Back ground- we seperated for about 1.5 months, he was supposed to just be hanging out with his friends. Also this girl I haven;t seen her since like 2 years ago, or heard her name, so why now she is calling a new number that no one had. I'm 4.5 months pregnant with our first child. He told me that he didn't do anything while we were seperated..
What do I do...I'm about to flip out..drive to his work and god knows what else..
When I talked to her on the phone she said it was to tell him her brother is in the hospital. LiarsOMG...I just found out my hubby has been talking to this other woman, need advice before I blow up?
Calm down. Nothing good will come of being so mad you're ready to pop. Talk to him about what you know - let him explain - but do it reasonably and without having a conniption fit.
What he did while you were separated is his business unless he shares it with you. It isn't good for the baby to get so worked up!
Nothing makes a man lie faster than being confronted with a tantrum hon.OMG...I just found out my hubby has been talking to this other woman, need advice before I blow up?
It sounds like he's been fooling around while you're carrying his child! He sounds like a pig to me. Don't stand for being treated this way.
Calm down, your health and the health of your baby is at stake, get control of yourself this instant.
You need to talk with your husband, sort his out, if you are separated, then obviously there are other issues that went wrong with your marriage.
Try and talk to him with clarity, figure out if you want to work out this relationship, if not, best to get a divorce and not deal with this mess.
confront him and leave his lame a^%26amp;
anyone who cheats on his wife is lame and he probably doesnt love u. this reminds me of ';Ex Wives Club'; on ABC. The only advice I can give u is to leave him and get another man who will treat u rite and go to god.
leave him. sounds like a cheater. just watch the blood pressure, you wanna keep baby safe.
can you say child support and alimony???
do not blow up on him, u are pregnant u need to try to stay calm for the baby, get rid of his lying cheating @ss !!! the biggest mistake is blowing up and showing him how hurt u really are, let him go, have his stuff packed when he gets home if u live together. after hes gone cry or do whatever u gotta do, if he sees u upset hes obviously gonna try to calm u down and tell u what u wanna hear so you'll stay with his dumb@ss. don't give him the chance to do this u and your baby deserve much better than that, act like u don't care
Act like you know more than he thinks you know. Tell him that he ';better tell you every fricken detail of what's going on, because you found proof'; be very vague(even if you don't know anything) ;) . Threaten to leave him if he doesn't fess up to everything ';you know';. He'll be to scared to lie, and caught off guard. If he really didn't do anything, he should still understand why you were concerned, if he cares for you. Plus ,you don't need this kind of stress, you are pregnant. I hope it works out, and you definitely have the right to be pissed.
I wouldn't trust any of this, but I don't suggest you go to his job that could cause him to lose his job just wait until he gets home and clown his lying a s s
Keep your kool document everything then contact your attorney and drop the bomb on him . If you threaten him with that and he still cheats you go amunition but it would be better to catch him in act with investigator .
Well, at least now you know the truth. What you do and how you deal with this will follow you your whole life. Try to be calm and make the best decisions you can for yourself and your child.
Try never to make life-changing decisions when you are (1) angry, (2) suspicious of your spouse without absolute proof of his wrongdoing and (3) when your hormones are out of whack because you are expecting.
Ask you husband if everything is ok between you, and listen to his answer. Be rational and do not over-react. Give him the benefit of the doubt unless future behavior on his part gives you good reason to do otherwise. (Wouldn't you expect him to do the same for you? Sometimes, old friends just call, and it's no big deal.)
If all he did was talk to her, count your blessings, assume he is worthy of your trust and go forward with your plans to be a good wife and mother.
He is clearly telling the truth. Don't worry about innocent calls. I think he deserves and appology.
ha ha ha you go BOOM!!! oh and 2 points
BLOW UP on his ***. Sounds like a cheater to me.
flip.
this deserves an explanation
Calm down, the stress is not good for the baby. Dont do anything on the phone, wait until he gets home from work, then talk to him. Ask him whats going on, what went on and tell him you want the truth not a load of crap. Just stay calm, anger will only make him hit the door running.
first of all these men cannot be trusted and you cannot believe anything they tell you . trust me i m married . another don't stress yourself and your unborn child . do what you feel about your situation. confront him at home not at his job that's ghetto and he'll never let u forget that u did that even if he's in the wrong.
