she doesnt text at all for about a week send a text asking how she is and that so she doesnt forget you, She probly just needs some space, Good luck x
If she's not opening up to you and it's been months, then clearly she has trust issues. It's obvious to you (and even to me!) that there's something bothering her, and because she won't talk about it and openly discuss her feelings, it's obvious that she is having a hard time trusting you 100%. This is probably because she's been hurt by some jerk(s) in the past. I know it's not your fault, but DON'T BLAME HER for being scared to open up. It's really hard to trust again after having your heart broken.


Keep being yourself, caring for her and letting her know she can count on you- and hopefully, she will finally realize she can trust you and she'll open up. Until then, be patient.


Good luck! :)
Sounds like she's trying to back off. Maybe she freaked herself out by getting so close so fast. Give her some space. If its meant to work between you she'll make her way back and it wll be better. But dont hold on so tight in case.
play the field, until you find that right one





ask her straight up does she want serious relationship with you





maybe she wants to go slow with things





. . . .





ask her if shes still intrested in you, if shes not then you dont have to waste your time on her
This actually happened to a guy i had been talking with not too long ago. I really liked him at first, and we started getting close, then i pushed him away. It seems to happen with a lot of girls. They tend to freak themselves out, and find ';flaws'; in a man. Not that there's anything wrong with you, but when we get freaked out , when tend to come up with every reason in the book to stray away from a relationship.





Just respect her wishes of taking it slow...Maybe offer to take her out a night she is free, to take her mind out of the chaotic schedule she has. Just make her feel as comfortable as possible around you, and see if she'll make a move. Definitely ask her about it though you know? Ask her what she wants in a relationship and those sort of things.





hope that helped
For WHATEVER reason, she has cooled off. Let it go for a while and see if she comes to You. If not, it's over.
Ask her what's wrong and why she's acting that way. And apologize right away for ANYTHING you may have said/done.
I don't need more details to tell you that ';she's just not that into you'; Whatever it was that pushed her buttons, those buttons aren't being pushed anymore. She doesn't want to share why. She may not know the reason herself.





Let her go.
How old are y'all? If you are over 50, it could be hormonal, and not mean anything.





If you are a lot younger than that, try chocolate, flowers, and wine! Tf that doesn't work, keep looking!





';If she won't love, you cannot make her! The devil take her!';
ok, since you want 'every woman's advice' here's mine....I think she is backing off....not enough info to know why, but for some reason....backing off.....


I think u shouls back off, too, and see where it goes from there...
maybe she saw things were getting serious with you %26amp; she didnt want a serious relationship at the moment. shes probally giving you space from her so the relationship doesnt get too serious. i bet shes like me...she likes the beginng of a relationship but when things gets too serious i dont wanna say iM scared that the feelings will be different but just ugh...it hard to explain its a girl thing...maybe shes in a point in her life where she likes being single but still having sumbody on the side without being serious with them then agian it could be the fact that some people are scared of relationships.
I think you should just give it some time and see if things change and go back to how they use to be, if they dont you should really sit her down and try to talk to her to see whats really good with you two.
It sounds like your lady friend is waiting for you to either crap or get off the pot! Sorry to be so blunt but there is nothing more irritating than a man who will not ask what a woman wants, needs or expects in the relationship. If I am no longer interested in a man that is when I suddenly get ';busy'; and no longer talk much or see him. You need to ask her out for coffee and have a talk as to what she is expecting from you, what she would like to do with the relationship and if she is still interested in persuing one with you. Better you find out now what her ';intentions'; are before you get any deeper in with her. Best of luck to you and take charge! Don't be bossy and have an attitude but most women like a man who can make decisions!
Enlighten that Spirit of yours %26amp; move on; never settle for someone who doesn't want you around.
Gosh, it's hard to say. From the info you have given it sounds like she did a 360. Women at times don' t want to hurt others feelings. Perhaps you should tell her what you have posted. Not word for word but let her know that things aren't the same and that it's totally fine if she's honest with you. It's better to let you now if something is wrong than down the line. Usually when you have a feeling something is wrong other then ';being busy'; it usually it. Good Luck :)
ok, what did you do....
i wouldn't attempt to contact her anymore. some women grow curious from a lack of attention...maybe she would.
Maybe she is not as in to it anymore. But she could be scared. She might have lost someone close who she fell in love with before. She may be scared of love. She may just not know what to do. Just try to talk to her. She just may have a difficult problem in her life that has nothing to do with you and needs someone to talk to about it. And you should be that person. Good Luck! :]
thats really tough. if your friends with any of her friends you could ask them if anythings up, usually girls friends like to help the guy out, unless the guy did something stupid. dont push to hard, of corse, but still try to do romantic things so she thinks of you in the best possible way, you want her to think about you and the good things about you, not flaws. well, thats the best i got. good luck!


~ccroks
You should move on. It sounds like she changed her mind about how she felt about you and didn't know how to tell you so she just let it fade away... sorry.
It sounds like her feelings have cooled. I would step back for a while; if she's into you, she'll make a step in your direction. If not, look elsewhere.
It sounds as though she is not interested in you anymore. There are plenty of great women out there. The worse they can say if you ask them out is ';no.'; Keep trying, don't stop asking women out that you think are attractive. The more you talk to women, the better you will get at being able to figure out what they like and what they don't like, and the easier it will be to talk and not text all the time.
what do you mean sites? where you on vacation or living somewhere else temporarily?
Two weeks used to be my limit too.


You get tired of guys because they become too serious too soon and become clingy.


I don't see much hope here if she's been avoiding you especially when she didn't want to kiss you, that's like the kiss of death. Er. Figuratively of course. More details please.
My first thought would be....';Has she met someone else?';..... That is what usually happens.......So just ask her to be honest with you.......Only if you think you can handle it.....





Good Luck
Honestly, it sounds to me like she might have met someone else. You guys had some great, romantic dates obviously but any time a relationship is new, there is what I call the ';feeling out'; stage, which can last quite a while. I would straight up ask her if she is dating someone else. It's possible that you maybe wanted to get too close too fast while she was still maybe not wanting to be exclusive. The best thing to do is to ask her if she is seeing someone else. Sure sounds that way to me.
snag that azz