Saturday, August 21, 2010

Women I need some advice?

Ok I have a women friend that's in denial about her relationship with her ex husband that she spend a ';lot'; of time with him ,he has since married again and she called everyday or was some way involve in there relationship all the time that ended with his 2nd wife blaming her for always being there business Ok she claims she don't want him back,but she's always using the child has the excuse to talk to him,he cheated on her that's why there not together,but she said there are good friends now. Is it normal to friends with a cheating ex?Women I need some advice?
I think the reality of the situation is that she still very much is in love with her ex-husband. Just because he cheated on her, that his love for her dwindled, doesn't mean her love for him has died.





she is having a hard time letting go. she doesn't want someone who will cheat on her but she is having a hard time with the fact he is married to someone else and is probably treating the new wife better than she was treated. probably why she is checking in so much. for her she just has to know what is going on with her ex.





There is no normal when it comes to ex spouces. If her and her ex can be good to each other for the sake of their child. that is a rare blessing.Women I need some advice?
Personally, I would not remain friends with a cheating ex.
Civil perhaps but not friendly
RED FLAG!!!!!! Be civil for the kids ; otherwise GO AWAY
it's normal to call for the kid, but not just to socialize.
If he cheated on her AND he got remarried AND she still has feelings for him (which is obvious), you need to walk away from her. Just end it and move on. No matter what you do and how perfect you could be with her, she's still going to want him. She may say she doesn't want him and that she doesn't love him, but she's obviously lying and trying to have a connection with you and him at the same time. She must also be on Cloud-9 that he got a divorce. Now she probably thinks she has a chance again. You may not see it, being a man, but I, as a woman, can tell you that she sounds borderline-obsessed with the guy. I'm sorry to say this, but she's nuts. Just plain nuts.

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