I agree that they are lying. You need to calm down. You are pregnant and I am afraid of what you might do right now in this state. I would confront him when he got home and tell him that I know about him and (the girl's name) and see what he says. After that, you can decide what you want to do. Good Luck to you!
Please forgive him. It was an honest mistake, Nancy.
Well to make sure it's a sure thing if you have his phone maybe you can text her and she'll think it's him and see what she says... then confront him so you'll have proof and so he can't give you bullshit lies.
Well I would definitely have a good word with him. The fact that she left a text saying something about being tasted is pretty much a good indicator that something went on before or is starting again. Sorry to say that but sounds like your husband needs a good whack and an ultimatum, no respectable husband or bf should be texting and talking secretively to some other girl knowing you would not like it, and the fact your pregnant shows how thoughtless he is being. Try to stay calm for baby's sake but I would work him over, he has some explaining to do big time.
Move on with your new baby. You don't someone like that. He is obviously cheating on you.
first of all, your pregnant. you shouldn't be upset. i understand he's hiding something but what does that do for you? nothing. the best thing you can do is take it easy. if he's cheating you'll find out. cheaters never get too far until they get found out. secondly i can tell your a smart woman, don't let a long excuse tell you what hes really telling you. short and sweet is the truth, if he cares about you and the baby he will understand that your on the edge with a situation like this. if my husband had some other girl calling here i would kill him, or better yet i would make sure she understood that i cant talk to other men so he cant talk to other women.
if its a cover up you'll know, but don't let it get the best of you. there are plenty of people that have been there and back, they have survived. with or without the other person. just keep calm and don't jump to anything. let him explain.
Leave that loser. There is obviously something going on.
Sounds like hes been busted to me ..........
wait untill he gets home don't cause him a scene at work ...
Of course he cheated. He has a d.i.c.k. don't he?
Don't go to his job, don't flip too hard. While you are pregnant is not the time to get physical with his sorry tail. Call this skank back and ask her when did she get his number. Grill her @$$ like she was a witness to a crime!! Ask her every question that you can think of.
Record it if possible and when he gets home let him hear it.
He will make up some lame excuse and will say she is lying, so have her in the back room so she can hear it, or at least on the phone listening. Let them both know that you don't like what is going on and it had better stop.
Be calm and stern, but get your point across.
Peace
well what you need to do first is talk about with him tell him yo know and how could he do that and if his a *** hole and he tell you is not true how can is not if i have proof then you know his not worth it and let go i know is not so ease but a woman got her pride and no man should mess it up right that what i think bu bye
Of course they are liars, he gave her the new number when you two were apart for those few months, he also just may have slept with her so that is why she is still calling him. You are pregnant so you can not go crazy like you want but what you can do is tell him that if he does not get this under control then he will have to go to court just to see his child and then you begin your paperwork for child support because you didn't do this by yourself.
You've already made up your mind that they are liars and i agree so go blow up and dump this jackass. Your child deserves better for a role model.
Why don't you go see if her brother is in the hospital? Tell your boyfriend that you want to go with him. If he refuses, then you know it's a lie and you can dump him
Stop talking to her. She is not your friend %26amp; is not going to tell you the truth. If she likes him she is going to look to make trouble and if she is doing him she is going to lie so he is not mad at her. He is the one who needs to answer and explain what the deal is. I know your upset with her but, who gave her the number and it could be nothing. I would get more information stay calm and remember actions speak louder then words look at what he does (body lanuage) when you ask. Ask calmly and be nice about it as he will expect you to blow up and yell if you are calm and nice he will be caught off guard. That is how you get the upper hand by him NOT knowing what to expect.
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