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Men or women would you put up with this?


i was seeing this guy and we decided to stop simply bc we are both busy and i wanted to plan like a day or 2 days ahead when we could see each other. i dont see a problem with that. it made him mad. we are both 31and have other friends, family, ect.... it would always aggravate him or he would say i cant tell you till the day before or the day of. he would get a little upset when i already had plan but what am i suppose to do not make plan bc he might call. well sat. i asked him - monday would you want to hang out at 730. he said 80 percent certain- 10 percent late- 10 misc.- other plans, sick, ect.. he said i cant say for sure and i dont like making plans. in my opinion if a man wants you, he will plan 2 to 3 days ahead of time- not detailed plans, but at least days to see each other. i would do that for a friend. i feel like he is being childish bc i do not need to see the person i am dating daily, but what is wrong asking a day, two, three ahead. is he being a jerk and selfish


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i think u already answered youre own question....I don't think he is being a jerk ..per sayy.....i just think he is being a kid.......albeit a big big kid....youre right! if someone wants to spend time with you he will do that regardless of anything else....if its his work that stops him from making a date with a sprcific time then i think u shud re consider as making a living is on top of everyones list of prioroties....but if its not...then dnt bother with the guy.....if someone wants u he will do anything to be with u....(u deserve it right)....and there is nothing wrong with making plans ahead of time.....dnt doubt urself girl.....i think he is waiting to see whats his best plan and commit on that...i think u shud be with someone who knows u r always the best planPLEASE READ - need advice of both men and women?
i always ask about when i can see my boyfriend next, i have two jobs, ones a casual job for a bit of extra money and i need to know whether he is up for doing something, or i can book time at work.





i dont see anything wrong with asking are you free on wednesday to do something in the evening.





i think you are being very reasonable.