Sunday, July 25, 2010

Does anyone have any advice for woman that has not ever been able to get off?

she can get off clitorally, but not with penetration. she is 24 years old... thxDoes anyone have any advice for woman that has not ever been able to get off?
Remember that orgasms are as much mental as they are physical. Possibly even more mental.





It could be a mental block, maybe it's something to do with your partner?





Most women orgasm better clitorally, I believe the whole process of penetration and love making, together with foreplay can provide the greatest amount of satisfaction.Does anyone have any advice for woman that has not ever been able to get off?
This means that you're in the 80%+ category of women who MUST rely upon clitoral stimulation in order to attain orgasm.





Less than 20% of all women can reach orgasm via vaginal intercourse....and even then not 100% of the time.





So if you want to have an orgasm DURING sex, then you will need to learn to masturbate yourself DURING penetration.





Sorry, but this is just a brutal and basic fact of life and sex.
There is a wonderful book out that I recommend to clients with this problem. It's called '; Are having any fun yet?'; The intelligent woman's guide to sex, by Marcia Douglass, PhD and Lisa Douglass, PhD. ISBN:0-7868-6197-5





This is a excellent source of information for both the woman and her partner. Yes you can have orgasm with penetration if you know how to do it properly. This book will teach you about your body, it's responses and what to do and not do.





Good Luck
Well, I think one must have some toy play and better conversation with the person that they are with. Learn what things work and what doesn't...Sorry, some women do not have the nerve endings and sadily will never achieve orgasm through penetration...That is way oral techniques are favored...





Good luck!!!
Try a vibrating egg during sex. Also try different positions and dont be afraid to her what feels good to her
it take some practice I guess. The guy needs to know how to make it work with penetration. It takes longer and one needs to know how to touch the right spots. but when it happens, both will feel great amount of pleasure. Well I almost feel like mine is getting crushed.
Take a vibrator to bed with you, she can hold the vib. where it feels good, while you're pounding her. Works great doggie style, and feels great to the guy also!
As you already know, the best way to orgasm is by direct stimulation of your clitoris. During sex you need to make sure your partners penis is in contact with your clitoris. His body needs to be higher than yours so that during sex his penis is in contact with your clit. This will take a bit of practise , but it is well worth it. If this seems too hard, slip your finger in to rub your clit during sex.

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