I'm the other woman. advice please?

I am having an affair with a married co-worker. It's been going on for a couple of months. It's completely out of character for me and the guilt is eating at me. on the other hand, i care about him a lot and i don't want to lose him. I want to put a stop to it (I tried once already) but seeing him at work almost everyday doesn't help at all. Please enlighten me on how to handle this situation.I'm the other woman. advice please?
You goofed............lay the law down........to him and STOP seeing him or quit ur job...............u chose this path ...now u pay the price........I hope you know that you committed ADULTERY as well as he. You do not have to be married to commit it....only one of you.


You better get on ur hands and knees to God and beg forgiveness.


He is a Loser, too. Is that the kind of man that you would want????? Was this ALL a game to YOU????????


Don't u think that he would do the same to you ONE day. He has no morals either. You should do yourself the courtesy of informing HIS wife so that she KNOWS the SCUM that she is married to. ...all the while he goes home and smiles in HER face..............


d o g sI'm the other woman. advice please?
i agree with the first person.
He is a married man you should have never fallen into that temptation, its wrong but try to get away and not let those emotions get to you in your head! move on and find a person who is single and wants love.
well, youre always going to be the other woman, and i dont think he really intends to leave his wife for you, espically if he has kids. if you want it to end, he wont be the one to do it, hes getting what he wants from you already. youve got to be the bigger person and tell hiim its wrong, stop seeing each other outside of work, and maybe even quit your job to make things right.
an affair is horrible. if you are truly serious about ending it, you need to end it. you don't want to lose him? obviously, he's a cheater and i doubt that he'll leave his wife for you. you are cheating yourself by giving yourself to a man who isn't available. if you need to quit your job in order to end the relationship, then that is what needs done. it's very inconvenient, i know, but these are the consequences you face from choosing to have an affair
Drop him. You already have at least 2 strikes against you, dating a co-worker and he's married. You can only go down from there.......
last summer i was cheated on by my boyfriend.


he had sex with another girl that knew he was already with me.


i had never been so hurt in my entire life.


put yourself in her shoes. you say that you really care about this guy, so what if you were his wife and you were the one getting cheated on?
Wow. You messed around with someone at work AND he's married? Double whammy there. Let it go before someone gets hurt. Most importantly, his wife.